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Attention What are you doing at the moment? 2024-25

my god i hate mondays in the office.

i think i need to start taking long weekends every week.
 
It really does...after 3 months of non-stop illness, we have lost a huge amount of puff and if we do anything social or busy on Saturday or Sunday, we just feel wiped out on Monday.

Fortunately, next Monday is Family Day in Ontario, so we'll get that extra nap time in.
 
I went out to get a blood test and also bought gas at $3.03 this morning. Another station had the price at $3.15. A little later I was out and the station that had been $3.15 was now up to $3.39, but then I realized that the other side of their sign said $3.15. I went around the block and back to them to let them know that their sign had two different prices on it so they could fix it before they got into a fight with a customer.

A crown had fallen out of my tooth on Saturday and I made an appointment with my dentist and they let me know that I would need a new crown and a post and after my insurance it would cost me $609.00. Before insurance the total bill was over $1800. I am glad that they warned me.
 
Sitting through a seminar....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
 
Met someone much younger than I who I really like. But I'm afraid. :confused:
 
Vannie said:
Met someone much younger than I who I really like. But I'm afraid. :confused:
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Vannie said:
I'm realizing how absolutely miserable Iam being alone.

I used to love being alone.
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I am guessing that you liked being alone when you had your partner, because he was always there.

You met someone that is younger and like, then enjoy the company of who you like.
 
backagain said:
I am guessing that you liked being alone when you had your partner, because he was always there.
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No. I just meant when I was younger it didn't bother me at all to be alone or without a partner.
 
Vannie said:
No. I just meant when I was younger it didn't bother me at all to be alone or without a partner.
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Van, I'm not expecting a life partner, because I've never had one, but I am planning on being more integrated socially. I've always hosted parties, had a church family, been in a choir or band, and went to concerts, and other events.

Since being in Alabama, I've run out of options here. The churches are all either ridiculously conservative or closed off or lame. The things I used to do like Texas Holdem trournaments, I can't find (looked again Sunday on Meetup). My neighbors seem to either be neurotic, manic, bipolar, or homophobic. The only community choir I considered meets in the Baptist Church, so no.

The gay bowling league here, the Meetup group, and a men's gay group were all dysfunctional. None were places where anyone made friends really, just gathered as like minds. It was all pretty inane.

I've stopped going to events like concerts, as they are just not as enjoyable with no one to share them with. And there are never any good plays here, only the Disney kind of stories. My circle has grown very small, and my friends all elsewhere. I've even found myself stopping reaching out to them as I think I resent their lives. Most are straight, married, have children, and are happy in their communities.

My point in all that is that I'm not happy in Alabama, but am making plans to move and try again elsewhere. Looking forward is what pulls me through the work, and the planning, and the pain of having to move. I hope you'll keep focus on your next opportunity, be it the younger guy or whatever, and not be too down about the current lag.
 
Vannie said:
Met someone much younger than I who I really like. But I'm afraid. :confused:
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For heaven's sakes...

If you like them, enjoy the time together for what it is in the moment.

Of course you are afraid. But wow. You are being given a chance at the very least to develop long term friendship.

Carpe Diem.
 
Vannie, I'm sure you'll find someone. One day, you'll meet a handsome gay guy. And when he mentions: "I own a cabbage farm" you'll know this is Meant To Be!
 
NotHardUp1 said:
Van, I'm not expecting a life partner,
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I pessimistically don't expect one either. :cry: I was in a serious case of denial that I'm gay for much of my life. Part of me wonders now why it was even worth bothering with acceptance? I don't really think any relationship is likely, let full partner.

A couple of therapists have had a line about how as one grows older, one might get a relationship that has a large practical element (e.g., someone to share housing costs with). I'm sure these therapists mean well...but this picture is sort of depressing.

NotHardUp1 said:
I am planning on being more integrated socially. I've always hosted parties, had a church family, been in a choir or band, and went to concerts, and other events.

Since being in Alabama, I've run out of options here.
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I'm very socially isolated. And this is another topic that comes up with therapists, with no apparent solutions. :cry: I feel very much at times like I really don't have any hope of fitting in anywhere.

Years back, some circumstances were better, and I was able to get to various events. I was aggressive about it for a while, but never connected with anyone, even though I was careful to be at the event during any social interaction time.

NotHardUp1 said:
The churches are all either ridiculously conservative
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A bit lighter than my whining about my problems above... But I remember a story about a minister on vacation that attended church in Florida. (Hoping to steal sermon ideas?) They were in minister transition, and they had some statement aimed at potential ministers that mentioned "liberal church." Oddly, he found the church to be pretty conservative for a liberal church. He felt like he was stepping back in time 20 years. Although he said it probably was very liberal for that area.
 
welp...got my RSV shot today.

so that is out of the way.

And did the weekly grocery haul so I can make pierogies on the weekend.

Martha Stewart's mom was my muse in the beginning and I still use her dough most often...but the fillings are now our thing.

My family day weekend project.
 
Thank you guys so much.

He is only 27 years old. Interracial with a gorgeous curly Afro. Eyes and smile do sweet I'm weak thinking about him.


No sex yet but he let me massage him for 40 minutes or so. I had precum happening all the time but hid my erection and excitment.

I will die happy if he just sits on my face for an hour or 12. :ROFLMAO:

Not sure about love but he certainly excites me like crazy. Thank again for listening Guys (*8*)
 
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