What constitutes losing your virginity for a gay?

[smarto0o]

I know like many people would say anal sex is losing your virginity for a gay guy but just wondering what everybody else thinks?

Basically, wanna know whether I can class myself as no longer a virgin?

 

[Rolyo85]

Well, to me having had anal sex (regardless of role) constitutes a loss of virginity. That said, I just think us gay guys have two ^_^

 

[M4P]

I'd say when you get naked with another guy and you get off together. I don't think it necessarily has to include anal or oral sex just so long as you've kissed and got off

 

[Rolyo85]

Well, if we follow at least some similarity to how girls lose theirs...

 

[EJMichaels]

been discussed many times here - try these

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=340975

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=283874

 

[Seasoned]

From Wikipedia:

"The term originally only referred to sexually inexperienced women, but has evolved to encompass a range of definitions, as found in traditional, modern, and ethical concepts. Heterosexual individuals may or may not consider loss of virginity to occur only through penile-vaginal penetration, while people of other sexual orientations may include oral sex, anal sex or mutual masturbation in their definitions of losing one's virginity."

 

[smarto0o]

Ok so all things considered with most people saying any form of sex means no longer virgin I think I lost my virginity at 16. How weird to realise that now! (21)

 

[Rolyo85]

I think any definition that doesn't involve anal sex is cheating

 

[gourami]

Virgin if you've never done anal.
Extra Virgin if you've never used your hands or mouth.

 

[Eagertoplease]

Going all the way oral or anal or handjob with another

 

[Eagertoplease]

I think you are splitting hairs.... Any sexual experience with another person would be losing virginity in gay sex, don't you think????.

 

[Rolyo85]

I have never heard of a straight guy saying he's lost his virginity to ANYTHING other than putting it inside a girl. Can't see why it should be different with us.

 

[bw92116]

What if someone didn't want to have anal sex, and had only oral sex for their entire sex life... would they still be considered a virgin?

 

[menRsexii]

^ I was just about to say that. Only a portion of the gay community enjoys anal. Would that mean that the rest would be virgins for life, even if they did other things with their partner or bf?

 

[hackingnomberr]

Having anal sex is also a lotabit more complicated than having sex with a vagina, I think frottage/oral would constitute as sex, mutual masturbation not so much.

 

[palemale]

Many heterosexual girls will only let their boyfriends fuck them in the ass so that they can remain virgins until they get married. So, I say you're a virgin until you fuck or get fucked.

Suzy Orman is a big dyke. I saw an interview where she said she had never been with a man, so she was the oldest virgin she knew. So, getting a tongue up your pussy or ass doesn't count.

 

[Rolyo85]

^ I was just about to say that. Only a portion of the gay community enjoys anal. Would that mean that the rest would be virgins for life, even if they did other things with their partner or bf?

A pretty big portion, I'd say

 

[mbamike]

Having anal sex is when a gay looses his virginity.