What do i do, did i get taken?

[Willie Boy]

Transfer it into his name. You originally set it up for him and gave it to him.

Don't sink to his level by being petty over his cheating. Be the bigger person and let him go, he isn't worth your time.

 

[dpnice]

destroy him

I couldn't have put any more succinctly.

What the hell why be nice?

Cut your bridges, clear the deck and stopping pitying about him.

 

[Willie Boy]

I re-itterate my response, do you really want to sink to his level? That makes you no better than him. If that's the type of person you are gonna be, then maybe you deserve to be cheated on.

Why not be the better person, and just wash your hands of him.

 

[rich-boy]

ok thanks for all the great ideas, i just like to add this, for that one year that we went out, i paid for his appartment 1.2k a month, so if you calculate that for 12 months, i paid 1.2k x 12 which i khnow most of you will say WHY WHY but i dont know, im a nice person and like to help those in need, so now that you guys know i not only helped him pay for his place for one year, but also got all the food and everything else, and after all this i get shafted, o whats even worse is, the day before i caught him cheating, he had the audacity to come to my house and grab that months check quickly and go home, and the next day is when i walked on him, so you see im a bit pissed off so why should i even give him the site..................

 

[dpnice]

destroy him

ok thanks for all the great ideas, i just like to add this, for that one year that we went out, i paid for his appartment 1.2k a month, so if you calculate that for 12 months, i paid 1.2k x 12 which i khnow most of you will say WHY WHY but i dont know, im a nice person and like to help those in need, so now that you guys know i not only helped him pay for his place for one year, but also got all the food and everything else, and after all this i get shafted, o whats even worse is, the day before i caught him cheating, he had the audacity to come to my house and grab that months check quickly and go home, and the next day is when i walked on him, so you see im a bit pissed off so why should i even give him the site..................

I was expecting something like this to come up which is why I agreed in totality with puka-pride.

Why be nice?

 

[Willie Boy]

i paid for his appartment 1.2k a month, so if you calculate that for 12 months, i paid 1.2k x 12 i not only helped him pay for his place for one year, but also got all the food and everything else, and after all this i get shafted

I thought the problem was he was shafting somebody new?

 

[rich-boy]

yes i caught him with someone else at his place where i was paying for, i got shafted as in i got fu$$#d over

i dont know, if someone can do this to me, then why do i have to be nice and give him this blog of his, screw him no?

I thought the problem was he was shafting somebody new?

 

[Willie Boy]

yes i caught him with someone else at his place where i was paying for, i got shafted as in i got fu$$#d over

i dont know, if someone can do this to me, then why do i have to be nice and give him this blog of his, screw him no?

The question is: Do you want to be just like him, or would you rather rise above it all?

 

[Soilwork]

knowing you took the high road is worth more than $5 a day.

 

[rich-boy]

well i guess its not the money or the site, its, do i do the nice thing or do i bother and deal with the entire bullcrap of transfering the site, and even talking to him to sort out this shit which i rather not even deal with

 

[rich-boy]

ya true that, ok i will just leave it be and if he contacts me or emailes me regarding the site, then i will just have to do whats right in my heart, deep down inside i want to do something to get back at him, but at the same time thats not in my character.....what a waste of money and a waste of one year this was

You answered your own question with "I rather not deal with".

 

[rich-boy]

how can i open a poll and ask this same question and see the results on a poll like rating? anyone?

 

[Dduder]

Ok so the story is, i date this cute boy for about a year, during the year, i hooked him up with a website, created the site, taught him how to update, and yes i even hooked him up with a server, etc. etc. so now he is making i think $5 a day by just doing an affiliate program, not that much money but my question is:::::::

I recently broke up with him ( i went to his house and saw him cheating on me to make the story short) and the website is all under my name from godaddy to the server to the backend, am i suppose to be a good guy and give him this site i mean transfer the site to his name or do i get back at him and keep the site to myself?

deep down inside, i want to be nice and give him what i started for him, and have him continue making a little money on teh side, but the other part of me says, well he cheated on me, why should i...... PLEASE anyone can you give me your opinion on this, thanks so much and ask me any question you would like.

Ha ha ha...oh, brother. You call yourself " rick boy" . Are you gona post pics of your Mercedes and hope that will lend you guys?

 

[rich-boy]

i dont drive Mercedes in fact i hate that car, i drive a honda

 

[Dduder]

i dont drive Mercedes in fact i hate that car, i drive a honda

But let me guess...you spend Summer in the Hamptons and want everyone to know it, right?

 

[metta]

Revenge is not the answer. I don't agree with people supporting that. Just do what you think is right, keep your self respect, and move on. The other guy has already lost his. There are pleanty of other guys out there.

 

[Willie Boy]

Revenge is not the answer. I don't agree with people supporting that. Just do what you think is right, keep your self respect, and move on. The other guy has already lost his. There are pleanty of other guys out there.

Finally someone else on here who has some sense!

 

[rich-boy]

Yes you are correct, i have been thinking about this for over a week now not knowing what to do, so yes thank you all for the help, i think i will keep my head up high and do teh right thing.
i will post again and let you guys know what happened, so i guess i will be emailing him and telling him that i will transfer all this to him and see what happens.....

i didnt want to be in contact with him but i guess i will have to.......

Revenge is not the answer. I don't agree with people supporting that. Just do what you think is right, keep your self respect, and move on. The other guy has already lost his. There are pleanty of other guys out there.

 

[rich-boy]

you are right, most people were for a positive outlook on this, so thanks again

^ Most of the responses didn't involve revenge Willie Boy - most of them involved giving him a grace period to take over the web site and cutting ties with him which is a fairly standard and reasonable response (even the ones that said destroy him said it in the sense of burn your bridges asap). You seem to have an unusual preoccupation with this thread for some reason - care to elaborate?

 

[littlephoenix]

good job, thats what i would do, be the better man