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What do i do, did i get taken?

ok im back with a new question regarding the same subject, so i ended up doing the transfer and he got the domain and everything was transfered to him so i had no more ties with this person, but just today, he emailes me asking me if i can fix the top banner side of the site for him, as its a little off centered, now what??????
i mean hes asking for my help now, do i help him or ignore him or tell him to F off, or what, really im trying to forget about him and this just makes things worse for me, wtf
anyone what do i do now?
 
Evidently the members of JUB are capable of giving support and extremely good advice at times.

But I am wondering if you are capable of making what seems to be a rather simple decision on your own. Surely you are not sitting at home waiting to see what we suggest before you take any action? :confused:
 
you're letting him walk all over you only now he doesn't have to pretend to be your boyfriend to get you to do anything for him. Are you going to pay his rent again just because you're a nice person and want to help him? Look what he did to you! Grow a pair and cut him out of your life. Stop being his door mat! I've learned early in life that there is such a thing as being too nice and people take advantage of that which is exactly what he is doing. Next thing you know, he'll have you coming over all the time. Do you want this to happen after what he did to you? You have to learn to say no to this guy!
 
You want my advice?

Quote a price. I bet he'll go running, and if he does then it proves he's using you to get free shit. If he really wants it, he can pay for it, because you owe him NOTHING.

Frankly, I'd have been tempted to invoice him for the profits he'd made on the website. I'd not uphold them, that'd be too much effort, but maybe if he spent a little while worried when the bailiffs were coming, he'd learn to have a little respect. In fact, it'd be better if you didn't uphold it; the longer the wait is, the more worrying it is, and he'd worry about it for months. And he'd see that this was a consequence of his infidelity.

In all honesty, you'd be doing the man a disservice to not try and teach him a lesson. He needs to realise that cheating isn't allowed. If he tries that shit on a man with violent tendencies, he'll have to spend the hour afterwards looking for his face on the floor.

Mate, I'm sorry to break this to you, but your attitude is making his attitude worse; if you lay down and ask someone to walk over you, they will. And that's exactly what he did. He had you set him up a nice little profit-maker, and all the while he slept with some other guy. That, my friend, is what walking all over someone looks like.

The fact that he still is, and that you're still considering letting him, almost makes me laugh. It's crazy...
 
rich-boy said:
ok im back with a new question regarding the same subject, so i ended up doing the transfer and he got the domain and everything was transfered to him so i had no more ties with this person, but just today, he emailes me asking me if i can fix the top banner side of the site for him, as its a little off centered, now what??????
i mean hes asking for my help now, do i help him or ignore him or tell him to F off, or what, really im trying to forget about him and this just makes things worse for me, wtf
anyone what do i do now?
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Sent this Email: Take a class on web design. Don't bother me any more have a nice day. * then delete and block*
 
You can do any of three things, all with their own special message:

1) Delete the e-mail and block his address. ('You're dead to me')
2) Send him a 'screw you' message. ('I want you out of my life')
3) Take Jeimuzu's advice and send him a quote. ('I have no personal attachment to you')

Pick one.
 
yes i actually am siting at my house and waiting for all your replies, i would not post for advice if i really didnt need it DUH, [-X,

To the rest of you, thank you for the help, i will just ignore his email, it just bothersome when im really trying to forget about this fool and move on and i get hit with yet another unwanted email. uffff ](*,)


dpnice said:
Evidently the members of JUB are capable of giving support and extremely good advice at times.

But I am wondering if you are capable of making what seems to be a rather simple decision on your own. Surely you are not sitting at home waiting to see what we suggest before you take any action? :confused:
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One can get a point across without being mean.

"Listen, Joe, I'm sorry but I just haven't the time. I'm very busy. I hope you understand."
 
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