What do you consider sex?

[Smitho]

I think you have to cum for it to be sex. Without that its just fooling around.

 

[Eternaldarkness]

yes, minus the handjobs, everything else is sex. I only considered fooling around like kissing, groping, and handjobs.

When you put it in an orifice, then it becomes sex.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

I fully agree with Antares.

Two guys know pretty well that if they are shaking hands and even giving each other hugs, that happens to be physical contact but cannot be defined as sex.

Sucking someone's dick IS SEX. Getting sucked, too.

Getting and receiving hand jobs IS SEX. You don't take other dude's dick in your hands to make sure he has one...

I am fine with fooling around for as much as you can. I am not fine with fooling yourself and not standing by your actions.

SC

 

[birthday]

Are you guys saying that Oral (blow job ) is having sex ?

 

[bluedragon4]

Are you guys saying that Oral (blow job ) is having sex ?

Are you saying it isn't sex? sounds like sex to me. oral sex and anal sex both have sex at the end so doesn't that make it sex? they don't call hand jobs hand sex so that's just fooling around.

 

[Txgoodoldboy]

Sex is anything that would lead to orgasm, including masturbation, rubbing, etc.

 

[Corny]

ok .. jokes aside .. if they don't think 69 etc is sex. well .. probably then they wouldn't care if their BF in a monogamous relationship would have oral SEX with others?

 

[DavieDukes]

I still say bjs & 'penetration without shooting' are just "fooling around"...

And if she gets pregenent... it was definately sex....

But if you're in a REAL monogamous relationship, you shouldn't be in the business of itemizing what counts as sex versus what you can get away with...

 

[SexyLiciousBoy]

As Sue Johanson would say...."Oral Sex, is sex"

LOL! I love that show...

 

[pkacrotjs]

Unfortunatly, i've always compared it to my mistakently hetero/deep denial/repression past.

In my _extremely_ conservative social group in highschool, we were all okay with 'petting' and that included handjobs on guys and fingers on girls... any 'penetration' was sex, oral, vaginal, or anal...

but now that we're having the discussion, I guess that means I have to think some more. In college I would have said that oral with a member of the opposite sex wasn't actually 'sex'. Now that i've come to know myself better and am an out gay man, I WOULD consider oral to be sex.

interesting what hindsight/perspective will give you...

 

[KennyD]

To each his own opinion .... I believe that Anal and Oral is sex as you can get stds from such activity ....
However; I feel that Hand Jobs, Frottage, etc is just "Playing Around" and NOT serious enough to be called actual SEX .....

 

[evil_danger]

Anything that involves stimulating of the genitals by someone else is sex. If its only pen sex then lesbians are screwed (well clearly not), and those guys who only practice frot (After all not all gay or bi guys believe in anal sex). Sex is as I said stimulation of the genitals by someone else. Foreplay is the groping, kissing, generally getting all hot and heavy.

You dont have to cum for it to be sex, you dont have to cum to get a girl pregnant, you dont have to cum to pass on a STD/STI.

 

[irishdreamer2287]

I totally agree with the idea that oral sex is SEX hence the name. I too have a friend that just takes all other acts excluding anal sex as just something to pass the time and doesn't consider it sex. I never really challenged him on the subject but I am glad that the majority of you guys agree with me.

 

[birthday]

thanks for the input Guys....I sure am getting more SEX than I realised.....lol

 

[chrisied]

The whole orifice thing i would say is sex. but the whole thing about not cumming is not sex. sounds like a load of bullocks. it makes it sound like if i get to drunk with ur partner have anal/oral sex and dont cum. that doesnt mean that u have had sex. give me a break!!

 

[Brer Fox]

If you are touching another person in an effort to give them sexual pleasure, it is sex. I believe any act, whether a sensual massage or hardcore penetration, is considered sex if it is done with that intent.

 

[thrillrideseeker]

I consider sex to be anytime the penis enters the ass.
~Matthew

 

[Shepherd 2]

Any sexual activity when two men are making love. I usually think it is nice to ejaculate.
Mutual masturbation, mutual blow jobs, anal penetration, frottage, and docking, even a body massage at times. At other times whispering fucking hot things in my ears sends me over the top.
Shep+

 

[Matthew-]

I think that when you are naked in bed with someone, it can be considered sex.