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What do you feel insecure about

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What parts of your body do you feel most insecure with?
Why?
 
My whole body. Why? I'm ugly, and have a poor physique. I'm especially insecure about my penis. Why? It's small. Small peckers aren't exactly popular...
 
My penis. It's very small. And circumcised. Sometimes I feel as if the way you look is the way people think you want to look.

I know it doesn't make sense, but when you look at someone, sometimes their personality seems tied into their appearance.

I would like to express myself with my penis. It would be long, smooth, natural.
 
I'm way too thin. I know women with bigger forearms than me. It used to be that I could eat and eat and still be skinny. Now I'm noticing a belly form - so I have thin arms but I could end up with a big stomach. God that would be weird. But I'm planning to sign up for gym this month and hit it consistently so this time next year I won't be insecure about this. Or at least not as much as I feel now.
 
I don't get hard from other people. I think it's an issue with nerves, if I would feel comfortable with the person or if they indulged even one of my many kinks I'd get hard, but I'm just trying to make myself feel better. I'll feel better once someone other than my right hand makes me cum, or so I hope.

EDIT: looking at my profile pic, I think it's obvious I can get hard. Why doesn't anyone else do the same for me?
 
I sometimes worry about my penis size, but I'm more worried that I don't get erections easily.
 
Disturbance said:
I sometimes worry about my penis size, but I'm more worried that I don't get erections easily.
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No one should ever worry about their dick size. Guys prefer all kinds of sizes. There is another thread talking about how much everyone loves a huge cock fucking a guy with a flacid tiny penis, it's there favrotie thing! I'm sure even fucking a guy, the fact that you can do balls deep, hard and fast, with no discomfort, just pleasure for both parties, is a huge turn on.

But I'm wondering, can you get an erection by yourself, when jacking off? Or do you always have difficulties? I think I just have soo many kinks that plain jane sex doesn't quite get me hard like it should.
 
Lovethecawk said:
No one should ever worry about their dick size. Guys prefer all kinds of sizes. There is another thread talking about how much everyone loves a huge cock fucking a guy with a flacid tiny penis, it's there favrotie thing! I'm sure even fucking a guy, the fact that you can do balls deep, hard and fast, with no discomfort, just pleasure for both parties, is a huge turn on.

But I'm wondering, can you get an erection by yourself, when jacking off? Or do you always have difficulties? I think I just have soo many kinks that plain jane sex doesn't quite get me hard like it should.
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No spontaneous erections anymore. Direct manual or oral stimulation is required for me to get hard. I'm 21 and I worry.
 
my man boobs....because they are gross hahahaha. they are starting to turn into pecs though since i joined crossfit:P
 
Lovethecawk said:
I don't get hard from other people. I think it's an issue with nerves, if I would feel comfortable with the person or if they indulged even one of my many kinks I'd get hard, but I'm just trying to make myself feel better. I'll feel better once someone other than my right hand makes me cum, or so I hope.

EDIT: looking at my profile pic, I think it's obvious I can get hard. Why doesn't anyone else do the same for me?
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That's interesting, I don't feel comfortable near people when thinking about sex because I'm a REALLY shy person, maybe you could have the same problem? I don't have problems in getting hard when alone or browsing porn though, sometimes just the fact that I lay down in bed to take a nap is enough to get my a boner that lasts for an hour or so, fact that scares me a little. Also, which sort of odd kinks do you have?

Now, contributing to the topic:

Body hair.

Even though I'm a very shy person, I don't have problems related to what the other people think of me and my body, but if one thing can hurt my self-esteem, it is my body hair. The main problems that I have are: folliculitis causing lots and lots of pimples in my back, not being able to wear metallic-strap watches as they end up pulling my arm hair and it REALLY hurts and the fact that I can't really wear stockings because my leg hair actually bothers me to no end if I wear them or thigh highs.

Hair in my arm:
http://puu.sh/70zsi.jpg
Hair in my foot and part of leg:
http://puu.sh/70zu2.jpg
 
My ass, or rather the cleanliness of it. I go to great lengths to ensure it's clean back there, but I always feel really insecure before intercourse worrying that my date might get an unexpected surprise... and worried that he might not be understanding about it.
 
My whole body. I have had asthma for ever and its course after course of steroids and steroids make you pack on the pounds like crazy. So as a result I'm a big chub bear. I try and try to loose weight, but through exercise my asthma flares and its back to mr. steroid and hello ms. weight. Its been a vicious cycle. I'm also not gifted in the pants only around 5 cut but 5 around been told its very thick but small balls and again because of Mr. Steroid. I do not eat shit I try and eat very healthy I really try for a balanced diet sure there are occasional treats but I'm not eating bag after bag of chips and sweets and things. I've always been sensitive about it and have always hated the way I look. I just feel absolutely ugly and repugnant like no one could ever love me, but guys I've skyped with have said I was hot to them handsome and a nice big cock, but to be fair they are mostly chasers and daddy bears so thats their thing.
 
ShadowCat said:
My whole body. I have had asthma for ever and its course after course of steroids and steroids make you pack on the pounds like crazy. So as a result I'm a big chub bear.
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Chronic Fatigue & Fibromyalgia has a similar effect on me: I only have a limited amount of energy for everything, so it's either exercise or the usual domestic activities but not possible for both, so domestic activities wins and I deal with a high (112kg) weight. It's worse because I get a little enjoyment from food, which has now become my only outlet for enjoyment, so I can't simply eat minuscule portions and this doesn't help weight control.

It wouldn't be so bad if I was a chub bear, but I'm relatively hairless and just a chub with silver hair: not a good look for someone almost 60yo. Have never been able to grow a full beard either as it remains patchy on the sides.

Being overweight also increases female hormones and decreases male hormones I believe, so it's a triple whammy effect and a vicious cycle.

I have a small penis (thumb size) and balls the size of large grapes, but fortunately I am a grower and about 5.75" erect although relatively thin.

It's not that I hate the way I look now as I have come to accept it as normal for my particular circumstances, but it's a far cry from what I would like to look like and I have never felt very secure in comparison to other gay men. But hey, what can you do when the medical profession can't cure some ills without creating other issues?
 
birddog7 said:
My whole body. Why? I'm ugly, and have a poor physique. I'm especially insecure about my penis. Why? It's small. Small peckers aren't exactly popular...
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Beauty is not only supposed to be in the eye of the beholder but also skin deep, so just because one feels that they are ugly doesn't mean that everyone else feels the same way: there is always hope that someone else will love us for their own reasons.

Male insecurity about penis size is an issue that has been around seemingly forever, which I find fascinating. Whilst I won't reject someone based on penis size, I'm attracted to larger penises for some reason as they create a greater level of visual excitement for me, but they aren't as practical the larger they are which is a contradiction.

Despite many women saying size doesn't matter, I wonder if secretly it does, just as female animals are drawn to certain physical characteristics of maleness. I hold the belief that my gayness is a result of me having a partly female brain wiring, so I wonder if I too have that hypothesised fundamental attraction. However, that would be a biological attraction and as a human being I also have a brain that can moderate my impulses to achieve other ends. So, whilst I may be excited by large penises, I accept other conditions as equally satisfactory in achieving my goals and can hold contradictory situations in mind.

I think it also applies to heterosexual males when it comes to female breast size: it's a fundamental biological motivator, but not the only factor taken into consideration.

What I find curious is the reluctance to accept that we have fundamental motivators tied to our biology, but we also have the ability to moderate them (although not completely control them) and pursue other conditions as well.
 
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