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What do you require privacy for?

Well is still dont get it but they are your fingers and as long as it makes you happy :)
 
Reasonable privacy starts, where you want it to start. You and your partner draw the lines. It is really an individual matter.

I close the bathroom door. If he wants in, yeah, he is welcome. He does exactly the same. We respect that and nope, there is no drama, if either of us barges in... no one really cares. We are grown up dudes and know the basic workings of human physiology...

I do not want him reading my mail, txts, communication as a matter of course. If there is something, we need to share, we do that. If not, his communication is private and so is mine. We'd be having quite a debate though, if either of us refused to disclose anything, if asked to do so.

I have few and very limited bits of information that are of privileged nature between my clients and myself. Such information cannot be shared with any third party without their prior consent. My BF understands this and so, should everyone else, so this has never been an issue.

SC
 
Not much. I've had the day to myself at work and now i want to be with him.

But i'll say taking a shit too! I don't care if i'm reading emails or on JUB or whatever while he's there, he doesn't care about that sort of thing either. I'm hardly on JUB when we're together anyway.
Our stuff is all mixed up in our bedroom, i like that.

We've been renting a place together over the summer and i had worries about sharing my life with him like that cos i knew it'd be different to just dating him and staying the night with each other when we can, and i thought the whole privacy thing mihtbe an issue. Now i don't want to have to move out when Uni starts again. I'm really used to having him around.
 
SilverRRCloud said:
Reasonable privacy starts, where you want it to start. You and your partner draw the lines. It is really an individual matter.

I close the bathroom door. If he wants in, yeah, he is welcome. He does exactly the same. We respect that and nope, there is no drama, if either of us barges in... no one really cares. We are grown up dudes and know the basic workings of human physiology...

I do not want him reading my mail, txts, communication as a matter of course. If there is something, we need to share, we do that. If not, his communication is private and so is mine. We'd be having quite a debate though, if either of us refused to disclose anything, if asked to do so.

I have few and very limited bits of information that are of privileged nature between my clients and myself. Such information cannot be shared with any third party without their prior consent. My BF understands this and so, should everyone else, so this has never been an issue.

SC
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I'm glad you feel the way I do about mail and communication. It's so easy for a person who is not the intended recipient of the mail to take it the wrong way, and this had happened when the wife of a friend read email that I had sent to him.

I lived with a BF who was a doctor, and I wished he had kept his patients' information confidential. He said it was okay as long as he didn't divulge their names, but I really didn't want to hear about it. I think it would have been better for him to have discussed those matters with other doctors.
 
Whatever and whenever I need it.
I like my private space as much as anyone.
My thoughts are private too. unless I choose to share them.
Some I share and some I have kept for a lifetime.
Shep+
 
There must surely be others who find it almost impossible to urinate when others are present...I need to have cubicle or just cannot go!
And unless I truly fancy the guy I'm with and trust him totally I usually find I cannot cum at all easily! With those I DO fancy and trust I can cum all too easily!!
 
marcuspig said:
There must surely be others who find it almost impossible to urinate when others are present...I need to have cubicle or just cannot go!
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Don't worry you are not the only one!
 
As I continue to think about this,
there isn't much. I am partnered, and we are fully there for one
another. All our physical activity including any sexual stuff is open, and I like it like that. We inspect one another on health issues and the concerns each of us has from time to time, like testicle checks for cysts or growths, anal cavity concerns, sores, whatever.

Getting dressed and just about everything is not private.
I am totally comfortable with that approach to our life together.
Outside our relationship, I am very cautious and guarded.
Shep+
 
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