What do you think about my situation??

[RareAlphabet]

Hey!
Im posting this thread hopefully to feel understood and relatable.
Im a straight guy who likes girls but from time to time i get bored and watch some gay porn . Not cuz they re getting fucked or something but only cuz i think of my self in the actor i pretty much like nudity in general but ive never had a friend who ive seen a dick before . i only see them on internet so that teases me and thats why i watch gay stuff (cmnm..) and i really would like to have a friend with whom ill never have sex ( cuz im straight ) but touch eachothers tools for fun or pranks , or visit a nudist beach, changing clothes or masturbating infront of him without leading us to have sex.
i dont know if this relationship is impossible but share your thoughts with me ill appreciate every comment

 

[RareAlphabet]

Hey!
Im posting this thread hopefully to feel understood and relatable.
Im a straight guy who likes girls but from time to time i get bored and watch some gay porn . Not cuz they re getting fucked or something but only cuz i think of my self in the actor i pretty much like nudity in general but ive never had a friend who ive seen a dick before . i only see them on internet so that teases me and thats why i watch gay stuff (cmnm..) and i really would like to have a friend with whom ill never have sex ( cuz im straight ) but touch eachothers tools for fun or pranks , or visit a nudist beach, changing clothes or masturbating infront of him without leading us to have sex.
i dont know if this relationship is impossible but share your thoughts with me ill appreciate every comment

I found this picture on the cmnm thread and i find it so funny and not specially gay and thats the relationship i wanna achieve

 

[TotallyLostatLife]

I think, just go for it.

There are plenty of dudes who only want to be curious about gay stuff; you can go to bathhouses, saunas or even a nude beach. You will not be forced to do something you don’t like on those places. Just be safe if you want to explore further, like, using condoms…

You can also check Grindr or hookup apps to see if there’s someone like you who want the same thing you are looking.

Good luck!

 

[RareAlphabet]

I think, just go for it.

There are plenty of dudes who only want to be curious about gay stuff; you can go to bathhouses, saunas or even a nude beach. You will not be forced to do something you don’t like on those places. Just be safe if you want to explore further, like, using condoms…

You can also check Grindr or hookup apps to see if there’s someone like you who want the same thing you are looking.

Good luck!

Aha took note ! Tnx for the advice

 

[KaraBulut]

The thing with sexuality when you're young is that you might set out on a journey thinking you're going to a particular destination, only to find that you end up in a different place.

Until you set out on the journey, you'll never know where you will end up.

If it's something you're curious about and want try, do it. You'll never know unless you do.

 

[RareAlphabet]

The thing with sexuality when you're young is that you might set out on a journey thinking you're going to a particular destination, only to find that you end up in a different place.

Until you set out on the journey, you'll never know where you will end up.

If it's something you're curious about and want try, do it. You'll never know unless you do.

Will sure do

 

[seven2go]

You seem to be of a young/youngish generation where enlightened attitudes prevail so that's a plus.......

 

[TX-Beau]

I found this picture on the cmnm thread and i find it so funny and not specially gay and thats the relationship i wanna achieve

I don't know, that looks pretty gay.

 

[RareAlphabet]

I don't know, that looks pretty gay.

Not really as i mentioned i don’t fantasise or dream bout gay things but just for a little laugh or just the concept of being naked infront of your freinds and as i said not them being gay like i dont want our relationship to be more than friends and thats the problem idont know if that type of relationships exists

 

[TX-Beau]

Not really as i mentioned i don’t fantasise or dream bout gay things but just for a little laugh or just the concept of being naked infront of your freinds and as i said not them being gay like i dont want our relationship to be more than friends and thats the problem idont know if that type of relationships exists

Straight guys don't fondle each other "just for fun." At least one of them is very much interested. If all you want from men is just friendship, why do you then need to be around them naked?

You can be friends with your shorts on.

There is undeniably a sexual component to that picture you posted. There always is when you come across homoerotic imagery that is supposedly unserious. The sexual part of it is right there, ostensibly made hetero with humor, but it is still there.

It sounds like you want a relationship - and not in a "just friends" kind of way where you don't have to acknowledge the homoerotic component. Of course that kind of relationship exists. Most of us, at one point or another, have come across a guy who lapped up the attention. Sometimes that gets physically sexual, sometimes the other guy is using that to pump up his ego, and sometimes neither guy has the balls to make a move - but what none of that is, is two hetero bros who just happen to fondle each other's cocks.

 

[KaraBulut]

Straight guys don't fondle each other "just for fun." ...

Based upon some of the straight guys that I've known over the years, some of them do. And I saw plenty of the straight guys in gym class in junior high and high school doing it.

Outside the US, in more conservative countries where premartial sex is not acceptable, there's a lot of male-male stuff that happens on the down low before they get married.

However, watching gay porn is something else.

 

[Alistair]

You just want a bromance. Join a gym a start making friends. You’ll be naked together in no time.

 

[TX-Beau]

Based upon some of the straight guys that I've known over the years, some of them do. And I saw plenty of the straight guys in gym class in junior high and high school doing it.

Outside the US, in more conservative countries where premartial sex is not acceptable, there's a lot of male-male stuff that happens on the down low before they get married.

However, watching gay porn is something else.

Hmmm, it's been my experience that the guys who play grab ass like that turn out to be one beer away from pole going into someone's mouth.

 

[TX-Beau]

You just want a bromance. Join a gym a start making friends. You’ll be naked together in no time.

They're not naked in the gym locker-room anymore, and the gang showers are gone. In High School I had a love-hate relationship with the gang showers and the locker-room.

 

[lockeroomguy]

You just want a bromance. Join a gym a start making friends. You’ll be naked together in no time.

Agree completely. You'll see plenty of dicks in the locker room and showers. Some family gyms (like community centers or YMCA) are surprisingly cruisy. Shouldn't be hard to strike up a bromance.

 

[MusicMan321]

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