Okay. So stupid friend told me.
And according to her.. She just substituted his name for another person of whom the guy I really like knows. I mean it's really stupid. She didn't think! Why in the world would she substitute his name and tell me "aren't you thinking why he doesn't go out with girls and he isn't linked to any?" and tells me that he likes me just because some other person she knows doesn't want me to know? That's stupid. And I asked her "so are you telling me my friend is gay?" and she told me yes! And even "I told you so next time you guys go out you know what to do" since I'm not out as bi and everyone knows I'm straight. She made a huge mistake. Even though I was straight and she told me that, I mean, it could possibly tarnish a friendship. I don't know still though.. Maybe she really slipped, it could be true or not. I still can't get over it. Why in the world would she make up facts like he's gay and he's not even ilke "into" any girl right now? Really confusing.
*** Long Detailed Post ***
First, I'll refer to my guy friend who I like a lot as Matt.
So last night there was a party. Hours before the party Matt texts me "Hey, are you going to the party later?", I replied "yeah, are you going to?"
"Yes I'm going... Would you like to meet up later? We could go there on a convoy." (since we came from another place prior so we both brought a car)
"Sure. What time are we meeting and where?"
"Maybe Around 7? Where do you want to meet?"
I tell him where does he want to meet etc so we settle for a metting spot.
a few hours later... Matt texted "Hey, I'm going to be late so I'll be there by 7 30. I'm really sorry we just went somewhere". I approved since I was also going to be late.
So I was there at 7 30. he hasn't arrived yet. Then a group of my friends saw me parked, as they too were just going around, so they park in front of me, i went out talked to them, you know all that "so what you doing here?" stuff. Then Matt arrives. So my the group of guys friends I dismissed since Matt's there. Matt parks and gets out of the car... We greeted each other, he greeted me with my name and then was curious who I was talking to so he asked "who were those?". They're just some friends. So yeah, we talked about where it was so I just followed him to the party.
Fast forward.
So we're in the party. I went in to get some food, after a few seconds, he also came in to get food. We talked as we put food into our plates. When we were eating on the table, his legs started to touch mine. And it wasn't even a crowded table. I didn't mind (I liked it) and he too seemed like there's nothing. So we talk etc.
Whenever I go in to get food, a drink or whatever, he would be following me. He would just go in with me, wait for me, a little talk, he doesn't get anything for himself. When I go out, he goes out with me too. He does this everytime I went in to get something. I thought that was kind of cute and sweet.
We talked all night! My conversation for the entire night, maybe 90% I was talking with him. 10% with other friends. He just has this look when he looks at me, his eyes have something to them. Though I'm not sure if he's eyes are just like that or what. And sometimes I look at him and he gives me this look and he has this cute little smile and he's doing eye contact. Really cute. I look at him but I don't really do eye contact for him for long I was going to melt! His look just melts me! I just look at him too in the eye and then do whatever I was doing again.
At times, he would be pulling up the sleeves of his shirt to show his arms (nice arms too), though It was nice and cool outside. He also pulled up his pants to expose both his legs while we were sitting down talking. I wanted to touch his arms and legs, just grab his hands, but, you know why I didn't. I really wanted to just playfully touch him, but I was too shy/scared since there were a lot of our friends surrounding us too. We were sitting on the side walk. So it was pretty cool. Just nice yellowish light, the moon, stars... it was a nice night.
Matt is a real good guitar player. There was a guitar present, but he brought up that he also brought his guitar so he took it out of his car, sat beside me. He played some tunes, sometimes would even sing! And he never sings! I've never heard him sing before! It wasn't his thing. but this time he sang. Really cute! I would sing with him sometimes (I'm a bad singer). Glancing at each other. I tell him how much I love the song he's playing, and he tells affirms it too that he loves it too. So I was sitting there enjoying his music, looking straight, but from time to time I would be glancing at him playing, and he has this look again on his face. The eyes and the smile. Looking directly at my face/eyes. It really melts me. I can't look that long or else I would just melt completely. I had to keep myself together. So yeah, again, we talk the whole night about different topics.
I'm a bit of a musician myself, so I grabbed one of the guitars, and I listen by ear and try to imitate what he's doing. But I'm no guitar player. So I was trying then suddenly he was just teaching me.. Something like a mini lesson. At times he would reach out and arrange my fingers on the fret board. We would just be looking at each other - me trying to play what he's doing right. At one time when my guitar was blocking the way and people were trying to pass through, he held my hand and he gently guided my hand holding the guitar were the frets are so he guided my whole upper body, me never releasing the guitar, so that I may give way. I mean, out of all the places on the guitar he could touch or grab, he held my hand. He could have just told me, but he chose to hold my hand. I didn't get a glimpse of his face though, I so wanted to look into his eyes and like give him this look, but for some reason I couldn't focus at that time. Lol. So we went back to the conversation, listening to music, him singing tunes, laughing. Lots of fun.
I also noticed.. We were always near each other the whole night. Always. And he had friends there too. We had the same friends as you may know it was a large group, but we were a at the max a few feet away from each other. Most of the time we were beside each other. He sits beside me.. And I also sit beside him.
He was supposed to go early, he tells me what time he would be leaving. but for some reason he stayed hours later. Just sitting there beside me. And when he looked at his watch he just goes "Wow it's already 1 am? Time's so fast!" I don't know, I don't want to assume he stayed because I was still there. But he really had to go so he went ahead. We exchanged our goodbyes, I held out my hand he grabbed it then he told me "we'll see each other again" or something like "I'll see you" as we often bump into each other since we go to the same building (different classes) in college. and we shook each other's hands. Which I'm disappointed about. Hahaha. So he rode his car, I was glancing, watching if he'd left already, but he stayed there for quite some time. Finally he left. I texted him to take care.
I haven't heard from him since. So I don't know! Are some guys really like this? he doesn't really communicate a lot through text, phone, or IM. but at times he does. Just not frequent. But when we get together... we communicate / talk great. He has always been like that. I like how he laughs when I say (or try) something funny. Yeah. Are some guys just really like this? Tell me please!
So that's the night. Pretty detailed. I want to hear what you think about the whole exchange / behavior.
You think he's interested?
Tell me everything you think!
Thanks guys!
But our other friends were drinking and they were also driving home, but He didn't even give a damn. 
. But you are going to have to learn how to act, you are no longer in high school, thus stop acting like you are. You are new to this, thus you don't have experience, but lucas how do you think people gain experience in the first place.
