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What do you want most in life?
- Thread starter blubee
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Looking good but nobody wants you
How would you feel if you keep fit , you go to the gym and get all dressed up and you go to a bar hoping to pick up some1 cute but nobody? would feel sorry and sad? you spent all the efforts but getting nowhere?
How would you feel if you keep fit , you go to the gym and get all dressed up and you go to a bar hoping to pick up some1 cute but nobody? would feel sorry and sad? you spent all the efforts but getting nowhere?
NotHardUp1
What? Me? Really?
Well, by definition, if you got into better physical shape, you'd feel better in 99% of the cases.
If you then expected that to guarantee you'd find the man of your dreams, you'd be rolling the dice instead of making a good plan. Yes, your physique would likely help you, but it doesn't do much good to hook a 10-pound bass if you're fishing with 5-pound test fishing line. The physical is only the badge that gets you in the door, and just like getting a new job, you have to then perform to expectations.
Gay men are a tiny minority compared to the straight population. It is always going to mean dating is more of a challenge and it will always mean lower odds of success. Unlike racial minorities, we cannot just see the other members of our group on the street and know we are us.
Become the person you want to be. That may be educated, productive, fit, artistic, horticultural, musical, or whatever, but you know in your heart what that is. Follow your bliss, and don't be mislead into thinking someone else has the key to your happiness, not even your lover. At least half the straight population in the US has already learned that lesson the hard way and is either divorced or in the immediate family of a divorced couple that once was in love.
As for what I want, I'd like to find Mr. Right, but what I want most right now is to get on my feet in my new home, get repairs completed and begin entertaining like I did a decade ago. I like playing cards, having friends in for dining, and games. My goal is to get all my nest made here, make to retirement, and hope to live another decade after and die at the average age for men in my late 70's. I think a decade after retiring will be plenty of leisure during decline. That's my 20-year plan.
If you then expected that to guarantee you'd find the man of your dreams, you'd be rolling the dice instead of making a good plan. Yes, your physique would likely help you, but it doesn't do much good to hook a 10-pound bass if you're fishing with 5-pound test fishing line. The physical is only the badge that gets you in the door, and just like getting a new job, you have to then perform to expectations.
Gay men are a tiny minority compared to the straight population. It is always going to mean dating is more of a challenge and it will always mean lower odds of success. Unlike racial minorities, we cannot just see the other members of our group on the street and know we are us.
Become the person you want to be. That may be educated, productive, fit, artistic, horticultural, musical, or whatever, but you know in your heart what that is. Follow your bliss, and don't be mislead into thinking someone else has the key to your happiness, not even your lover. At least half the straight population in the US has already learned that lesson the hard way and is either divorced or in the immediate family of a divorced couple that once was in love.
As for what I want, I'd like to find Mr. Right, but what I want most right now is to get on my feet in my new home, get repairs completed and begin entertaining like I did a decade ago. I like playing cards, having friends in for dining, and games. My goal is to get all my nest made here, make to retirement, and hope to live another decade after and die at the average age for men in my late 70's. I think a decade after retiring will be plenty of leisure during decline. That's my 20-year plan.
TickTockMan
"Repent, Harlequin!"
My old life back, but with an SO.
HoodedRat
Rat Lives Matter
Peace and quiet.
Vannie
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I had my dream job.
I had a hot, younger boyfriend (and those of you who know me here, know how that ended up!)
I want financial security.
I want a quiet, active retired life.
I want another hot, younger boyfriend who is into fat daddies, who adores me!
I had a hot, younger boyfriend (and those of you who know me here, know how that ended up!)
I want financial security.
I want a quiet, active retired life.
I want another hot, younger boyfriend who is into fat daddies, who adores me!
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Rick and I are heading toward what we wanted most in life right now. His last day of work is Friday, our house sold in one day, we think we are financially secure with a good prospect for a healthy active retirement....thats what we work toward, it's what we planned for and now it's here. Lets see what the Gods have in store for us....SO to answer the OP I'm hoping for a good few years to enjoy the fruits of our labor and the labor of family members before us..
Compared to many, i have no reason to want more than i have now.
To be able to earn enough money to support myself - but not just enough for that - to be able to support myself while also enjoying some of the finer things in life and being able to do it comfortably. I get around now (somewhat), but i'd like to be able to do more without worrying about paying for it. I don't need to be right, I just need to be comfortable.
I'd also like to be in a relationship with someone who I have a lot in common with and to have someone to do things with that we can enjoy together.
I'd also like to be in a relationship with someone who I have a lot in common with and to have someone to do things with that we can enjoy together.
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peeonme
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I am happy where I am at, I will be 66 in a few weeks and have had to learn to accept age gracefully.
Harke the Boeotarch
Dreams Wash Away
To be a better, more courageous man.
To finish what I started. I never finish what I started.
To finish what I started. I never finish what I started.
nycguydowntown
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if u have a dream job and lots of money---the young hot guys will come---and cum.
Vannie
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Harke the Boeotarch
Dreams Wash Away
Yes, but they'll be whores and it won't be fun.
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peeonme
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Wow, that's some head...
Do not resent growing old. Many are denied the privilege.
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agayguy
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Ideally- here's my dream list which I know is not going to happen (in most cases).
First, I want another 30 years with my partner of 30 years. (We know that's not going to happen- here on Earth.)
Second, I wish I had my late parents back. (Not going to happen here on Earth.)
Then, I have been in my current profession for 24 years. The last two were the happiest because of the supervisor that I had for those two years. Unfortunately, "the powers" shipped him to another location. But, I have heard good things about the incoming supervisor. We've emailed a few times, and I get good vibes from her. She addressed me by my first name and she signs her emails with her first and not last name. I like that.
We have some close friends who are a straight couple. The man is a multiple stroke patient. I wish he could get his faculties back. I wish his wife's current work crisis could be resolved in her favor.
I wish my brother could regain his ability to walk, not have to be in a wheelchair. Not going to happen either.
Finally, I pray that God will grant us the peace to deal with all our trials and tribulations and help us accept life as it is. G
That's my list of what I want most in life.
First, I want another 30 years with my partner of 30 years. (We know that's not going to happen- here on Earth.)
Second, I wish I had my late parents back. (Not going to happen here on Earth.)
Then, I have been in my current profession for 24 years. The last two were the happiest because of the supervisor that I had for those two years. Unfortunately, "the powers" shipped him to another location. But, I have heard good things about the incoming supervisor. We've emailed a few times, and I get good vibes from her. She addressed me by my first name and she signs her emails with her first and not last name. I like that.
We have some close friends who are a straight couple. The man is a multiple stroke patient. I wish he could get his faculties back. I wish his wife's current work crisis could be resolved in her favor.
I wish my brother could regain his ability to walk, not have to be in a wheelchair. Not going to happen either.
Finally, I pray that God will grant us the peace to deal with all our trials and tribulations and help us accept life as it is. G
That's my list of what I want most in life.
Rickrock
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I have always wanted to have a fulfilling job where I felt like I was making life better for someone and especially the people around me and assumed that I would also be making enough for a comfortable life. I am retired now and am sometimes bored. I would like my youthful health back and a job where I still improved life for someone while supporting myself and my loved ones in a comfortable style.