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"What does "I know, right?" mean in this context

This must be torture! Depending on the timing of things it is possible the email can't be recovered. I don't think there's too much harm in emailing him again.
 
jace86 said:
Telling him how I feel was a mistake. Should not have taken the risk because it ruined everything. I feel like I've lost a friend because he doesn't want more than us being friends.
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Well if he still wants to be friends, I think that's better than nothing.

Now you just need to give yourself space to get over your feelings for him and once you've done that you might be able to be friends again.
 
Jace - I'm so sorry. What exaclty happened. What did he say? Things just may be a bit awkward for awhile. But having him as just a friend is better than not at all right?
 
Try not to overthink things just yet. Hopefully he will reach out to you soon. Even if he just wants to be friends you put yourself out there which I think is beyond brave. You should be proud of yourself!
 
No, you don't wait, you've said what you had to, you go on with your life and if he wants to be a part of it, you've opened the door.

Good for you. That takes courage.
 
I think TX is right. Get back to your life, your normal routines etc. He'll respond when he's ready but hopefully you'll talk in person. One of the hardest lessons to learn is to not get too caught up in someone that they mess with your life. Don't drink yourself too silly over a guy. Many more out there that will be into you.
 
jace86 said:
Hey
Just want to ask what are your thoughts on why doesn’t he say he doesn’t want to be friends anymore? I would rather have him say I don’t feel the same you or don’t talk to him anymore than ignore me like this! It’s so emotionally draining andi think I will regret this decision forever because it was my own doing. Want to understand and learn from this mistake.
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I think you did the right thing by telling him how you felt. The ball is in his court. You need to try and focus on other things. Hang out with some other friends.

Don't blame yourself for his behavior.
 
I agree. I think it is pretty cowardly of him to not reply, either way.
 
Well, what did he say? It's been awhile, some people do need time to process. You didn't come to terms with yourself overnight either.
 
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