What does it feel like to bottom?

[Gay Angel]

I've only bottomed for one guy, but it was as sexually stimulating as brushing my teeth. It didn't hurt, it just didn't feel "great" either... There were moments where, for a second, it would feel good, but then it was gone right away and I was almost unsure if it had actually really been there.

I'm assuming it's mostly to do with my own physical insecurities/loss of control/feeling unclean no matter how much I clean that blocks me from being able to enjoy it fully, or maybe my partner's just not a good top, who knows. Either way, I've yet to have "great" sex while bottoming.

 

[Wizard 666]

Hmmm.

From my experience, I've always prefered bottoming. I'll do both, but something about taking it just feels better. Though I see how it's not for everyone.

Basically, I like the feeling of being "filled" up. It's more sensual and more warm to me. Whenever the guy fills me from behind, I often get sappy euphoria that I don't get from toping.

I also have the ability to cum from prostate rubbing. This kind of orgasm is 100 times more powerful than a regular one. It's how i imangine a girls orgasm to be like. Just all over your body, and last much longer.

And finally, after the orgasm, I feel alot more cuddly and connected with my partner. It's hard to describe, but it's wonderful. From topping/jerking off, I usually just get tired and want to turn over. Not from being fucked.

And plus theres the mental aspect of "I shouldn't be doing this", and that's really hot.

Oh, and before i had Real Cock up there, I tried toys. but they were never that good. it's almost night and day in terms of pleasure.

 

[racer2438]

I love the feelings of it going in out and feeling length go i/o as the tip of head going i/o the head going in the first time and drilling in slowly,


My honey has always been able to fuck me and make me cum w/o touch my cock, he fucks me real slow and long and then pounds me towards the end and always shoots a massive load in me.

and that feels intense, the feeling of the cock getting thick as it's about to cum,
the pulsating of the cock as it cums, feeling the cum hit my insides, and the cum ozzing out of my hole.

Aside from all that, I just fucking love it...

 

[AlmondMilk]

Well, when I would bottom on a consistent basis, I would not have to relax as much, but lately I've been having to make myself relax more. For me there tends to be pain, but after awhile I begin to feel pleasure. For me it always feels like something is where it shouldn't be, though

 

[G-Lexington]

I've bottomed a few times, and it's ranged from OK to good. But I never really got off on it the way it seems most gay guys do. I've heard theories ranging from "you're not relaxing enough" to "you've got internalized homophobia, and think you're too 'manly' to bottom" (which is odd since I've tried it several times), but the upshot is I prefer topping. And in my mind, that's totally fine. It seems there's far more bottoms than tops in the gay world, and that just makes me more in demand.

You've tried it. It didn't do much for you. So just stick with topping or non-anal activities.

Lex

 

[pills]

I've bottomed about 10 times. The first time was this year and I am pushing 40. (I know I don't look it, thanks.) I see stars every time. This 23 year old knows what he's doing...

The first time was a little awkward, but after that, it's been amazing. This coming from an avowed top of 20+ years.

 

[Telstra]

I think it is better to get to know about anal sex on your own. You don't have to worry if it's nor comfortable and you want to stop. You can just stop. There is no one there that might make you feel like you have to continue.

And if there us some poop, you don't have to worry about it because no one is there while you experiment.

For those who don't find it pleasurable, my guess is that you haven't located the prostate gland. It is like an additional source of pleasure as it is when you stroke your cock.

If you can learn to relax and get in the mood, I believe it helps to loose the sphincter muscle. I don't know. I'm just guessing. But it is easier to have anal sex if that damn sphincter muscle is relaxed

Nope, can't find it.
If it is that good, people would masturbate their prostate and cum that way instead of touching their cocks.

 

[fed1983]

if the top is doing it right, every thrust makes me feel like I'm cumming.

if the top is doing it wrong, it's mildly uncomfortable and I'm staring at the wall hoping he finishes quickly.

Ditto. If I'm staring at the wall hoping he finishes, I can fake I'm having the time of my life so he cums quickly

I once was topped by a guy that had the personality of Droopy, and it was also reflected in his loving-making skills. It didn't hurt but I didn't feel anything at all, it was as if he was rubbing my arm. No pleasure at all.

However, my current lover is a great top. When we do it right, I instantly turn into a whore, crying for more, and I feel how my ass is trying to trap and devour that cock of his. And the orgasm is very very powerful, can't explain it with words.

Of course, it's not always like that, there're days in which I know I can't bottom. That is, the way inside has to be totally clear and empty. And if I do bottom in that case, it's not as pleasurable.

OMG. How I love good tops!

 

[Nomenclature]

Nope, can't find it.
If it is that good, people would masturbate their prostate and cum that way instead of touching their cocks.

I like to rub and put a little bit of pressure on mine externally (via the taint, behind the balls); It feels incredible when you do it right. I only get in the mood for internal play every once in a great while, but it's such a euphoric, full-body feeling when it's done properly. I'm normally a pretty quiet guy when i'm fapping, but prostate stimulation always gets me moaning.

 

[Telstra]

Cumming from prostate massage is a learned technique (Im guessing) since I havent done it


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[SLOPPYSECONDS]

like folk what talk a lot butt get answer back

ha

 

[bankside]

To me it is a skill, much like gymnastics. It requires knowledge and fitness. Ask a guy who can't even touch his toes to try a somersault for the first time, and he'll probably hate it and screw it up too. Might end up with a sore neck.

But if you ask a seasoned gymnast, no problem, he'll probably tell you its so easy he doesn't even have to think about it and it gets him pumped and feeling good to have a workout.

At this point I think I know what I'm doing. I'm not into pain at all or causing health problems for myself. I enjoy it without any of that. It requires patience, lube and practice. And knowledge...and like any other muscle, a regular fitness program helps too.

To me it is inseparable from topping. If someone asked me to choose, it would be like asking "do you prefer inhaling or exhaling?" Well, I feel like breathing! I have to have both and I feel it if I don't get a good balance.

Also I don't think my horniness is much different when I want one or the other.

 

[bulge]

I've bottomed before.. but whether there is something wrong with me mentally or physically, I have never been able to get even the slightest physical pleasure from it, even with my ex of 3 years.

So... what exactly does it feel like? Emotionally.. physically.. mentally. What goes through your mind and what are the sensations like?

I'm very curious to hear people's experiences.

According to one of my bottoms a bottom doesn't need to feel any pleasure. He only needs to feel the invasion. Period. I don't know.

 

[Telstra]

According to one of my bottoms a bottom doesn't need to feel any pleasure. He only needs to feel the invasion. Period. I don't know.

so he doesn't feel his prostate.

 

[bulge]

so he doesn't feel his prostate.

Will ask him next time.

 

[pinkballoons]

I've done it about a dozen times. Doesn't feel like anything. I wanna enjoy it so badly