What I Did

[FuryOfFirestorm]

For your next trick, are you going to boil his rabbit or will you get the same haircut as him and sleep with his boyfriend?

 

[canadianguy91]

I know this is going to sound redundant, but here it goes.
I feel like based upon the previous posts by the original poster, he is just immature and looking for attention, so why reply to his posts when he is clearly just looking for attention.

Why feed the fire?

I know i'm posting here, but im not addressing him, im addressing everyone else JMHO

 

[pai mei]

Hope he doesn't follow your logic. What I did was mean but it wasn't technically illegal. If he's stupid and assaults me he's only going to get arrested and charged with battery. I'd love to see the police tackle him real hard and slap the cuffs on him. That would be the cherry on top.

lol this guys trolling.


he outs a guy, tries to destroy his entire life because the guy didnt want to hang out with him, and he now says he'd love to see the cops tackle him too lol.


obvious troll is obvious. i'm a master troll detector, and my trolldar is going crazy atm.

 

[andrew thomas]

I agree with Canadianguy 91. this guy is not worth to give him any attention or advice to hell that I care.

 

[justsimon]

You need help.

 

[xterranx]

Now he's just trolling. I say the rest of us ignore his thread and comments from now on?

 

[Willie Boy]

I don't feel like anyone understands me or cares too. I've never had anyone sit down with me and just listen. I would try to explain myself a little clearer but honestly it doesn't matter. Anyways he emailed back and asked why I sent a link to his a4a page.

I told him:

Yesterday me and my friend were drinking and we were on a4a. We were looking at a bunch of profiles and I thought I recognized yours so I checked my Facebook and saw it was you he thought it was funny. He decided to message it to people on your friends list. I felt bad and went and blocked the people hoping they wouldn't see it, guess I was wrong.

As this is a no flame zone I'm going to be as polite as I can.

After reading your first post I thought your behavior was quite shitty, but I decided to give you the benefit of the doubt and continue down the thread, until I saw the quoted post...... You really screwed up. First you treated him wrong simply because he wasn't into you. People make mistakes. But then, instead of accepting responsibility and dealing with it, you lie and blame someone else.

You have a problem and need serious therapy. Something is very wrong, but I can't really get into my thoughts there as that will lead to me saying things others will find offensive..... But, in my defense, I would say your behavior warrants it.

I've tried to offer you advice in some of the other threads you've posted.... But the more I see of how you behave the more firmly I believe someone needs to take you over his knee and deliver a firm, lasting spanking. You need to do some serious maturing, and fast. Otherwise you will end up crossing a line that'll land you in prison for a good long time, you are already running full tilt in that direction.

 

[maksim9061]

...I keep looking at my face in the mirror. I know what I did, but I know that I didn't do anything wrong. Yes it was mean, but I was hurt and I retaliated. That's what happened. A sad person did something because they were hurt. There is nothing else to it. I'm a good person.

OK, my moral compass doesn't always point due north, but seriously, that was very wrong. Do you not remember what it was like with your family before you came out. The fear you felt that they would abandon you. And then finally you grew strong enough to tell them. How would you of felt if someone had outed you before you were ready.

I had a guy out me to my family. I got home from school one day, and he was sitting in the living room with my parents. My mom was crying, and my dad looked close to tears. Thank god my parents accepted me for who I am, and were proud that I am able to be a strong gay man, but they were pissed that that guy denied me the opportunity to tell them.

You denied this guy the chance to tell his family. That is unforgivable in my eyes. You don't deserve his forgiveness. The worse part is that you don't feel bad. Imagine how you would feel if someone did that to you. Then think if what you did was wrong.

I kind of felt bad for you when i first read what you did. I thought you were upset, and felt terrible. But the farther I got in the thread, and read more of your comments, I started to think you were a terrible person. I would highly suggest you see someone, who can help you deal with these issues, because if not, you will probably live your life alone.

 

[SuprSonic]

Silvirain, how would you feel if someone did the same to you? You say you feel you did nothing wrong, but I'm sure you'd feel that you had been wronged if the situation were reversed.

 

[Just_Believe18]

^ This thread has gotten out of control. A moderator needs to close this as Silvirain's personal privacy is in jeopardy and this topic is rapidly becoming a flame thread.

I would also recommend Silvirain be suspended from this site. I believe his behavior is contrary to the stability of this community and that his posts intentionally seek to gain negative attention and upset people.

 

[Seasoned]

I've been through hell lately because people have hurt me. I've opened up to a lot of people and they've all hurt me. I do something in retaliation and now it's not okay.

Retaliation is serious and unjustified. It may be a gut reaction, but it's simply wrong, which you admitted in the original post. While some can understand misguided behavior and point out how your rationale was faulty, others won't give you the time of day. No one has weighed in saying you were justified. This type if behavior should it continue could cause serious personal injury and it is time to get help for misguided thinking.

I am saying this is the mist thoughtful, caring way I can. You have raised anger issues in total strangers; the potential damage to intimates could be boundless.
You could benefit from some implulse control techniques. And now it's time to close this thread.