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What if the guy your dating tells you he has genital herpes and your in love with him?

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What if you were dating for a couple weeks, and you REALLY were hitting it off, had a lot in common, and can see both of you falling in love with each other. At this point you haven't had sex yet, its been a month since you started dating, and you guys are about to finally go all the way. And then he tells you has has genital herpes. What would you do?
 
I'd dip.


However I've never felt those emotions so what I would do is probably radically different than what you would do.


Discuss it with him and share that you are feeling conflicted because of how strongly you feel about him. Letting him know that you are considering looking past your health for a chance to take things further with him will probably get him to open up about how he is treating it, flare ups, ect ect.


Good luck.
 
I would use this
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On him from top to bottom
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Two weeks and I thought I loved him? I would ask a friend to punch me dead in the face for stupidity. Love takes more than two weeks, peaches.

Forget about the genital herpes end of the equation. If you want to have casual sex, he's not a keeper. If you think you're in love, you're mistaking love for infatuation. If you want to see if love develops then don't have sex with him. It would be too intense too soon for a long term thing to handle, IMO.

well obviously... you are on a gay internet porn site asking for dating advice in regards to STD's. That ought to tell you something ..|
 
Genital herpes is nothing serious. It sounds a lot worse than it is, its just the HPV virus that 90% of the adult population has been exposed too. The difference is most of us just get the virus on our lips as kids in the form of a cold sore, we develop some immunity to it and we don't see it again very often. Some people who dont catch it as kids end up catching it as adults instead in their groin area, and it looks a hell of a lot worse, truth is it isnt really, its the same virus, and if you've been exposed to it in the form of cold sores on your mouth your unlikely to get it down below unless your immune system is compromised.
 
HPV and genital herpes are two different things, and most importantly?

if anyone ever starts a conversation by saying the words....Genital herpes is nothing serious?

RUN in the other direction.
 
I think your wrong, as far as im aware there are 2 types of the virus: type 1 (HSV-1) and type 2 (HSV-2). And I think you can catch either one on as a cold sore and down below.

When I was at uni I had unprotected sex with someone who I found out afterwards was rumoured to have given another lad genital herpes! I freaked out and ran to the STD clinic and the nurse there told me it was nothing to be worried about and because i'd had cold sores in the past I was very unlikely to catch it in my groin. As it turns out she was right, but I remember she got quite serious about informing me it really wasn't a big deal and people with it shouldn't be stigmatised.

Anyway, it was a long time ago and thats how I remember it going, perhaps someone with medical knowledge could chip in and clarify.
 
Best to check with a doctor on the HPV virus. There is more than one strain of the virus. It is also a known fact that the virus has much more serious effects on women than men.
 
Benjoe said:
Genital herpes is nothing serious. It sounds a lot worse than it is, its just the HPV virus that 90% of the adult population has been exposed too. The difference is most of us just get the virus on our lips as kids in the form of a cold sore, we develop some immunity to it and we don't see it again very often. Some people who dont catch it as kids end up catching it as adults instead in their groin area, and it looks a hell of a lot worse, truth is it isnt really, its the same virus, and if you've been exposed to it in the form of cold sores on your mouth your unlikely to get it down below unless your immune system is compromised.
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Sorry Benjoe , they are not the same virus,the one on your lips is Herpes Simplex , as for if you get Herpes Simplex on your
lips you are unlikely to get it down below is an old wife`s tale.

Hope that helps your understanding on just how adaptable a virus can be , and Genital Herpes is so-so
much worse than a cold sore.
 
The way people are "Falling Inlove" these days two week is perfectly normal!

I would probably demote him to a friend i would be too worried about catching it and the relationship wont be enjoyably for the both of us.
 
Love or not, herpes or not, you should be using a condom if you're going to have sex. Although the virus can transmit any time, it's much more contagious during an active outbreak.
 
1 month of dating and you still haven't fooled around? what are you waiting for?! :p
 
leave, change my cellphone number, avoid as much contact as possible
 
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