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On Topic Discussion What If Your Partner Wanted a Sex Change?

Let's say that you were in a long term committed relationship with someone you really love deeply. One day they reveal to you that they have to undergo gender reassignment surgery because they are really transgender and are no longer happy with their natural anatomy.
What a bizarre scenario. That "trans" person should be happy to be in a loving relationship at all, and just leave it at that. They should be happy with their life as it is.
 
To be fair that is a memorable experience. In my shoes I would respect being asked to become part of a heterosexual relationship without my consent or forewarning.

I've never heard a transgender person say "oh it was just this thing I decided to try," they all say "this is about my fundamental being" and "this is who I really am." Well, they should not be surprised if they make an image of themselves for someone to fall in live with, and then someone falls in live with that person, it is only natural to feel resentment toward the change. People who cannot be their authentic selves from the beginning of a relationship should hold off until they can be.
 
I remember once watching a documentary about a man who wanted to become a female while he was married with children. His wife said she was shocked. I find that so hard to believe. Maybe she just wasn't paying attention?
I agree! That sounds like a hetero marriage with very poor communication!

I hope there won't be gay marriages with equally bad examples of communication… and abuse and emotional blackmail etc, etc.
 
I chalk it up to a lack of honesty and I could never trust the person again. If they were upfront about it, I would respect them but probably not date them. I am gay. I ♥ penis. I am not attracted to vaginas.
 
I will tell him that he is CRAZY and let him know it is a 'No' No' if he insisted to do it, I will have to find all the excuse to get ridge of him.... ha ha... Actually, I never picture myself in that situation, if I am, I really don't know what to do. You can decide what you do, but You can not control others.
 
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