What is a slut?

[xname10]

What do you consider a slut/whore/etc?

Posting naked pics on the internet?
Having sex with lots of random guys?
Addicted to porn?
??


and if a guy is a slut, does it affect the way you treat/see him?

 

[Ram]

Lilbit. .................

 

[TX-Beau]

A slut is a value judgment.

I wouldn't ever call someone that seriously - unless he wanted me to.....

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

Someone who has lots of sex with lots of different partners indiscriminately, everyday, all day, to the point of exasperation - but of course, if you're getting it like that the only way i'd call you a slut is if you yourself said you were. Naked pics makes you an exhibitionist; an addiction to porn is, well, an addiction to porn.

And the only way I treat a person who is a slut any different from anyone else is if it effects me directly, like, if we're dating and I find out you fucked a couple guys during a bathroom break or something. Well, really, if I find out during us dating that you were fucking around at all really.

 

[youngneil]

I like this definition from urban dictionary

Slut
Someone who provides a very needed service for the community and sleeps with everyone, even the guy that has no shot at getting laid and everyone knows it. She will give him a sympathy fuck either because someone asked her to or she just has to fuck everyone she knows. These are great people, and without them sex crimes would definitly increase. Thank you slut, where ever you are.

 

[bankside]

A slut is someone who gets to know someone else first by having sex. The other details can wait, in their minds.

It affects the way I see him because it's not going to work for me. Even if I find him attractive and vice versa, I just physically won't react to someone coming on like that; it just isn't erotic for me.

I wish him well though, and the only negative thing is he'd better not be spreading disease. That means he should get tested in between partners. If he can't do that, then I think it's stupid.

 

[Asenath]

A slut is anyone having more sex than you.

Of course, if you find these behaviors unsavory, you always have the ability to not do them and leave the value judgments alone.

 

[Gravelord_Nito]

Lilbit. .................

Also Ram is accepted thou.

 

[Kabluey]

^ agreed - more of a stigma for women to be branded that (usually by other women I think).

 

[nycguydowntown]

a slut is a guy who has lot's of risky sex with random men.

 

[RaKroma]

Slut is a very relative term and there is no standard definition that will apply universally. The term "slut" is influenced by which continent you live on, your community, your tribe, your religious values, your perception of morals, your gender and your orientation.

I can tell you that I have been exposed to communities where both men and women believe that even 1 premarital partner is enough to cause a scandal. 2 is definitely enough to get branded for life. I rarely see such strict standards in the gay world but they do exist.

To me, a slut is someone who is not concerned at all about potential infections out there with their encounters. I also, hypocritically, have a double standard for women when it comes to branding them "sluts," mostly with heteros. But that perception has been changing.

 

[Asenath]

I do think that there are some straight folks who judge gay men for the same promiscuity they'd accept unchallenged in their own community. But those types of people are never going to be satisfied. Not if you're married and faithful for 50 years or have your buttcheeks shining on a pride float for all to see. Or anything in between, really.

 

[Rex]

 

[Dodger712]

Sultan -That is HILARIOUS!!!!!

A "slut" is someone who will sleep with ANYONE.
A "bitch" is someone who will sleep with anyone but YOU.

 

[BlondeCanadian]

I dont really think someone is a slut unless they are doing it due to self esteem issues or daddy issues..
I think being a slut is degrading or humiliating but I think if someone has sex solely because they like to have sex it is the opposite. somewhat empowering...

 

[Rex]

Um, Mason Wyler? He's a pornstar.

Yes but he's the bottom of the barrel gutterslut type of pornstar.

 

[rareboy]

 

[Incognito]

My best friends defines it as having an average of more than 12 sexual partners a month, or sleeping around when in a relationship.

I hate the term.

 

[Incognito]

Is being labeled a slut even a real stigma for men?

I don't really think so.

If a guy is promiscuous he's just seen as a ~badboy stud playa~ or something.

Definitely more of a negative stigma for women than men. However I think that it is more of a stigma for gay men than straight men. Although the word is thrown around too much.

 

[mbamike]

What do you consider a slut/whore/etc?

Posting naked pics on the internet?
Having sex with lots of random guys?
Addicted to porn?
??

and if a guy is a slut, does it affect the way you treat/see him?

Posting naked pics on the internet?

Yes, I have done that. My gallery is full of naked pics of my body.

Having sex with lots of random guys?

Yes, I do that. I greatly enjoy having sex with guys.

Addicted to porn?

Would not consider my viewing of porn to be addictive; however, I see some type of gay porn daily though.


Well, apparently, I am a slut!