What is good about anal sex?

[socalguy]

I really hope this does not offend anyone, I have never had it nor will I ever try it. I just find the whole idea gross, and have even questioned if I might be straight? Is it common for gay men not to like sex that way?

 

[Inverted]

Yes. There are plenty of gay men who don't find the thought of anal sex a turn on or don't enjoy anal sex when they try it.

 

[USEDCAR]

It feels good its hard to explain its just something nice about a guy giving his ass to me to bang. Some gay guys don't like anal sex its normal. Don't knock it til you try it

 

[Seasoned]

I think it's a good adage to try to avoid the use of the words never and always. My husband and I will be celebrating 29 years this year and we've determined our own sex life independent of what we were "supposed" to do or "supposed" to like.

There's nothing wrong with knowing what you want, but never is a strong word not knowing who you may meet. Anal sex doesn't have to be messy by the way and in my limited experience rarely has been.

 

[jensu846]

for me, just having a guy on top of me thrusting while I hold on to him with my legs wrapped around him gets me hot. hearing him moan and sweat while fucking me sends me over the edge. I cum so much harder like that.

 

[Rolyo85]

I've never met anyone who didn't like anal sex. To each their own. I'm not really sure how you could explain what's good about it to someone else. It's sex. Of course it's amazing.

 

[tristan91]

I really hope this does not offend anyone, I have never had it nor will I ever try it. I just find the whole idea gross, and have even questioned if I might be straight? Is it common for gay men not to like sex that way?

But straight guys are having anal sex with women all over the place, so it's not really just a gay thing. Many assume that's the only way gay/bi guys like it when that isn't necessarily the case. I personally enjoy fucking/being fucked by a guy but anal with a girl is a turn off for me; I find a woman' pussy wayy more appealing than her asshole.

But yeah, a lot of gay/bi guys don't like anal sex. A lot just do blowjobs..... and a lot love frottage because they find it more intimate than anal - which is you know rubbing/grinding you and your partner's cocks & bodies together usually while making out until you climax. You can do it standing or lying together in bed. I usually do this when I'm not in the mood for anal sex, it's a nice alternative.

 

[racer2438]

Then you may NEVER KNOW a lot of things by not trying...

To me there is nothing like a orgasm by being fucked and not touching your cock. But you will NEVER know that. Although some thing are not for everyone.

I would NEVER say NEVER until I at least try it and see. Then I could make a educated decision as to if I want more/less/none of it. But by say NEVER we sometimes miss on a lot of great things..

 

[Just_Believe18]

I believe this is more of an issue of some internalized homophobia. You're still questioning if you're straight or not, and you find the idea of anal sex to be "gross" despite never trying it. If you find the right person, I suggest giving it a few tries.

 

[TourDeFrance]

Gay is in your brain not your penis or anus. A sex act, whether it be anal sex or sucking on a cock doesn't in itself make you gay. Those just happen to be some of the perks of being gay

If you don't like the thought of anal sex, then don't have anal sex.

Not having anal sex doesn't make you non-gay.