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What is my sexuality?
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Ok, well I bet you guys hear this all the time, but I'm a little confused about myself.

Maybe you could call me confused, but I think I have a clear idea of what I am/am not attracted to.

I habitually watch transsexual porn. You could call it a fetish, but I think it's a little more than that. I love to see a hot chick with a functioning penis. I love the anatomy of a woman: the curves, plump ass, shaved legs, supple tits, but I have a penis attraction.

I don't think I'd ever hook up with a guy. I'm not really attracted to anything about a male except the penis. The thought of kissing a guy doesn't do anything for me, it might just be sort of a "sport" type thing if you would; something I'd leave for experimentation.

I have experimented with dildos, and like it, but don't do it all the time. I might suck a penis if it were attached to a "woman", but not sure about a guy. I mean technically, a transexual is a guy, but in most ways not (at least to me).

I haven't had a girlfriend or sex with a girl in about two years and can't understand what's stopping me. I know I'm attracted to girls, but probably guys as well, in a way.

Let's just say, when I see a girl, I fantasize about what she would look like naked and giving her a good fuck. I don't really do that when I see a guy.

Am I bi-sexual? I think so. But I want to see what people here think.
 
No one can answer that question but you. You will figure it out with patience and thoughtfulness. You can also seek the help of a qualified therapist.
 
who cares. fuck labels. be you.

but if that isn't good enough for you, i'd say you're straight. you're attracted to WOMEN. penis/ vagina has nothing to do with it.

i hope you find the tranny of your dreams. :)
 
I remember the book The Hite report on male sexuality, one quote "I will never kiss a man except on his penis". You're probably a bit like that. Maybe 995 parts straight and 5 parts gay?
 
i'm in a similar boat but not to the same extremity. i find woman amazingly sexy and attractive.. but yes a cock is pretty damn sexy. i would like to kiss a guy and am actually looking forward to chance to experience all kinds man on man fun, but i also know that i will never have any feelings for any guy. woman evoke all kinds of emotions like that for me tho and i find many many MANY women beautiful... and have seen very few guys i would say are hot.

i would say dont worry about labels either. sexuality is a wide range from purely hetero or homo to many variations in between.
 
as stated earlier. i don't think you should care about labels. but to be honest you do not sound gay or bi to me. you sound str8 but with some curiosity of dicks.


mrpink said:
I used to be in your shoes. I was just attracted to women but mainly transwoman with cock. And I enjoyed sex/porn with them as well and had an attraction to cock. I think that is and you are queer, but not gay or bi. I eventually met a few fem/cd/emo guys I liked and now am bisexual, but if you're just attracted to women/trannies only...I would say queer is the label. Hope my two cents helps.

That said, don't get caught up in labels.
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i'm not sure what meaning "gueer" is supposed to have in this post, but generally gueer is a slag term usually meant offensively for gay. i'm sure that's not what you meant, but thought i'd point that out. ;)
 
Life's all about labels really, though. Be it your job title or whatever. We all like to think that we fit in somewhere. Sexuality is a very complex aspect of our lives and one that gets so much detailed examination here on JUB.

I've certainly had a gay side for most of my life, but this has only recently become increasingly dominant to the point where I'm really only looking at guys at the moment. But I still know what sort of girl I like - and which are the dogs!!

Transexuals have never been of any interest - I know some guys really get off on them, but they just seem scarey to me!! :eek:

If I'm looking at a good looking guy, its the whole package I'd be looking at - cock, body, face, personality - the mix of these features in a transexual is just not for me. And to go with that, the guy has got to be straight acting - I'm just not into effem guys .


So, I'm not sure if my contribution helps us all with our 'label' or place on the sliding scale of sexuality, but for my part, I reckon I'm now about 80% gay, 20% straight.

The main thing in life - for us all - is to be happy with who we are ..|
 
OP, I was a bit like you. Knew that I was straight, but was a bit 'curious' about sex with men. I'm going to suggest you try fooling around with a guy a few times, just to see what it's like. Sort of like skydiving, or overseas travel, it's something to be experienced (preferably while single) before you possible get married and then you'll wonder what it's like and whether you'll enjoy it.

As for me, tried it, sort of enjoyed it, but had to pretend that I was with a woman to get hard. But at least now I know what the experience is like, I don't have any regrets.
 
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