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What is my sexuality?

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rite now. i am uncertain what my sexuality is. i wanna say bisexual but that would not be correct. let me break my atraction of both sexes down. just turned 18 btw. havent had straight or gay sex b4.

when it comes to looks physical and facial features i find girls more atractive. in fact in most cases i dont find guys atractive facially. and when i do, its strictly under like 20 something.

I would kiss most girls no problem but would not normally want to kiss a guy. there r rare exceptions for seriuosly and i mean seriously atractive guys that i would kiss.
And they would prob be under 21.

when it comes to genitals. i love the idea of fingering, licking or fucking pussy but am disgusted by the idea of sucking dick or jerking another guy of. in fact i tried to convince myself i was bi so i said decided to taste cum. wen i came i was too disgusted to even think of tasting it. it just looks so slimy and disgusting. but i wouldn't mind pussy juice. i do like the idea of being fucked and frotagge though so i dont entirely hate dick. but only with extremely atractive guys under 21 aswell. like a 1 % chance

BUT the 1 thing i enjoy more then anything is anal sex. giving and recieving. girl or guy. as long as its a well shaped as i wanna lick it and fuck it. i wuld like to do guys more then girls and watch more gay porn then straight.

But the reason i like the idea of fucking a guys ass more is cuz of the idea of it. its so taboo. thats what makes me like anal or anything gay to begin with.

and i could never ever like a guy as in love. IMPOSSIBLE. i cant stand the idea of dating or cudling with a guy (there r very very micro exceptions with the cudling).
my idea is just fucking a guys ass and thats it. i dont wanna impress him; make him smile; date hilm or anything like that.

But absoloutely love that with girls. SO AM I GAY; STRAIGHT or BI?
 
I think you're bi, but definitely leaning towards the straight side.
 
Being straight, gay or bi isn't just about the sex.

You just want something to fuck. That's fine- you're young and horny- but the way that you're objectivizing your sex partners into being just a hole to fuck doesn't really give you any idea of where you stand in terms of sexual preference.

Until you're at a point in your life where you're ready to form attachments and actually have an interest in being with someone instead of getting with someone, it's difficult to know what your sexual preference truly is.
 
I forgot he hadn't had sex yet. I would say he'll find out once he has sex. Sometimes the fantasy is different than the reality.
 
You're definitely not gay or straight. You want to put a label on yourself and labels don't work very well. KaraBulut, I think, is right in that in your horny state you are looking at others simply as sex objects. Which means that you are not able to be intimate with someone. And forming strong relationships based on trust is the most important thing to do.

If I'm reading your post right, you fantasize about getting fucked while you're fucking a chick. This is a perfect example of a bisexual sex romp. But threesomes are a bit difficult to arrange because of the idea of trust. Your statements about not wanting to kiss a guy gives away that you don't want to be trusting. Intimacy is about trusting someone else. Two guys who are intimate are not necessarily gay.

I think that you have some growing to do.
 
Being straight, gay or bi isn't just about the sex.

You just want something to fuck. That's fine- you're young and horny- but the way that you're objectivizing your sex partners into being just a hole to fuck doesn't really give you any idea of where you stand in terms of sexual preference.

Until you're at a point in your life where you're ready to form attachments and actually have an interest in being with someone instead of getting with someone, it's difficult to know what your sexual preference truly is.

yea thats the thing. i have formed atractions were its not just about the sex and the way i see it. it can only be with girls. like i said if i m digusted at the idea of kissing a guy i cant exactly have a relationship. maybe bi but i am certainly not gay.
 
You're definitely not gay or straight. You want to put a label on yourself and labels don't work very well. KaraBulut, I think, is right in that in your horny state you are looking at others simply as sex objects. Which means that you are not able to be intimate with someone. And forming strong relationships based on trust is the most important thing to do.

If I'm reading your post right, you fantasize about getting fucked while you're fucking a chick. This is a perfect example of a bisexual sex romp. But threesomes are a bit difficult to arrange because of the idea of trust. Your statements about not wanting to kiss a guy gives away that you don't want to be trusting. Intimacy is about trusting someone else. Two guys who are intimate are not necessarily gay.

I think that you have some growing to do.


when it comes to being intimate and not just sex i could easily do that with a girl. but just can never imagine myself kissing a guy. i wud just be too disgusted.

for guys my ayraction is strickly anal sex. nothing else. and i know tht this will never change. but i cant say i m straight while i personally kno i wud fuck a guy and wouldnt mind being fucked.
 
Dude, you're 18, you can't be sure that things about your sexuality will never change, especially since you say you haven't even had sex before (straight or gay).

Just be open to whatever and try different things out till u figure out what you are about.
 
just turned 18 btw. havent had straight or gay sex b4.

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the 1 thing i enjoy more then anything is anal sex. giving and recieving.



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Whatever. Concentrate on maturing, beginning to date and losing your virginity before you think about all this "gay" stuff; you sound incredibly straight to me.


But when that happens, be absolutely SURE to use a condom.
 
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