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What is the difference between nudity and sexuality (being turned on)?

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I was finally somewhere where I could watch "Dating Naked." I'm curious how the guys manage to stay soft when in front of a woman. It got me thinking: Doesn't making people take all of their clothes off take something away from the dating ritual? And where is the line between just plain nudity and being turned on.

Are any other guys able to just be nude and stay soft and not have nudity be a sexual thing for you? So where's the line for you - what brings you from being nude to being turned on (getting an erection and being sexually stimulated).

I can think of other situations in which I'm curious about the line between nudity and sexuality. I've conditioned myself to equate sexuality with nudity. Since I'm so visual, a naked person is automatically a turn-on.
 
Just because a person is nude doesn't mean that person is being sexual. Nor is it implying the person is advertising for sex. I go to nudist resorts on occasion and am completely nude all day long around other people. I am there to relax and enjoy the sun and the great outdoors in natural state of undress.

I have been to "Family-oriented" nudist resorts where dad, mom and the kids all spend the weekend enjoy the great outdoors in the nude. So nudity does not equal sexuality.
 
I just run a nude image of my great grandmother though my mind.
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I was raised during a time when open locker rooms, and showers, were the norm. Being naked around other guys was not only expected, and promoted, but also mandatory. I think they were getting us ready for the military, or something. #-o

Then, the late 60's, and early 70's happened. "Flower Power", "Free Love", and all that other happy "Hippie" stuff. "Suddenly", not only was it expected to be naked around dudes, but chicks, too. (!)

Nudity and Sexuality are, indeed, separate, and different, things. One is the Natural way we are, and nothing to be ashamed of. The other is something more private, unless your have absolutely NO inhibitions at all! :eek: :lol:

It's all a matter of context. (And, what you can get away with.) ..| :badgrin:

The main thing is ... No Matter What ...

Keep Smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
mbamike, but what gets you to go from nudity to sexuality/being turned on? What's the difference? Obviously if you're with someone and are about to have sex, you would get nude and get hard.

But isn't the point of that "Naked Dating" show to put people in sexual situations and then add the element of nudity to it so it is always sexual? What makes it sexual sometimes and just nudity at other times? I'm saying that if I were on the show, it would be a sexual thing for me all the time. Would other people be able to be in a (intentionally) sexualized situation but be nude and that's it?
 
If a man got hard in front of nude women what would happen in a Gynocolgists office lol. I get turned on when I see a hot str7 guy kissing his Gf while waiting for a train and see his bulging crotch!
 
stu1995 said:
mbamike, but what gets you to go from nudity to sexuality/being turned on? What's the difference? Obviously if you're with someone and are about to have sex, you would get nude and get hard.

But isn't the point of that "Naked Dating" show to put people in sexual situations and then add the element of nudity to it so it is always sexual? What makes it sexual sometimes and just nudity at other times? I'm saying that if I were on the show, it would be a sexual thing for me all the time. Would other people be able to be in a (intentionally) sexualized situation but be nude and that's it?
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As Chaz said, it's the context of the situation. It's a person frame of mind in the situation too. If I'm at the nudist resort around other naked people, I have no intention of having sex with those around me.

But, if I connect with a guy on a hookup site and he invites me over for sex, then I will be very horny pulling into his driveway. Then once I'm inside, we are going straight to the bedroom. Usually the Top is already hard when he drops his pants and my ass is twitching away.

So, it's context and your frame of mind.
 
Nudity is about humans without clothing. Sexuality is about sexual preference. I think that guys that stay soft in front of nude females are not seeing those females as sexual objects.. I think you may have been unduly influenced by media hype / marketing.
 
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