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What is the farthest that you have traveled for a “booty call” (via a guy you met online) AND rate your experience.

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What is the farthest that you have traveled for a “booty call” (via a guy you met online) AND rate your experience.

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What is the farthest that you have traveled for a “booty call”? Also, tell if you had “seen” or “not seen’ a photo of the guy before you traveled to his place to meet up with him and rate your overall experience with the guy (on a scale from 1 to 10, with 10 being best).

Though I’m happily partnered, but if I were single today and looking for a “booty call”, I would not bother trying to meet a guy online that lived more than a few miles away, due to the TONS of flaky men that are now out there today ](*,) :mad: vs. men being so much less flaky and more honorable back in the late 90's and early 2000's, when it came to meeting guys online.

I live in Los Angeles, the farthest I traveled was flying to San Antonio, Texas (almost 1,400 miles), back in 2000 to meet a guy I had never seen before (he had no internet photo), but he sounded GREAT in his emails and I wanted to take a chance on him. When I meet the guy in person, he was everything and more than the way he described himself in his emails. He was a “10" and the sex was a “10"! Some of the best sex I have ever had. I even went back to San Antonio a second time, so we could spend the weekend together to basically have non-stop sex. That second trip was a “10"! I had a similar experience with a man that I met in Dallas, Texas. I didn't see his photo beforehand, but he was a "10" and the sex was a "10"! I would have seen him again, but he was having bisexual issues . . . feeling insecure about having sex with a man, but wanting to get married to a woman and have children. Unfortunately that turned out to be a one night stand, because he did not want to stay in contact. But I would have happily kept traveling to Dallas to keep getting as much ass as I could get from that guy, until he decided to settle down.

In 2006, I drove all the way to Sacramento, California (400 miles), to meet a guy that I had at least seen a photo of before I hopped in my car to make the drive. The guy was about a “6" in looks (which is what he looked like in his photo) and the sex was about a “8". I only met up with him twice on that trip, but he was a bit too creepy to me to stay in contact with.

Wilson
 
Technically speaking, 2000 miles. I had gotten to know him online, and we had swapped photos. I was assuming it would be something like a booty call when we finally got together, but it ended up being something more than that. :)

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
Technically speaking, 2000 miles. I had gotten to know him online, and we had swapped photos. I was assuming it would be something like a booty call when we finally got together, but it ended up being something more than that. :)

Lex
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Lex,

Thanks for sharing. :) In some ways, based on how your connection started off, it sounds almost like you may have been gearing-up for a long distance dating thing. When you said “ . . . but it ended up being something more than that.” I do hope that it was something special that you found with that guy. I did something similar back in the early 2000's, I drove all the way from Los Angeles to Las Vegas (an almost 5 hour drive), for a date with an awesome man that lived in Chicago, who happened to be going to Las Vegas on vacation anyway . . . so I figured I would drive to Las Vegas to met him and see what would happen between us. We had corresponded for a couple of months and exchanged photos first . . . yet we only were connecting on a basis (from day one) to see if there was a possibility of love and a relationship, we were not looking for a booty call. So our first time meeting in Las Vegas was a smashing success and the sex was a “10"! . . . Yet as we got to know each other in the next couple of months, I knew that we really were not a good match, because we just did not share enough common interests . . . yet we both really and truly liked each other to a fault and were both madly sexually attracted to each other, and our sex life together was off the chart . . . However when you don’t have much in common outside of the bedroom, then you pretty much know that a relationship is not going to work. :(

Yet in the case of the “booty call” men I had, I and the other guys were always on the same page, we did not want any strings attached . . . it was mainly a connection only about a casual friendship with a heavy emphasis on the sex. *|* :fellate: :sex: So we all got what we wanted. Yet since I and those other guys were never at any time looking for something serious, we never found ourselves wanting anything more when we met, and we only wanted to connect on a sexual level . . . so we did. :gogirl:

Wilson
 
I drove from san diego to los angeles for a three day weekend, it was hot we had sex and partied with other people, sometimes he drives down for me.
 
jmadaf said:
I drove from san diego to los angeles for a three day weekend, it was hot we had sex and partied with other people, sometimes he drives down for me.
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Jmadaf,, thank you for sharing. Was the guy a 10 or below 5? Yet I'm glad that you had a good experience with the guy, considering you drove up to Los Angeles to meet this guy for the very first time. Plus it is great that he is driving down to San Diego for you. :)

Wilson
 
loki81 said:
about an hour (that's my usual threshold for meeting a guy... an hour of travel time in the car or on the subway, whether that's me driving to him or us meeting somewhere in-between)

I think that might have been my last straight-up booty call, actually. it was kind of a weird experience.

we had fun in bed (probably a 7-8), and I thought we were just cuddling afterwards. then he was like, "if you're going to sleep here, I'll go sleep on the couch." :lol: like, what? I had no intention of sleeping over, and if I did, I wouldn't sleep over in a situation where I was in bed and he was on the couch.
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Loki81, thanks for sharing. ..| For sure, often when you meet a guy for the first time, you will soon learn some of the quirks about them. Personally, when it came to booty calls, guys were always welcome to stay the night and sleep in my bed. Some guys did stay the night and some left after they took care of business, yet I never came across one that did not want to actually sleep with me in the same bed if they opted to stay the night.

Wilson
 
I can't recall ever putting in much effort or time into a booty call. I make the menfolk come to me.
 
I'm with Loki :) I have met guys from further away, but then we always met somewhere in the middle ;)
 
I once traveled for about 1.5 hours to the middle of Mississippi from Memphis for a very hot piece of ass. He eventually wanted to get away from his crappy home town and came to live with me for a bit until he met the man he is now married to. I felt like the cock of the walk with my BF at the time who was cool with playing and with my hookup living with me... so when we went out or went to dinner I had two very hot men on each arm..... sighhhhhhhhh
 
JayHawk said:
I once traveled for about 1.5 hours to the middle of Mississippi from Memphis for a very hot piece of ass. He eventually wanted to get away from his crappy home town and came to live with me for a bit until he met the man he is now married to. I felt like the cock of the walk with my BF at the time who was cool with playing and with my hookup living with me... so when we went out or went to dinner I had two very hot men on each arm..... sighhhhhhhhh
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My goodness, JayHawk, it sounds like that long-distance booty call worked out way better than you could have ever expected. ;-)

Wilson
 
About an hour drive that way if it doesn't turn out well I'm only out the gas. Ok well maybe a few hours cause I live in the country...
If I can't find a guy locally then I'm not going to search in a 2000 mile radius and if I do and happen to think he's a 10 from an on line experience (hasn't happened) yet I would have plans to visit that city apart from meeting him so the trip wasn't wasted. Been burned a number of times locally so sure wouldn't want to be on someone further away. Plane tickets are quite expensive not to mention the time needed!
 
about 600 km's.....but like some of the other guy's I'd spoken to him for quite a while online and it turned into a bit more than a booty call & I ended up moving to the city he lived in. Definitely a 10.....first boyfriend, still think about him quite often. :)
 
It was a 45 mile drive and it is rated a 8

I wouldn't drive that far for something less.
 
Thank you very much for sharing Cgymike, KangaWallaFox, and Backagain. ..|

Cgymike, do you think the fact that you live in the country, that when you try to meet locals, that they get too paranoid about being discovered, and that is why they flake-out?

KangaWallaFox, what a neat experience! You got a boot call PLUS. ;)

Backagain, I guess all of the times that I have done the long-distance booty call thing, I was always hoping for a “10" guy and a “10" experience . . . yet I have always had a great time with no regrets for traveling hundreds of miles to get to the guy . . . yet that was also back in the days (before the mid 2000's) when guys were more sincere and honorable and seldom would flake-out when they agreed to meet for a booty call . . . especially since this was a first time meeting.

Wilson
 
WestCoastWilson said:
Thank you very much for sharing Cgymike, KangaWallaFox, and Backagain. ..|

Cgymike, do you think the fact that you live in the country, that when you try to meet locals, that they get too paranoid about being discovered, and that is why they flake-out?

KangaWallaFox, what a neat experience! You got a boot call PLUS. ;)

Backagain, I guess all of the times that I have done the long-distance booty call thing, I was always hoping for a “10" guy and a “10" experience . . . yet I have always had a great time with no regrets for traveling hundreds of miles to get to the guy . . . yet that was also back in the days (before the mid 2000's) when guys were more sincere and honorable and seldom would flake-out when they agreed to meet for a booty call . . . especially since this was a first time meeting.

Wilson
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Nah...only some flake out but that has no bearing on the distance I am willing to travel because even if none flaked out I am looking for a bf and to get an ltr going over long distances is just very difficult. So, limit the distance for that reason but also for costs which again have nothing to with flakiness of the guy. But it is true guys in the country generally can be more closeted. That's something I accept, and in some cases, you can workaround it as they come to terms with it but it is dependent on your seeing them frequenty to move things forward. Another strike against long distance (can't see frequently even if they are perfect - and as I said the perfect is going to happen ....almost never. Nope - not going to search the world for that.
 
cgymike said:
Nah...only some flake out but that has no bearing on the distance I am willing to travel because even if none flaked out I am looking for a bf and to get an ltr going over long distances is just very difficult. So, limit the distance for that reason but also for costs which again have nothing to with flakiness of the guy. But it is true guys in the country generally can be more closeted. That's something I accept, and in some cases, you can workaround it as they come to terms with it but it is dependent on your seeing them frequenty to move things forward. Another strike against long distance (can't see frequently even if they are perfect - and as I said the perfect is going to happen ....almost never. Nope - not going to search the world for that.
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Thank you for explaining in more detail, Cgymike. :) Based on what you have shared and the clarification of it all, it makes sense.

I’m not sure where you live, but I do hope that you soon find a boyfriend . . . one that is geographically desirable. One thing that I will say is, don’t rule out a long distance relationship “IF” there is a good probability that you two can date for “X” amount of time AND if it looks promising that you two can end up living in the same town/city or you two can end up living with each other in a mutual reasonable amount of time.

Wilson
 
591.0 miles. I'd rate him a 10.

We 'met' on line, and he flew me to where he was working at the time (not his home town, which was much further).

When our fantastic weekend was nearly over, I'd set the alarm on my watch for 8:30AM to make sure I (we) could get up early enough to catch my flight back home. This was probably 12+ years ago, and to this day, my watch(s) alarm(s) go off at 8:30AM.

So... if he was so fantastic, what happened??? He wasn't willing to move to where I live because of his job, and he traveled a lot for his work. I wasn't willing to give up my life here and move there, only to still never see him because he was rarely home.

I obviously still think very fondly of him though, and will never forget my special weekend and the life I almost had.
 
Rio. I didn't necessarily have to go there for work, but I went cruising on line, we met, and I went. I try to make it back once a month if I can. There is also Barcelona and Venice on my own time. I would name a few more but am starting to sound like a slut!
 
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I had the same experience.

We had two days of exploratory bliss but we were both wedded to our own careers and comfort zones in separate cities to take it further.

He drove me to the bus station as he drove himself to work on the Monday morning and the car radio was playing this eery, gutteral Andalusian wailing which I found later was about how love can possess you like witchcraft—

 
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