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What is the point of a 1sided sex?

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I have notice on fans sites that some guys are just born as sex slaves They have to give bj then they have to bottom but they are getting nothing in return. The term is to be the bitch then he has to jack off himself to finish Is that sex?
 
According to a popular book on gay sex, they are called "pleasure traps" and unfairly labeled as dysfunctional. The person who prefers a passive role in sex and then masturbates to orgasm, is getting just as much enjoyment as the active person.
 
It is strange that you described them as being "born" to their sexual role.

It is a behavior. It is a learned behavior.

The concept of identifying as a top or a bottom is a learned behavior about behavior.
 
"I'm just a hole, sir". In their fantasies a selfish top is "a real man", a straight guy that wants nothing to do with them. Being considerate is gay.
 
I never understood that

I am facebook friends with this guy and he sent me videos of him and his boyfriend and the one guy is a total bottom he sucked his bf dick ate his ass gets pounded and he gets nothing in return why not make your bottom boyfriend cum too so you can both relax?
 
It is possible that the one person 'serving' the other wants to be in total control of their own orgasm.

And of course for some in a master/slave relationship, particularly where they may be locked in chastity, it is about denial of orgasm.

People are pretty complex creatures when it comes to pleasure.
 
I have notice on fans sites that some guys are just born as sex slaves They have to give bj then they have to bottom but they are getting nothing in return. The term is to be the bitch then he has to jack off himself to finish Is that sex?
I’m a submissive guy, I ooze precum when being fucked. I have hands free orgasms from being fucked. I only cum from prostate manipulation. I get the most pleasure when my ass or mouth has made a man cum. Nothing like it.
 
It is strange that you described them as being "born" to their sexual role.

It is a behavior. It is a learned behavior.

The concept of identifying as a top or a bottom is a learned behavior about behavior.

You're free to believe that, but I don't.;)
 
You're free to believe that, but I don't.;)
Because it's all casual speculation. It could be lizard people vs. humans as far as anyone's opinion goes.

I like JUB because there is a range of opinions on many things.

At times, when we assert one, whether common or uncommon, whether popular or unpopular, it can be read by many as a claim to be authoritative, similar to when a doctor might post about COVID, yet even then, one doctor's opinion is one among millions.

Some decades ago, it became common to preface debated points with "in my opinion" or "I think". I've always avoided that when I catch myself inclining, as it automatically weakens one's point. It should be manifestly obvious that I hold my opinion and that it is proffered in contrast to an opposing view. Diminishing it by offering an introductory apology for having it seems a bit PC and of the view that we should affirm that all opinions/views are equal.

But, I am fine with opinions not being equal so long as we accept that all views may be expressed as views. The whole point of puttting them out in the marketplace of ideas is that we then supply the listener with the beginnings of investigation.

I've learned countless things on JUB from reading the often surprisings statements on myriad subjects, sometimes delivered as proven facts, and sometimes they are discovered to be true.

As the question of sexual role certainly goes to the question of dominance, it would be really interesting to learn what genetic, psychological, and spiritual research has been done to learn how much dominance is innate.
 
According to a popular book on gay sex, they are called "pleasure traps" and unfairly labeled as dysfunctional. The person who prefers a passive role in sex and then masturbates to orgasm, is getting just as much enjoyment as the active person.
Only of the lousy top doesn't ever even get close to the prostate.
 
You're free to believe that, but I don't.;)
You're likewise free to believe that everyone strives to get the best out of themselves in life.

I always recall all the revered wiser-than-belamyi of JUB being all for the "benevolent dictator" as the most desirable form of rule.
 
It is strange that you described them as being "born" to their sexual role.

It is a behavior. It is a learned behavior.

The concept of identifying as a top or a bottom is a learned behavior about behavior.
The concept of identifying a behaviour as systematically learned is a learned thought.

It is fascinating that you handled inborn tendencies and conditioned behaviours with an instilled belief.
 
Oh, as for the OP, the point is to get off right away, which is the main point of daily sex: you can expect some people to be true connaisseurs and sybarites of sex but, like with anything else in life (food and drink, art and music, clothing and perfume, whatever and whatever), you can not expect that to be the general rule to lead everyone's life.
 
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