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What is your grief style?

What's your grief style.

  • I withdraw and stay quiet

    Votes: 19 70.4%

  • I like to interacts with others and talk

    Votes: 3 11.1%

  • Combination of both depending on my mood.

    Votes: 5 18.5%
  • Total voters
    27
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Everyone grieves differently.

I want to know specifically who withdraws and doesn't like to talk about and those who like to come together and talk about it.

I just lost one of my best friends at work to cancer a few days ago. We have a large staff at work with lots of different people I can talk to and grieve with.

I just want to know percentage wise how many withdraws and stays quiet vs. those who like to get together and talk.


Personally, I like to get together and talk.
 
When I'm grieving I don't socialize to try and make NEW friends........but I do chatter it up with my establised friends.
 
I deal with it. I analyse, reflect, and move on.
 
I withdraw and only talk to friends and family mainly people who can share my grief.. And I sleep alott... grief exhausts me like nothing else can.
 
I agree with blondecanadian that grief exhaust me.

Personally, my ideal way of grieving is hang around and talk to friends and family members of the deceased for hours on end.
 
Larryng Your absolutely correct in saying everyone's grief is different. I tend to be a little of both depending on the situation.
When it comes to the loss of immediate family, i.e, grandmother, aunt, uncle, etc, I tend to be more of a support to others as best as I can be, depending on how close I was to the departed.
When it comes to personal loss such as the loss of my mother (who was everything to me) a few years ago, I went into a shell, depression, and if it were not for the good support of close family and friends I would'nt have gotten through it.
 
Rpflava yup everyone grieves differently.

Here are some variations of grief habits.

Some cry alot others dont.

Some sleep too much others cant sleep.

Some overeat others have no appetite.

Some go numb and into auto-pilot others crumble.

Too many more variations for me to mention.
 
larryng said:
Everyone grieves differently.

I want to know specifically who withdraws and doesn't like to talk about and those who like to come together and talk about it.

I just lost one of my best friends at work to cancer a few days ago. We have a large staff at work with lots of different people I can talk to and grieve with.

I just want to know percentage wise how many withdraws and stays quiet vs. those who like to get together and talk.


Personally, I like to get together and talk.
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I withdraw and stay quiet, and move on.
 
Thanks to this poll, I'll will ask people at work if they are comfortable with talking about the deceased or not.

Befor this poll.......I assumed most people would want to talk about the deceased , often.

Wow......practical life knowledge ....learned from JUB :-)
 
Thanks for all you voted and posted......

Please keep chiming in.
 
wow....lots of people don't want to talk about death.

Who would've known.
 
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