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What is your personal way of flirting with a guy?

How do you flirt?

  • Smile(s)

    Votes: 9 50.0%
  • Subtle or Prolonged Eye Contact

    Votes: 10 55.6%
  • Compliment(s)

    Votes: 5 27.8%
  • Ask for Something

    Votes: 1 5.6%
  • Make Small Talk

    Votes: 7 38.9%
  • Offer to Help With Something

    Votes: 3 16.7%
  • Use a Pick Up Line

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    18
  • Poll closed .
I can't flirt/don't even know how to flirt.

(and out of shyness/fear, at most give a quick look/quick smile, then just continue on walking past :lol: )
 
I almost always waited for them to make a move. I was always bad at flirting, so that´s why my conversations with everyone were true and meaningful even if it didn´t led to anything sexual. A laugh would have been a real laugh, ¨come and see my cd collection¨ was really about showing off my cd collection etc. Not only that but I hated so much guys who tried too hard, fake laughs, buying you drinks just so you owe them something, or guys thinking they act so confident that they came off as arrogants.

One of the only few times I was the one initiating conversation was with this guy a few years ago who actually became my husband last year :D Talk about having a feeling...
 
I usually will compliment their body if their profile pic is a shirtless or nearly nude one, and if I get a reply, we go from there and sext.
 
I generally embarrass myself by being too blunt and saying something stupid or otherwise totally fuck-up an introduction. Then it takes a while to convince him I'm not a piece of shit, but an acquired taste.
 
Everyone's different. Confidence is key. Clichés are often true, etc etc.

For the most part, if you ask me, just don't hit on 'em whatever you do. Even for a simple hookup a little class is worth the effort. Like, maybe, "I'm not hitting on you - (pause, snicker, grin) not yet - I just finally got tired of wondering whether you liked free drinks and awkward conversation."

They'll probably laugh, and you'll say, "thankfully free drinks take care of that second part after a little while."

Or, you know, tell 'em they're fuggin hot as fuck. See first sentence above. =)
 
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