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What Is Your Relationship Like With Your Mother?

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I'm just curious; It seems like most of the gay dudes i've known in my time have had an intense love/hate relationship with their mom. lol


I love and consider my mother more than anyone else in my family, and i've always been close to her, but god I hate her sometimes. lmao









Alright, your turn. :gogirl:
 
We're pretty close, but not overly so. We live about 20 minutes away. I see her roughly twice a month, and probably talk to her on the phone once a week. We enjoy each other's company, and would do anything for each other. But we both have our own lives to live.

Lex
 
i love her dearly, but i wouldnt want to live with her.

she actually had more trouble with me being gay than my dad, but shes coming around. high time, its been 10 years.
 
My mom and I are very close. I talk to her on the phone just about every day. When we're in the same town, we make time for coffee and lunch dates about once a week... even when I'm staying with her and my step-dad.
 
I can relate! I come from an Italian family, where the mother is supposed to be the central figure in the family. I was really close with my mom growing up, and she is still a good friend, but there are definitely times when I can't stand her.
 
My mom is an amazing woman. I have no hate for her what so ever. I'm not perfect, but she did a damn good job with me on her own. I love her very much.
 
fabio112 said:
I can relate! I come from an Italian family, where the mother is supposed to be the central figure in the family. I was really close with my mom growing up, and she is still a good friend, but there are definitely times when I can't stand her.
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BADgreek said:
Not only am I gay, but I'n also Greek. I love my ma more than anybody else in my family, but sometimes I get really exasperated with her. She can be my best friend but she can be the meanest woman. I love my ma.
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So it's an ethnic thing, then. That makes me feel a lot better.
 
Our relationship is pretty good... she does drive me crazy sometimes, but we get along fabulously.
 
I'm her favorite. *bats eyelashes*

I love her dearly even though she's over 1,000 miles away.
 
I without a doubt have the greatest mum in the world! I know everybody loves there mum but me and my mum never even argue or get annoyed at each other at all. I can't ever remember having a single argument with her actually.
 
My mom's a complete bitch. But so am I so we're pretty close. People who don't know us very think we're horribly disfunctional, but I think our relationship works.
 
loveolder18 said:
I without a doubt have the greatest mum in the world! I know everybody loves there mum but me and my mum never even argue or get annoyed at each other at all. I can't ever remember having a single argument with her actually.
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That pretty much sums up what me and my mother are like. We never argue or bicker, we just laugh at everything and act like idiots :rofl: my partner keeps saying"She's nearly 50, shouldn't she be knitting?" lol to which i reply "This is the only woman i know who has the balls to get up and dance on a table in a crowded bar and sing chirpy chirpy cheap cheap on kareoke and not be embarrased"lmao

i love my mum ^_^ wouldn't have her change for anything
 
I've ALWAYS been LUCKY in my life -- sometimes I depend on that :lol:

And that luck started before I was even born...

I [strike]know[/strike] HOPE that everyone here thinks that their mother is the BEST mother out there -- I certainly feel that way...

11 years ago my partner met my mother for the VERY FIRST time...

That night he told me that she is the closest living human being to a SAINT that he had ever met...

She is truly a WONDERFUL person -- and someone that still LIVES her life in a way that I admire and strive to assimilate...

I'm LUCKY #7 of 10 LUCKY kids to have been able to call her MOTHER!!!

We have -- and have ALWAYS had -- an AWESOME relationship!!!

:):):)
 
I am out to my traditional Chinese parents. They have dealt with it in the best way they know how - which includes sweeping it all under the carpet. Trust me, this is a far cry from the other roads they could've taken. In fact "I" disowned them for awhile since my mother made it really difficult for me to be out of the closet..

My mother and I are VERY close, though we also have a really complex, yet difficult relationship. She was only the best mother she knew how to be, which is that she loved her children, and meant well, however, she was far from being nurturing - and angry all the time while we were growing up. She STILL is.

I will always love and respect her dearly, and she loves me a whole lot, however, she has myriads of issues, and has given me the baggage that comes with it. As a result, there will always be a part of me that can't stand her! I hate it how she's so angry with my father 100% of the time, and I'm convinced that this is the reason why I can't stand women. I'm convinced that this innately influenced how I am as a person today.

My father is the saint. He treats me like his peer, respects me, and would do anything/everything for me. He doesn't criticize, though when need be, tells me what his opinions are as a caring father. We have a great adult relationship that could be compared to a friendship at the same time. I respect and admire him more than words can say.
 
I've always had a really great relationship with my mom. My parents divorced when I was almost 3, so for awhile it was just my mom and I. We have our fair share of arguments but they're few and far between.

I will agree though that the majority of gay guys I know have that intense love/hate relationship with their mothers.
 
I have a great relationship with my mom. She is an amazing mom. I'm just as close with my dad too, he's an amazing dad as well. I usually talk to my parents a few times every week, and I see them whenever I get a chance to visit. I do butt heads with them on occasion because my entire family is outspoken and opinionated, but it's all out of love.
 
Aren't all men mammy's boys at the end of they day. Hell I have 2 brothers and I swear we back our ma up in everything my poor da cannot win lol.
 
Usually we have a good relationship. When she gets angry at something most of the time I calm her down and see the other side of the story. Recently she wants me to spread my own wings, which I'm kinda scared to do.
 
Well, I certainly love my mother - but I can't be in the same room alone with her for more than an hour before she starts driving me up the wall.
 
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