What is your worst ever mistake on JUB ?

[Shepherd 2]

It was for me two worst things. First I set myself as a target when I first arrived by plainly letting people know I was a clergyman. I may as well have built my own funeral pyre and lighted it so I could burn for all to see. It generated many nasty and hateful PMs in those days.

But the second, and in my opinion, my first in rank of worst, was my decision to announce that I was leaving JUB on January 5th of this year. I was so drowning in JUB posting that my relationship of nineteen years was at risk. Not knowing how important reality is and what is the reality is my biggest mistake. I still struggle with keeping the urge to post here under control.



Shep+

 

[ozguy]

.... Screw you all.....

Me first, please!

 

[frankfrank]

Pssst. Use Firefox. It has a built-in dictionary that tells you when you fuck up.

It depends. I don't know how many times I've ended up typing NOT for "now" or NOW for "not" and of course no flag comes up on those. But making that mistake sucks, as it can completely change the meaning more than tye typical spelling error.

Such as "I am now [supposed to say not] planning to be in Chicago next Thursday."

 

[Alpha1851]

when i drunk posted about a fight in a club i had with some little bitch.

it was very childish of me

but it felt good at the time so, dont really care

Hmmm...what about your, "I had sex w/ a lesbian," thread. That is one of my all time favorites and it's still kicking in the Bi Talk area.

 

[PreTTy PeTe]

i wouldn't call this a mistake but some might

i called a certain member a c**t and because i did that
i got 3 infraction points.

how can it be a mistake when all i said was the truth.

 

[chargedensity]

I started a post saying some really mean, bigoted and just plain horrible things because I hated myself for being gay and I was taking it out on you guys...

Sorry.

I love myself, my boyfriend, and you all now! <3

 

[Sausy]

I posted a thread in self-pity about me feeling ignored.It was an overrreaction on my part,being very sensitive to not feeling appreciated and I'm one of those full of self-doubts.But a lot of people have tough times and don't whine about it...I should have just communicated through comment or pm with a few jubbers I felt close enough to talk with and not make a public spectacle out of it.

And I really overreacted when a certain jubber who made himself out to be a hot muscle god who had been given his own worship thread left under ugly circumstances.I had become very friendly with him and IMed him quite a few times,and he never put any moves on me as he did on several other jubbers,so I never had really any unpleasant exchanges with him.I was shocked and angry to see two threads(one started by him,one another jubber celebrating his leaving the site)after coming home late from work one night which played out the whole pathetic incident and lit into the Jubbers tearing into him,mocking him and celebrating and hi-fiving his departure but I did not know how much stress and aggravation he caused,both to some friends I have on the boards and for the site in general with his insecurities and lies and threats.

I even wrote to him before he officially deleted his account that I could only remain friends with him if he came clean with who he really was rather than pretend to be someone he was not,since it was clear that the photos he claimed were of himself were certainly not.He waffled and couldn't give me any assurances of that,saying what was said about him was lies.After that,I could not and would not talk again with him.I'm a good friend,but if one won't even begin to see the error of their ways,and not own up to them and aplogize and strive to be better,it just isn't worth it.I did what a friend should,and possibly even gave him at first TOO much the benefit of the doubt.I still feel terrible I was cold and nasty to some people on the boards I care about as friends here.

 

[jackoroe]

I have been intemperate with some of my posts. I have asked that some be deleted, myself, because I thought they were inappropriate.

 

[twardmo]

joining, jk lol
probably drunk posting

 

[winterknight]

Allowing it to become simultaneously a place to bitch about how my life sucks and an excuse for not getting off my arse and doing something about it.

 

[Joshua_me]

I got into a very private fight with a very public and popular guy here, and even though it's been over a year now, I still regret it. We just got off on the wrong foot....

 

[evil_danger]

I made a thread asking what peoples sexuality means to them. The real life event that made me think of the question, well I over stated it in a way that was taken to reflect badly on me and I took some abuse from it. I cringe even now when I see that thread.

 

[Pushover]

What was my worst mistake here? Joining a debate and getting cussed out because I had a different opinion, that's what.

 

[JOHN B]

^^^I sure had fun filming THAT fiasco.......

 

[seamusnewwest]

I just discovered Comments today, after 2 years of posting. (Thanks a million, Noelie, for putting the "Don't forget to check your comments" tag on your posts.)

All this time I thought people were kinda indifferent to my posts, and now I discover I have heaps of positive feedback spanning 2 years. So a belated thanks to:

springboksfan, centexfarmer, joeslifeyork, andreus, byro, Kennyworth, opinterth, Effortless_Pro, jannus, glo-unit, noelie, zeropoint84, trawler69, tribi and other commentors.

I greatly appreciate your kind words.

Oh. What are Comments, and how do I seem them?

 

[seamusnewwest]

Hmmm...what about your, "I had sex w/ a lesbian," thread. That is one of my all time favorites and it's still kicking in the Bi Talk area.

That's great! Link please?

I had sex with a lesbian once. We agreed that because she was a lesbian, and I was gay, that it still did not count as straight sex.

 

[seamusnewwest]

Worst mistake was when my girlfriend came downstairs one night while I was on the home page of JUB - "umm, what's that?"

Second worst was expecting that I could make real life local friends off of JUB.

Third worst - revealing too much about myself.
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[PreTTy PeTe]

ok another mistake

i had a fight with the king of Fun and Games(no name needed so don't ask) and later came to realize that he was a really nice and sweet guy.

i apologize my friend

 

[BenF]

I can honestly say that I do not think that I have made any mistakes since being a member here.

 

[PreTTy PeTe]

I can honestly say that I do not think that I have made any mistakes since being a member here.

yes you are as perfect as the University Professor ...............