What kind of gay are you?

[Soilwork]

I dress normal, I like shopping somewhat, not obsessed with it, i look normal, i act normal and gosh darn it I am normal lol

and yet are still 100% gay.

(which IS normal, you know...funny how that works, eh?)

 

[yellowminicooper]

The only things gay about me is I have a yellow car and I think about guys alot.

 

[josher]

I'm the kind of gay man who wonders why other gay men have to obsess about "acting" straight and, whether intentionally or not, demean anyone they consider to be less than "straight acting." I'm beginning to think this obsession is growing among young gay men. Forty years ago gay men didn't seem to care where people fit on the masculine/feminine scale unless they were internally homophobic.

 

[rotary]

The only things gay about me is I have a yellow car and I think about guys alot.

I have a black car and think about guys. Does that mean I'm gay too?

 

[Kester]

I'm just like any other regular dude, who likes doing things that all guys like doing. The only difference is that I have an attraction to other men.

 

[NineOfClubs]

Ok, using my proper english.

For me, girly guys turn me off. Unless they are amazingly cute. But otherwise, no. I'm not one of those open bi guys. I'm just a guy who likes girls, and at times guys. Sometimes, I crave girls, and sometimes I crave guys. I'm weird like that.

Well, tell us when you've made up your mind.

Otherwise, get lost.

 

[NineOfClubs]

In my opinion, there's nothing more Lame-ass than a gay guy who tries to convince us how straight acting he is.

I think anyone who uses the term "straight acting" should be denied sex from men.. if you're so straight acting.. go have sex with women and act like you like it, loser.

Absolutely.

As Soilwork, himself, would say "Grow a pair!".

 

[Soilwork]

thanks, danjjo.... (although I say "strap on a pair", and mean boxing gloves, not testicles.. but hey ... you got the gyst of it, and I thank you)

 

[Elwood]

I don't know??

 

[lunarus]

I am the kind of gay that has grown tired of the other gays that are ashamed to be part of a diverse community.

I am the kind of gay that is tired of hearing how others that are part of our community would rather sit back and do nothing when our rights are taken away.

I am the kind of gay that is tired of hearing the same cliche phrase "I don't like labels, I'm not gay I am just a sexual being..." Knowing full well it is just another form of shame for who you really are.

I am the kind of gay that is sick to death of being this country's doormat because it is easier for them when others are too afraid to reveal who they are there by lending credence to "I d not know any gay people."

I am the kind of gay that hates feeling like he is fighting alone because others do not want to risk their closeted status.

I am the kind of gay that is on the verge of just giving up and saying to hell with it because we all cannot come together.

I am the kind of gay that feels anger when e support groups that would rather see us gone.

I am the kind of gay that is angry that I cannot marry the man I have been with for 14 years.

I am the kind of gay that just found out Amazon.com gives to groups that hates me. Thanks Soil for that information.

I am the kind of gay that is just tired...

 

[just_mills]

There's different genres of Gay?!

Why'd no one tell me!?

 

[niconico00]

In my opinion, there's nothing more Lame-ass than a gay guy who tries to convince us how straight acting he is.

I think anyone who uses the term "straight acting" should be denied sex from men.. if you're so straight acting.. go have sex with women and act like you like it, loser.

I agree 100%

 

[Swellegant]

I'm the kind of gay that gets extremely pissy every time this topic comes up.

Look, what matters in life is not whether you act "straight" or "girly" nor whether you are gay or bi or straight. What matters in life is whether or not you're a dick. Just don't be a dick, and everything will work out fine.

Nevertheless, I am perfectly happy to admit that I am a Classic Queer: I have a bit of a lisp, I dress up in drag, I address my male buddies as "girlfriend," I listen to opera and showtunes and disco, I've seen every movie Judy Garland ever made, and my hands tend to hang off my wrists unless I'm doing something with them.

And if you have a problem with that, it's your problem, not mine.

 

[belamy]

thanks, danjjo.... (although I say "strap on a pair", and mean boxing gloves, not testicles..

Really?!