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What Makes You Happy?

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Things have been a bit shit lately. Since coming out I have found all the things I once did to make myself happy, I no longer do. I am now without something, anything to help make me happy when I'm down. TV, movies, videogames, masterbation, none of it works.

I'm after ideas and suggestions.

So when you are feeling down, what do you do to make yourself happy?
 
dancing all night long
stopping to smell the roses
being in nature
 
People.

Other people are the best for distractions. Also the best at bringing in fresh perspective.
 
Friends. Mine's are very wacky; simply watching or listening to their lunacy are enough to ease all the burdens.
 
Dude, you need to go take a walk. Try for 5 miles. Get a little sun if you can.
 
If you're depressed seek medical help.
 
ya got two questions ans no good answers these a types questions

but if help

Da planet not goin fly up gods asshole cause then no will see all da sparky guys changin da lightbulbs in da sky Bet god get big electirc Bill TRY SOLARMILLS
' OOOOOKAYYYYYYYY '
ooh somethin is a up there ha ooh few stars beamin got be houseboys buys polishin da furniture ha

..| hope ya out ya downer quick whereeva ya be and careful ya no fall off da tree

--%----%----%----%----%----%-- guess why banana ships has great time?
cause fruit good for you

guess one thing is world not from internet but it other way round ans planet so cool
 
JonesHere said:
Dude, you need to go take a walk. Try for 5 miles. Get a little sun if you can.
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I do think that is a good idea, I was doing that in summer and I enjoyed it. I may just go for a good long one today. It is a nice day outside. Thanks for the suggestion. ..|
 
cgymike said:
Huge amounts of wine - but I know it's bad for you...


*****Raises glass *****

Red red wine you make me feel so fine...
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:lol: So funny you say that. I started drinking wine in the last few weeks. Who knew that wine could taste nice, I didn't.

My worry is now I'll turn into a wino. lol
 
What makes the gargoyle happy?

Gargoyles
pop music from the 70s and 80s
going to the library or bookstore and finding a random book to get
designing and making a T-shirt
word search puzzles
petting the cats
grabbing my camera and taking some "arty" pictures
indoor lacrosse
looking at random pictures online
jazz music
coming up with a new story
"spot the difference" puzzles
updating album artwork on iTunes
old "social engineering" films from the 40s and 50s
crossword puzzles
fresh baked cookies
classical music
designing a dream kitchen or apartment or house
chatting with a good friend
reconnecting with an old friend
finding an old book I haven't read in forever, and rereading it
discovering new bands and new music

Lex
 
Listen and dance to Gaga
Read X-Men comics
Be around friends
Daydream about impossible stuff that would make life more interesting
Discuss philosophical stuff with my friends
Reading
Eating
Cooking (sometimes)
Sleeping
Surf the Web

Yep.
 
Walking around the city
Making art that isn't school-related (can't remember the last time that happened)
Coffee with friends
Spending time with the kiddo
 
Molotov Spark said:
hmmm for me its the simpilest things. writing, listening to music, talking to the few "true" friends that i have, watching movies, designing things that pop in my pretty head, and reading in general. i've lived a pretty harsh life and i've often used these things to just distract myself from my problems and i like to think that it works.
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Seething said:
Make new friends. It's always great to have friends from ALL walks of life. Plus, conversation is always a great distraction from depression. :)
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Yes I think friends is an important thing. I got back on the horse yesterday to continue to meet some new people and maybe find a good friend or too. I just need to not let the tools I will meet on the way drag me down. I met a nice guy last night for coffee and we had an interesting chat. I hope to meet him again tomorrow for lunch.

JyStar said:
Music.
Whopping ass on Super Street Fighter 4.
Random texts from a friend i was thinking about.
Writing in my journal.
Ice cream!
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I got Super Street Fighter 4 yesterday but I still have not played it yet. Tomorrow I'll have time and I think an ass whooping should be a nice tonic. lol
 
sinfulsimon said:
Walking around the city
Making art that isn't school-related (can't remember the last time that happened)
Coffee with friends
Spending time with the kiddo
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Same here..|

Except for the last one...I like playing with my friend's Husky :)
 
My cock.

My boyfriend's cock.

Going to leather play parties.

*evil grin*

Iarla Ó Lionáird.

Designing iPad apps.

Taking photos of hunky bear softball teams and posting them on Facebook.

Using Apple Aperture.

Other than sex, not much has changed about my hobbies or interests since coming out.
 
Music
Working on stuff I enjoy, like vintage audio gear. (see my user name)
Talking to a good friend.
But the BEST for me.... get in my wetsuit and play in the ocean for a couple of hours...|

I'll tell you what CAN make you UNHAPPY.... spending too much time on the internet.
Be outside! I LIIIIIVE for the summer!!!
 
coffee
weed
kittycats!!
going everywhere with people. just getting out of the house.
driving with loud music and the windows down.
playing/making music.
laughing
reading
lazing around with my bf and his cat forever
 
stacyphierce said:
This just gave us both a laughing fit. Thought we'd share:

Elvin: Watch this vid.
Me: That guy looks familiar, I think he's a porn star. Damn, I watch too much porn.
Elvin: LMAO He does look familiar. If only I could see his dick I'd know for sure.
Me: LMAO how sad is it that I just thought "I think I know those tattoos."

We're insane. But a good laugh is always a happy time. :)
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Thanks Stace. It gave me a laugh. And now I might do something else to give me a happy. That guy was hot. :D
 
jogging north or south during a sunrise feels great.

go out in the city and talk to a stranger, listen to an old person tell stories,

stuff like that, anything not in front of a computer screen.
 
Not being able to enjoy what you usually used to is a sign of depression. Don't force yourself to enjoy anything, and look for help. And cheer up! :D
 
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