what qualities do you look for in a guy?

[Fboy1988]

What Qualities do you look for in a guy?

I like guys with manners and someone who can make me laugh

 

[pausanias_usa]

Good-natured, funny, and slightly goofy (!?).

 

[gotdimples77]

Funny is good..id much rather have sex with someone who can make me laugh than someone who is all like "yeah you want my cock dont you baby"(ick). he should be about as attractive as I am (or as I consider myself). He should have a job, doesnt have to be rich but should want to work (My career/ hobbies take alot of my time....he should have something to do when I am busy that doesnt include sleeping around or doing alot of drugs).

 

[sonny10305]

I definitely, absolutely. positively need a sense of humor.
I'm a major goof ball, love to laugh and have fun, If the dude doesn't get me
it won't work out.

 

[Alive and Free]

Cant be a flakey flammer and needs intellect.

 

[Aflute04]

I need someone who will stimulate my mind...as well as other places

(in that order).

I'd agree with Danno there about the physical level as well. But I will say that I have been known to find someone more attractive after I've gotten to know them a little better.

 

[Gooey45]

I need someone who is just a happy person and understands who they are , someone who i'snt dramatic and is able to take hits as well as give them.Intelligent and focused with a great sense of humor.

 

[timnmostud]

I think we all have certain physical characteristics we like, but those can wear off pretty quickly. I actually like people who are their own person. Falling in with the crowd in dress, habits, hobbies, anything sort of turns me off. I like guys who can laugh at themselves and don't try to prove too much. A sense of humour is an absolute. Aside from that, honesty. I have that guy, but it really holds just as true for friends.

 

[G-Lexington]

My ideal body type for a guy is fairly tall, muscular, tan, dark, and clean-shaven.

My longterm boyfriend fits none of those characterstics. To me, physical attributes are extremely overrated.

Lex

 

[igeorge25]

As tall as me, or taller
Blonde
green eyes
light skin
in shape
smooth
nice bum
fashionable
athletic
funny
fun-loving
confident

on the other hand, i also go crazy for tan, hairy, dark haired, dark eyes, etc... so it just goes to show you ATTRACTIVE CAN MEAN ANYTHING

but i have high standards, I have to admit. well. cmon. look at me you would too haha

 

[Luminox]

Hehe...yeah I have some standards too in terms of appearance...I mean he doesn't have to be a frickin' supermodel (cos I ain't either !) but a certain degree of good looks is needed to capture my attention ! Personality alone won't do it for me. I have as much use for personality without looks asI have for looks without personality...ie: not much !

I like somebody who is funny and likes to laugh and (MANDATORY !) isn't on either extreme : nor all over-the-top macho (rough is sexy, too rough and abrupt is not !) nor all sissy and girly either...

And most important : somebody who's patient ! You'll need this if you're gonna be with me !!!

 

[3nipples]

Above all, he has to have brains and enjoy some of the same activities as I do.

Whatever he looks like, I'll find him attractive once I get to know his him, so looks are way down the list of important things.

 

[Grey_Sky]

Physicaly I like the average guy. The guy next door. Someone who acts natural and does not need to spend hours in front of a mirror and a bunch of money in clothes and products before he thinks he's good to go out... (I'm not much into fashion... in fact it's a bit of a turn off for me)

Personality-wise, I like someone who, just like me, is not into games, drama, fakes and lies. And also very inportant, someone who know how to appreciate the simple things in life and who know how to reciprocate acts of love.

 

[mabby7]

Hmm. I don't know what I want. Sometimes I may say that I want this type of guy and then it changes. I just don't know.

Some guys can treat you badly, but then I still like them. Some guys may not be supermodels, but I really like them for their personality and sense of humor. Some guys may not have looks and personality, but doesn't that make it easier, you could talk to them for hours, ... lols.

I guess I'm attracted to guys who are themselves. Everyone is unique and it's unfair to pigeonhole people.

 

[loppyears]

I like a guy who's sweet, spontaneous, wild and funny. Humor is a big yes. It's always good when a guy has something to say all the time as well cos I'm a good listener.

I know a guy would be good looking in my eyes if he charms me with his personality so physical attributes isn't at the top of my list.

 

[lmarr101]

He must be sweet, funny, great eyes, tasty, fashionable, have an ear for music und athletic.(Deustch or British i prefer)

 

[kayman23]

I like a guy whom I share common interests, similar lifestyles, and has a sense of humor. I'm not very hung up on looks and appearance, but I do want someone who likes to be quite physically active (not an athlette persay, but do a total coach potato).

However, I think the most important quality is the abilities to able to communicate and be a great listener.

 

[USEDCAR]

Likes to have fun im a crazy person
Likes game shows
Likes to have fun w/o Drinking an Smoking or Drugs
Has a Job and A Drivers License and a car

Just put that in my previous crush and i will be happy

 

[LostAddict]

Someone that can understand me. My humour whether it be my incredibly dry sarcasm or my incredibly stupid faces, my gigantic rants that i go on for seemingly no reason, why i'm happy or sad.
And I'd like to understand in turn.

 

[justjw]

First of all : Welcome to JUB Corbinarc and LostAddict! Enjoy the ride!

Anyway, the qualities I look for in a guy:
- Not taking himself, or life, too seriously
- Fantastic eyes
- Dry humour
- Always had a thing for goofy-looking guys
- The more muscles the less the attraction,
- Honesty
- Not too romantic

Yeah, that’s about it.