What scares you the most

[birddog7]

Fear of life, is fear of the unknown. We don't know what we will have to go through before we die. Many most unpleasant things can happen.

Most mornings I wake up, and I wonder "what's going to happen today?" Will I get sick, be injured on the job, get run over by a drunk on the way to or from work, etc.?

 

[Joshua_me]

but I don't know dying. It's kind of in it's own realm, ..

You know after you have an orgasm and there's that little moment there where you've stopped shooting cum and all the intense contractions have stopped but there are those few seconds there when you're still kind of shaking and haven't quite returned to normal yet ?

The French have a term for that that translates into "the slow, little death"

As if to imply each cum session takes just a little bit of your "life force" out of you.

Perhaps that is what the realm of death is like.

(Well, this thread just took an odd turn... )

 

[vulgar_newcomer]

The shear thought that after you die, that's it. I can't bring myself to believe that there's no afterlife or i'll become extremely depressed *cries*

Think of it like the year before your 1st birthday. You weren't scared then were you? Even though many millions of awful things could be coming your way in a short time from that point, (and hopefully won't for the remainder of your stay ) you had no fear of tomorrow or even knew of it. And a year later upon birth don't remember the year before where you were never even dreamed of at that time.

 

[GL]

The same things that will scare you the most when you get a little older...

Dying alone, dying forgotten, dying knowing that you don't have enough to cover your "final expenses".

Realizing without children or a partner it will be like you never existed at all.

ditto.

word for word.

 

[birddog7]

The same things that will scare you the most when you get a little older...

Dying alone, dying forgotten, dying knowing that you don't have enough to cover your "final expenses".

Realizing without children or a partner it will be like you never existed at all.

I don't care about the "final expenses". Let the state pay for the funeral. I've supported them all my life. I could care less who pays after I'm gone.

I'm sure I'll die lonely, and alone. I'm sure I'll live the rest of my life lonely, and alone.

I know it'll be like I never exited. I'd say a week after my death, nobody will ever know, or care that I existed. Hell, nobody cares now...

 

[DJ1990]

Gays are supposed to be fun and loud and dance like fairies, not depressing.

 

[andyspete]

I don't care about the "final expenses". Let the state pay for the funeral. I've supported them all my life. I could care less who pays after I'm gone.

I'm sure I'll die lonely, and alone. I'm sure I'll live the rest of my life lonely, and alone.

I know it'll be like I never exited. I'd say a week after my death, nobody will ever know, or care that I existed. Hell, nobody cares now...

What difference does it make if they care or not after you're gone? What counts is who cares when you're alive. And for what it's worth I care about you now. I know I don't know you but I can't stand to see a fellow human being in pain. I offer you a long distance hug and the knowledge that someone in this world does care about you birddog!!

 

[andyspete]

Most gay guys I know are depressed and those that are dancing and loud are usually trying to disguise the pain.

As much as I wish you were wrong about this, I happen to agree with you wholeheartedly. It's quite unfortunate.

 

[Esquire0399]

It's more than unfortunate. I think depression is fairly common amongst everyone, though. It's something we all experience.

It absolutely is. Some people are just more open about it, while others are embarrassed to admit it. That's probably a big part of the problem. In our society it's just not okay to talk about these things.

 

[bankside]

Most gay guys I know are depressed and those that are dancing and loud are usually trying to disguise the pain.

I agree with you. Coming out can be one of the most gruelling things a person does. I do think people can usually recover from it though. Time does heal a lot. Of course that takes a lot of time.....

Group hug!

 

[andyspete]

Lol -- group hug ...

Count me in!! I love hugs, especially group hugs.

 

[leomendez93]

As much as I wish you were wrong about this, I happen to agree with you wholeheartedly. It's quite unfortunate.

It is... what can we do about the pain? Not sure as I have been trying to rid my own and it keeps lingering there.

 

[DJ1990]

Most gay guys I know are depressed and those that are dancing and loud are usually trying to disguise the pain.

Or maybe they are just having fun.
What a bunch of drama queens.....

 

[DJ1990]

Maybe you're all depressed because America has such an ugly landscape to live in. Go take a vacation to a nice place like Italy or some crap.

 

[DJ1990]

The United States has a ridiculously large variety of landscapes..are you kidding?


I think you're jealous because you missed our group hug .

Like what? Even California is ugly and on top of that it has earthquakes.

 

[Esquire0399]

^ Are you serious?













That was a dumb question.

 

[Esquire0399]

I won't derail this thread any further, even if it is yours lol, but you should just do some research .

Or he could open his eyes.

 

[DJ1990]

Hush little Americans don't you cry....

 

[DJ1990]

Nah, too much effort.

I look at pictures of places all the time hun.
It's all like...meh. Only Europe is awesome.

 

[DJ1990]

Pictures? You mean you've never been there?

OMFG! I gotta do a spit take!

Why would I go to a place that is ugly/nothing special?
Yeah that's how it works. You see a beautiful place and then you're like OMG I have to go there....and then you go there.
You don't see a place and say OMG THIS LOOKS PLAIN AND AVERAGE I have to go there to make sure it is plain and average....