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ThankGodforBeef

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Hi everyone here. Here's the thing: I really like this guy I met few months ago, and he kissed me one day and we slept together afterwards and I lost my viginity (both of them) to him...but he said he doesn't want a relationship...and I am going away until august...it's only been a week, and I am already missing him badly and madly...should I like try to keep in touch with him or just play it cool?
 
sunshinesteve said:
you had 2 virginities??????????????
I wonder how many i had and if there are any left....
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I'm sure there are plenty of people who will help you rid yourself of any residual virginities. :p


ThankGodforBeef said:
should I like try to keep in touch with him or just play it cool?
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It depends on whether there's anything resembling a friendship when you're not in bed.

This guy has made it clear that he doesn't want a romantic relationship (at least no romantic relationship with you).

You can keep in touch but the question is, "Why?".

If this guy is a friend, then keep in touch. If not, then he's a one-night stand and you should move on and not waste any more of your time.
 
Heh heh. 2 virginities...top and bottom...I mean...

He's definitely not a one-night stand...
Thanks, I think I am gonna keep in touch with him then since I don't wanna screw up our friendship. :o)
 
Keep it real and just be honest with him. Don't force or expect something else to happen. A friendship is more important than anything else.

Sex is a bonus and when the time is right, if you two are still close and cool, you'll both get that bonus. :)
 
Well you have a crush on a friend who's not interested in having a relationship with you. I'd definitely cool it. He's not into you that way.
 
Being in touch with someone doesn't equal having a relationship.

You can just be friends.

Hopefully the sex was good.
 
It sounds like he wasn't looking for much with you beyond a hook-up. It sucks that you're looking for more and you got attached to him, but think of it as moving on when you leave. It sounds like what you want is someone who is looking for a relationship...or at least something more than a booty call.

Id would give up on this guy and just focus on someone new. It doesn't sound like he'll come around to wanting you in the same way, so why waste your time?
 
He told you he doesn't want anything more. If you start getting clingy or mopey or otherwise come onto him I think it's safe to say he'll start avoiding you. Wouldn't you do the same thing?
 
That's what happens when you give your virginity away before knowing the guy's intentions. You're crushing on somebody who has no crush for you.
 
It depends on how you look at it. You really haven't lost a thing. You've gained a very special friend with benefits and you may hook up later. Move on and find someone else to make special memories with. Life is too short. Have fun (safely).
 
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