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So i met this guy on craigslist last night and he wants to meet up but I have never been with a guy and I dont trust meeting someone on craigslist. Also I am very very discreet and he says he is to but i sent him pics of myself and i want to ditch him but he has pics of me...what should i do?
 
jesus christ relax already.

should you see that guy? well, do you want to see him? if no, tell him that you have changed your mind and that you are sorry, and tell him well in advance if you have already made an appointment. standing people up is a very nasty thing to do. if you wanna see him, go see him. meet him somewhere public, like in a café. talk to him, and go for it if you feel like it. use condoms if you go there.

now, you shouldnt be sending "pictures of yourself" to strangers on the internet if you dont have the maturity to deal with it, which you clearly dont. nothing will probably happen, but still, stop doing it. dont use craigslist or other online services if you dont trust them. work on being less hystericaly closeted before you seek out sex with complete strangers. dont try to lead some sad double-life, its only gonna damage you. good luck.
 
so what if he has a picture of you? if you want to ditch him, ditch him.
 
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jesus christ relax already.

should you see that guy? well, do you want to see him? if no, tell him that you have changed your mind and that you are sorry, and tell him well in advance if you have already made an appointment. standing people up is a very nasty thing to do. if you wanna see him, go see him. meet him somewhere public, like in a café. talk to him, and go for it if you feel like it. use condoms if you go there.

now, you shouldnt be sending "pictures of yourself" to strangers on the internet if you dont have the maturity to deal with it, which you clearly dont. nothing will probably happen, but still, stop doing it. dont use craigslist or other online services if you dont trust them. work on being less hystericaly closeted before you seek out sex with complete strangers. dont try to lead some sad double-life, its only gonna damage you. good luck.
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very well said. If you do a no show w/o telling him who knows what can can do w/your pic's.

Don't whine over spilled milk after you sent face pic's. You should have thought better and sent faceless pic's. So write him back and tell him you have changed your mind on meeting, thank him anyway. If reason is aasked just tell him you were not ready to do this yet. Perhaps later.
 
What everyone else has said.

And stop tomcatting around Craigslist if you don't want to hook up.
 
biguysean said:
So i met this guy on craigslist last night and he wants to meet up but I have never been with a guy and I dont trust meeting someone on craigslist. Also I am very very discreet and he says he is to but i sent him pics of myself and i want to ditch him but he has pics of me...what should i do?
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Sorry to hear about your troubles. Now take a deep breath...... Let it out..... Now calm the fuck down.

OK, here's some advice. You need to take some time to decide exactly what you are looking for, preferably BEFORE you start looking for it - oops, too late. Since you've already leapt without looking, you need to choose to: 1) go ahead and meet the guy (but please do it safely - public place, preferably with a friend as backup), 2) not meet him and hope he isn't a complete psycho (a risk when meeting people online), 3) completely ditch him (not recommended as you have stupidly sent this complete stranger pictures of yourself yet insist you are very very discreet and there is no telling what he might do with them out of spite).

Good luck, and if nothing else, please learn from this to look at what you are doing to see if it is really what you want to do BEFORE you do it, instead of after.

Children these days! When will they ever learn? :rolleyes:
 
>>>So i met this guy on craigslist last night... I dont trust meeting someone on craigslist.

>>>Also I am very very discreet...but i sent him pics of myself.

That's a lot of self-contradiction for such a short post. :)

What should you do? Two things. First, send him a message and say "I'm sorry - I'm chickening out. I just don't think I'm ready for this. Thanks for offering, though." Secondly, next time you get horny, and the idea of meeting up with some stranger online sounds totally hot...go lie down, think about how amazing hot it might be, and jerk off. Once you've hit orgasm, THEN decide if you still think it's such a hot idea.

Lex
 
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