What should i do?

[justbored123]

This Guy cameout and he knows im gay, but he likes someone else
and he dosent know i like him...

should i tell him,, or it dosent matter no more?

 

[altlover85]

If you want to tell him to tell him because you are friends I think that's fine. If you are coming out in hopes that he'll like you because he knows you are gay understand that that is unlikely to happen.

 

[Echoes]

yes you should tell him, what can you lose?

 

[kennny88]

In my opinion it doesnt matter because, if he is intrested in somebody else its not doing neither one of you any good. You better off going about your business. Then if he have a change of heart then you have yourself a boyfriend.

 

[Seasoned]

Tell him you like him, keeping in mind that you can't take it personally if he doesn't feel the same way.

 

[KaraBulut]

should i tell him,, or it dosent matter no more?

There's not enough information provided here to really give you the best answer.

How will telling this guy that you like him make a dfference in anything?

The problem in general with the "I like you" discussion is "Ok, so what now?". The person disclosing the information feels somewhat better because they've disclosed a secret but most of the time what ensues is just an uncomfortable silence.

If this is a close friend, you have to make the decision based upon whether that friendship would be damaged by the disclosure.

If this is a casual acquaintance, it may make more sense to ask him on a date and to get to know each other instead of laying the burden of "I like you" on him.

 

[texan_slant]

You mention if "...it doesn't matter anymore..." Never say never, though, there is a time and place for everything.

It "could" matter, but you can only say it if there was ever a "right" time;
For example, if he's on cloud 9, I'd say don't tell him;
If it's a casual thing with no strings attached, you could do it subtly;
...definitely more of a chance if he were single.

You have to think about it this way - would telling him add value to his life, or just create drama? If either were you were on your deathbed, though, I'd definitely say YES, tell him.