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What. The. Fuck.

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Caeth

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So this past Thursday I went out to the club by myself...posted something about it heh. So Friday morning I wake up with a facebook message. A few weeks ago I hit on this really cute guy while out...he didn't really respond much so I just dropped it. This facebook message was from the guy. In short the message said hey what's up and what are you doing this weekend?

Of course I was pretty excited...I was really busy fri, sat, sun. working so i told him I was busy that weekend but that I'd also go out saturday night. Note: he didn't just facebook message me...he posted on my wall...and imed me. I saw him out Saturday but he was very very wasted so nothing happened. He wasn't exactly warm but he did say I was cute, etc. I just chalked it up to him being very drunk.

So Monday I called him and wanted to hang out that evening. He said he was busy/tired but that he'd try giving me a call. He didn't. I called again today to see what's up. He was stand-offish again, and I told him to call me again later to hang out after I got out of class. Still nothing.

What. The. Fuck. Facebook is wonderful cause I saw him posting on another guy's wall saying he's free this weekend (now that he knows I'm gone this weekend).

Who the hell does that? I guess I got dumped for someone "hotter". Bastard.
 
ain't no thang

don't take it personal

he's just a bad playa and forget it and him
 
What? You have dibs because he asked you first, and you haven't had a "real" date yet? Get over it - move on.

Lex
 
i'm not saying i have dibs. he asked ME out...and then changes his mind the next day? that's just annoying.
 
Caeth said:
that's just annoying.
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that is right

it is annoying

that is all that it is

it is not rejection and it is not painful

never call him again and be glad that you fould out he was an asshole before you wasted any more time
 
Heh.....you'll get people who's fuck up every now and then. I don't know what makes people do shit like that. This kind of stuff turns my stomach. :mad:

Is that whats important to people these days? Guys hotter then the other? Looks can only take you so far.
 
Caeth said:
i'm not saying i have dibs. he asked ME out...and then changes his mind the next day? that's just annoying.
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Well you did indicate that he was drunk when you saw him.

Be thankful for all of the late night callas from his drunk ass that you won't be getting, and from him forgetting things.

I'd say he did you a favor! ..|

Do you really want a drunk in your life, and especially one for a boyfriend?
 
I second what the others have said. Look on the bright side. At least he showed his ugly side before you invested any real emotions in him.
 
he's not worth the time of day, you have much better things to do and better people to meet. If he does it again just blow him off and pay never mind. He's just playin bs games and you are better than that. Do not answer him if he calls/im/or anything else and it wont get under your skin, but if you do answer and he does it again it's your fault and dont be crying over spilled milk and dont come whining here about cus you see most advice is just move on and leave him alone. He's already lie now and you dont even know him .
 
centexfarmer said:
Well you did indicate that he was drunk when you saw him.

Be thankful for all of the late night callas from his drunk ass that you won't be getting, and from him forgetting things.

I'd say he did you a favor! ..|

Do you really want a drunk in your life, and especially one for a boyfriend?
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Amen to that Centexfarmer!!

Hey where's my T-shirt? Or do i have to give you that backrub first? ;) (just kidding)
 
hmmph

Didn't you see the capital 'L' for Loser on his forehead?

You missed nothing.
 
wtf, am I missing something?? u hit on him at a club and posted about it on facebook, then he left a mssage saying whats up and asked what you were doing on the weekend???
He never asked you out in any way I can see from your story, I think youve made something out of nothing and a lot of the replies here are over the top and only facilitating a fairly bizarre interpretation of what seems a completely platonic question. Sounds like you asked him out twice and he politely made excuses (tired/busy) but nothing in your story sounds like he led you on, sent false signals (unless someone complimenting you on being cute is a false signal).

Even without hearing the other side of the story this sounds like an inconsistent beat up. Personally I think slagging him off in a forum where he cant defend himself is much poorer form.
 
Dude,

This is a most usual thing that happens to all of us who cruise both the real and the cyber worlds. It comes with the territory.

People change their minds and their plans (if they really had any, in the first place), flake, get drunk and act without any sense respect for the other dudes.

People chat you up, text you and promise to be reliable and punctual and all. So, they all get a 5 min. tolerance at the place that must be within 5 walking min. from where I live. A total of max. 10 min. is all I am willing to invest. Almost 2/3 of guys chicken out, change their minds, do not show up, pretend they are busy. Some call, some don't. They know that there is nothing you can do about it, so why sweat it?

Some guys are pretty keen on meeting you up at their place, say at 3 AM, since they obviously did not manage to score that night and a big, hard dick now sounds like an excellent plan. They get right there where they belong to: Ignore list. I love sex just like most other dudes here. Yet, I am not a call boy and I am not helping out, once every other plan is gone down the drain.

SC
 
Caeth said:
Of course I was pretty excited...I was really busy fri, sat, sun. working so i told him I was busy that weekend but that I'd also go out saturday night.
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This is probably where you messed up. Not too many guys like to be secondary to your night out on the town.
 
MAN, thats the online thing works, U gotta accept that ... find someone else ;)
 
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