What the fuck?

[MaxMouse]

Maybe you have to really like someone? I'm having similar problems not with getting hard so much but just finishing sex---I never want to because I'm not turned on by them on every level---I think that's why anyways...

 

[GoodbyeSobriety]

It's cool to see so many hits on this thread. Even though it might be at the cost of my JUB dignity, hopefully it will help others with the same problems.

Anyways, I thought I'd conclude this thread by telling the third craigslist hookup that transpired not more than a few hours ago. Though the 3rd guy is also 35 years old like guy #2, he has NEVER been with another guy before. The whole concept that he was experiencing a guy for the first time really turned me on.

Unlike my previous two flings, #3 and I talked frequently online. I can honestly say I trust the dude. After 3 weeks of just bullshit talking and getting to know each other, we nervously hooked up.

He was very gentle... a great kisser, which I have NEVER experienced in my life. Anyways, being with this guy was different than any of my previous sexual encounters, he made me feel hot... almost worshiped. So, after roughly 1.5 hours of sucking, groping and pinching, I FINALLY had an explosive orgasm. (He eventually did as well moments later)

To sum things up, I really do think that when people hook up, it should be more significant than a mere fling. Sex isn't just a physical aspect, but holds emotional and mental value as well. I trusted this guy, he turned me on despite his not-so-fit body type, and most importantly we both see a potential for a good friendship or more.

Anyways, I'm just happy my bits n' pieces still work down there... I was getting scared for awhile. Thanks for reading guys.

- GoodbyeSobriety

 

[Xthegeminix]

You hooked up with a complete stranger off of craigslist of all places.Your performance suffering may have been fear. I wouldn't feel bad .I meen again its a complete stranger, your in his house not your own territory, performance is bound to suffer.Just learn from it and move foward, I personally never hook up off the internet for just that reason.I do think the lieing and playing around as in coming off as some str8 curious guy was alittle wrong thou.

 

[GoodbyeSobriety]

You hooked up with a complete stranger off of craigslist of all places.Your performance suffering may have been fear. I wouldn't feel bad .I meen again its a complete stranger, your in his house not your own territory, performance is bound to suffer.Just learn from it and move foward, I personally never hook up off the internet for just that reason.

Everything you said in this post was already stated by me or other people - I did not find the situations fearful, I wasn't in an uncomfortable state, and I was really into guy #2 and #3. Despite that, my biggest concern was if I had problems finishing myself off.

I do think the lieing and playing around as in coming off as some str8 curious guy was alittle wrong thou.

Whatever about posing like a straight curious guy, I'll watch Sesame St. if I want a refresher course on morals and ethics. If you're gonna respond judging me like that, all I ask is that you fully read the thread before you contribute your response. Thanks pal.