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What to do during mutual JO?
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Seems like a stupid question, I know, so bear with me. I'm thinking about getting together with a guy from Craigslist for a JO. Have only done it once with another guy and we jacked each other off for about 10 mins (definitely fun though!), so have very limited experience.

For those of you who've done this before, how do these typically work? What goes on? Do you bring anything? Do people typically edge for awhile?

Again, sorry for the probably stupid questions, but just wanted to get myself up to speed. Thanks!
 
See I've always wondered how to get things rolling. Just be like "hey I need to jack off. Want to do it with me?" or what? And ya... I'm not even sure about what to do if it ever got started. Just talk about normal stuff? Talk about porn? Comment on each others cocks or maybe methods of masturbation?
 
Maybe....but won't know until I'm there and if the situation is right. I guess what I'm really trying to ask is do people typically just JO (assuming that's all they do) as fast as possible or do they edge each other for awhile and build up or what? Probably depends on the guys/timing/circumstances, etc, but thought I'd ask. Any thoughts are much appreciated.
 
The one time I did it, we were in my backyard around 11pm and we just pulled down the pants, sat on deck chairs across from each other and took turns stroking each other. We rubbed each others legs, balls, groin, etc and he ended up sucking me off (I had a condom on). Once I came, I jerked him off until he came. All in all it was about 10 minutes, but it was exciting. Before he came, I asked him if it was feeling good for him and he said it was. He knew it was my first time and he asked if it felt good and I said yes. No other chit-chat about jobs, each other, the weather, etc. Just got her done. Is this what others have done?
 
Don't know, but Im setting up one of these j/o sessions as we speak, and had all the same questions. We need a veteran in here.
 
Before meeting I ask the guy how he wants me to dress and whether he wants smelly or clean. If clean, whether I have to wear a certain perfume (once I had to be like a skinhead wearing woman's perfume). For mutual masturbation preparation is paramount. It also learns you to know the guy better. You also are clear about what will happen: kissing/no kissing, etc, etc,... Most guys only want mutual masturbation and nothing else (my biggest fetish)

I always ask the guy to masturbate while I watch him in order to see how I can give him maximal pleasure. Are there other parts of his body I can pleasure? Is he into vanilla or kinky? I do lots of talking and don't even expect the guy to masturbate me as he usually will cum before me and most guys, when they have cum... well you know.

During masturbation some guys want you to be silent or to talk. There are big differences between guys. I once had a guy (total blind date) who refused to tell whatever. He wanted we wouldn't talk at all. Only grasping crotch, getting dicks out and cumming on suits without cleaning up and immediately leaving each other without having said anything. He only wanted to see my juice on his suit and his on mine (in fact he came on my silk tie he totally ruined).

I see mutual masturbation as the most worthfull exchange between guys you can ever dream of.
 
I've met a guy on CL recently. We emailed and talked on the phone for awhile.

We are both into women, porn, certain celebrities, and cock. After enough correspondences between each other, and eventual pic swaps, we agreed to meet up at my place.

He came in, we shook hands, and knew we were immediately comfortable with each other. I had the porn ready to go. It didn't take long to take off our boxers and show each other our cocks.

Looked at the porn together, looked at each other's cocks, etc. Some chit-chit about the big tits on the chick in the video, whatever.

Then he asked if he could grab mine. I said sure. Before I knew it, he got on his knees and took it in his mouth. Great mouth he has too. I knew right there what he was into, and it was easy to play after that.

After about 10 minutes, I stood him up, knelt down and started sucking his cock. We alternated, rubbed cocks, even 69'd. It was as if we had known each other for a few years.

Basically, stay calm, look for signals, and have fun. Do your homework first though, as it was the emails and taking time to get an idea about the guy that made having him over easy.

Now, we get together when we can to get our secret lust for cock out of our system until the next time.

Find one guy, play safe, and have fun. Lyzard
 
lyzard31 said:
Do your homework first though, as it was the emails and taking time to get an idea about the guy that made having him over easy.
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I agree with this but most guys cruising online do not want "endless e-mails", which basically means more than one e-mail. I don't get what the problem is exchanging some e-mails (and maybe a phone call or two) to see if there might be some chemistry there.
 
I met a guy from CL once. He came over and we chatted for a bit. He asked if he could get comfortable so we both stripped down. He asked if he could touch my cock and before we new it, we had each others cock in our hand.

He sucked me, I sucked him, we went back and forth until we both came.

It was my first time with a guy like that and it was a lot of fun but I thought I was gonna blow chunks when he blew his load in my mouth.

I think next time I will let the guy know up front that I won't suck him to completion...
 
i'm hoping to have my first mutual j/o session in the next few months, cant wait
 
Gothic_pookey said:
good lord does no one use icons avatars anymore?
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LOL, no kidding, what are the odds of 8 in a row right? LOL, that comment made my night, so off topic, yet so true in a fun way.

ok, to answer the question of what to say, i have been in a few situations like this now. each time i was meeting up with a guy who just wanted to suck me off. i was nervous at first, and still am for the first few minutes of meeting. cause you dont know really where to start, and if talking is a good idea or not. you sort of have to feel it out as you go. dont think about what you are going to say, or if anything should be said. in fact, just let the situation dictate to you what to do. i just go with the flow, and let the other guy give me the cues. if you think about it, it is hard to make a conversation with anybody you just met and is a total stranger to you, and the only thing you have in common is that you want to mess with each other for a short time. so perhaps just start the conversation like " hi nice to meet you, your directions you gave me were pretty easy, thanks, this is a nice area (something like that) wow you have a nice house, i like it, cool car out front..." see where im going with this, if you just start out with something simple, give a compliment, it makes things feel better, and you will be more relaxed to enjoy the experience. when i do this, its much better, and if you get to know a new friend like this, you may be able to meet him on a regular basis to have your fun, so you both wont have to meet strangers anymore!

good luck have fun, and please let us know how it goes
 
Nothing better than group of guys all do the same thing jacking off as group.
 
Don't stoop to the sad depths of CL.

You'll regret it the minute you step into the ugly old guy's (/"athletic guy in 30s") room before leaving with various VDs and STIs.
 
If you are hooking up with the same guy a few times,you'll be amazed at how you will both relax with each other and maybe comfortably go a step further.
 
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