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MrSantos

MrSantos

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Okay So I met this guy... yesterday we were supposed to go out and do sexual things.... So I waited 5 hours.. He said he fell asleep... okay.. So today... We made plans again.. Now he says he can't go..... So i canceled my plans twice just to be with him and then he can't go.. So I'm pissed. i feel like breaking things.. maybe I'm over reacting...

I need advice on how to handle this properly?

I sent him lots of text.. I don't mean to sound whinny.. that wasn't my intentions.. But I had to tell him... that i feel like he's messing with my head...he doesn't answer...

I feel like I should post this on this site.. to get better answers on same sex issues..

FyI: i used to be treated wrong by others.. and this situation is really bothering me making me think back on those bad times... Idk... :/
 
Plus, I have never been through this before and yesterday and today was the first time someone did that to me.. and I just don't know how to handle it.. I'm doing my best not to be negative and such..
 
Someone flaky isn't worth the wasted time.
 
Don't be blind, this `taint to work. And cool it on the mass texting it doesn't become you.
I know I would be pissed too. Move on. Head held high, and if you ever see him in a future time smile and say "I remember you,...I think".
 
Personally I'd tick it off my bucket list - get screwed over by a guy playing mind games - and move on and find someone else. But that's just my opinion based on the information at hand.
 
ravenstar said:
Personally I'd tick it off my bucket list - get screwed over by a guy playing mind games - and move on and find someone else. But that's just my opinion based on the information at hand.
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Thanks... Mind games is a perfect word at the momet... I was so horny yesterday that I had to wait 5 hours for him... Today was just plain f*** up... :) Thanks for you advices.. I don't mind hearing more.. I gotta man up and suck it up! Not all guys straight, bi or gay are all goody too shoes.. I will get F*** over.. even women do that... Thanks again.:kiss:
 
MrSantos said:
Okay So I met this guy... yesterday we were supposed to go out and do sexual things.... So I waited 5 hours.. He said he fell asleep... okay.. So today... We made plans again.. Now he says he can't go..... So i canceled my plans twice just to be with him and then he can't go.. So I'm pissed. i feel like breaking things.. maybe I'm over reacting...

I need advice on how to handle this properly?

I sent him lots of text.. I don't mean to sound whinny.. that wasn't my intentions.. But I had to tell him... that i feel like he's messing with my head...he doesn't answer...

I feel like I should post this on this site.. to get better answers on same sex issues..

FyI: i used to be treated wrong by others.. and this situation is really bothering me making me think back on those bad times... Idk... :/
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He sounds like an internet flake. The 'net is rife with them. More than likely he's not really gay, but "curious" and currently married with children. He's been sending you fake pics of himself or ones 10 years old, or 40 lbs. thinner. He's all talk, no game. He's never had any sexual partners before. You name it.

Just because you think you have a "friend" or a "relationship" via the net, it means nothing unless you've actually met face to face, and spent/spend time together in the real 3D world.
 
Enduster said:
He sounds like an internet flake. The 'net is rife with them. More than likely he's not really gay, but "curious" and currently married with children. He's been sending you fake pics of himself or ones 10 years old, or 40 lbs. thinner. He's all talk, no game. He's never had any sexual partners before. You name it.

Just because you think you have a "friend" or a "relationship" via the net, it means nothing unless you've actually met face to face, and spent/spend time together in the real 3D world.
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You know what.. I think your right.. Gosh.. He got me all hard and the things I wanted to do to him... Thanks for letting me know this.. Now I'm not more naive...I should be more aware... Thanks again.. I'm not new to bisexuality but I'm new to telling other gay and bisexuals I am.. In fact.. I have only one cousin that knows...It's kind hard to tell people when you grew up with parents and grandparents that are against it and society hates it obviously.. Thanks again... Thanks for helping a stranger out.. :) :kiss:
 
MrSantos said:
You know what.. I think your right.. Gosh.. He got me all hard and the things I wanted to do to him... Thanks for letting me know this.. Now I'm not more naive...I should be more aware... Thanks again.. I'm not new to bisexuality but I'm new to telling other gay and bisexuals I am.. In fact.. I have only one cousin that knows...It's kind hard to tell people when you grew up with parents and grandparents that are against it and society hates it obviously.. Thanks again... Thanks for helping a stranger out.. :) :kiss:
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Sorry that your first endeavor via the 'net crashed and burned, but you'll soon enough get to realize red flag indicators. While real world crap happens from time to time that a person may need to cancel at the last minute, and then only via phone, but never a 2nd time. While yes they may be flakes, I think in many instances they aren't malicious but simply to chicken/terrified of actually following thru on their heart's desire.

*shrug* I dunno, I don't understand the behavior myself, but have heard plenty of excuses over the years when I've sought to meet some people via the 'net.
 
Enduster said:
Sorry that your first endeavor via the 'net crashed and burned, but you'll soon enough get to realize red flag indicators. While real world crap happens from time to time that a person may need to cancel at the last minute, and then only via phone, but never a 2nd time. While yes they may be flakes, I think in many instances they aren't malicious but simply to chicken/terrified of actually following thru on their heart's desire.

*shrug* I dunno, I don't understand the behavior myself, but have heard plenty of excuses over the years when I've sought to meet some people via the 'net.
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Your right... :)
 
lol I had a guy comeover.. He stood like for 20 seconds and told me he left something in the car and ends up taking off... lol now he ignores my text lol talk about a tease.. Unless he chickened out xD
 
There are a lot of jerks out in the world and on the Internet. I met a guy on Adam4Adam who stated he liked guys with big asses. He could see how big my ass is from the pictures I have posted in my profile; so I thought he was good with me.

He comes over and I'm naked and on the bed in less than a minute. He said, "Let me look at that ass." Then roles me over and rubs my naked ass. Then he said "That ass is too small for me." Then leaves.

There I am naked and lying on the bed and he leaves because he thought my ass is too small for him! Needless to say I was already horned up and needed a good fucking. So, I had to get out my dildos and release the tension that way.

So, the point of this story is just brush yourself off and keep going. You will meet all kinds of guys. Some will be great and others won't be so great. I have fallen for guys than I have hooked up with and some of them have fallen for me. Until we fall for each other, then there is no point punishing yourself.

Personally, I don't think your banker has fallen for you. Best of luck to you!
 
Forget him.

Move on.
 
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