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There is a guy I go to school with who I've had my eye on for a while. We had a math class together but never talked. I looked at his page on my space and was kinda interested. We ended up coming across eachother outside of school at a party that one of my friends had, and he happened to be there. We talked a little but nothing important or interesting was said. But, I decided to send him a myspace message and he replied and was nice and we've had a little chit chat back and forth latly.

My question is, what kinda things should I say to keep the conversation going? I all ready mentioned the mutual friends we had plus the stuff we might have in common. I just want to keep talking. Plus, our semester ended a couple weeks ago so there won't be any school events going on. If things go well, how could I possibely get us to hang out or somethin? Neither of us are really out [but I am pretty sure he is gay] so I can't be too forward yet.
 
Go to the movies or something surely you can work out what he likes from his website on my space. Throwing him over your shoulder and carting him off the bedroom for passionate sex might not be one of them tho!! :lol:
 
Invite him out for a drink(if you're old enough) or go to a movie or dinner and just hang out as friends and see where it goes. If you're nervous about one on one, the first time get a small group of 4 or 6 to keep it a little more impersonal the first time.
 
Bad advice guys.
Go ahead: Toss him over your shoulder and have wild and passionate monkey sex with him. As a friend of mine says, "The shy guy gets none." (you know you want to do it) LOL
 
What does:

"neither of us are really out,"

and:

"I'm pretty sure he's gay,"

Mean.
 
If you want to make conversation, just be yourself. To quote from Dale Carnegie, the most interesting topic in the world to people is themselves. So ask them questions about themselves, and pay attention. Not only will this help you learn about them, but most of the time, people enjoy telling other people about themselves.

Ask about what he likes, what he likes to do for fun, interject some stuff about yourself, take things he likes and talk about that, ask him questions about it. But don't be an interrogator :) Just keep it fun.

That's always worked when I meet new people. If you ask them questions, and you become genuinely interested in them and what they have to say, things will go a lot smoother, and you'll pretty much always have stuff to talk about.

Maybe ask him about his classes, what his major is, what he wants to do with his schooling, what he wants to do after school, etc. That will lead to other topics, and the conversation will progress from there.

I'm sure you'll do fine :)
 
If you think going out with him alone will be nervewracking, invite him to do something with a group of friends, like going to a movie, or just hanging out, it'll make the atmosphere a little more comfortable and your friends can help you decide if he's cool or not(not about the gayness), but if he's a cool guy and all...and it'll give you a chance to see how he acts around people and observe him a little more...mention it casually, like:

"Hey, me and my friends are gonna hang out and play videogames this weekend. Wanna come?

But, if you want to be alone, the suggestions above are pretty darn good. Good luck, you'll at least get a friend out of it. But I think the movies is a bit too much.(since you're not out)

Or it could be something simple like, "Hey, wanna work out with me in the gym this afternoon?"
 
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