What turns you off in a man?

[Paws]

Men who write things that turn them off in other men in what turns you off in a man threads.

 

[irydion]

Whiners who bitch and moan that they want something and make no move to even try to make it happen.

lol that's me

 

[M4P]

Those who play the role of the eternal victim

 

[LilBit]

I hardly think that this

Leprosy is a huge turn-off for me.

qualifies as picky...

 

[metta]

that is another good one-

MARRIED MEN

 

[stiletto]

Heterosexuality, Douche-baggery, also closeted men. Especially married ones, as said above.

Also, a lack of hygiene, a lack of manners, obnoxiousness, simple-mindedness, opinionated yet uninformed, ego-driven/insecure men with something to prove, self-destructive or those who have trouble controlling their more dangerous/unethical impulses, deceit, phoniness, controlling, bad teeth, bad breath, bad job, open-books (I find them boring), ugliness, etc.

Can't think of many more. Wait, on second thought, also: pushovers/doormats, and passive-aggressiveness.

There, now I'm done.

 

[LilBit]

I said SINGLE men lol.

Oh. Yeah, that relationship is pretty much dead, so I pretty much think of myself as single.

 

[Lube]

people who say spur[r] of the moment instead of spirit of the moment.

I've never heard of spirit of the moment.

 

[Seosamh]

Turn offs?

Lack of basic hygiene
No sense of humor - about himself and others
Overly sensitive/Overly PC
No character
No ambition/goals
No manners - what is wrong with being a gentleman???
Liars - encompassing cheaters in here too
Needy/Clingy
Use of the words "anyways" or "supposably" (phonetic spelling on the last one)
Provincial types - meaning, you can live here in NYC yet have no interest or desire to leave your little neighborhood other than to go to work - come on!

Now if you asked "what's a red flag for you with a guy?" that would be a whole other list!

 

[Adriano-LaCerva]

People like you are turn offs.

why? because a lot of the things on my list apply to you? Then Im glad I turn you off.

 

[maxpowr9]

I said SINGLE men lol.

The irony of my post is that, I too am single.

Ok I dumped my boyfriend, he was a bit insane.

So... I guess what turns me off is insanity.

I don't know if that's picky (maybe it is) but I honestly don't think it is too much to ask that someone see a psychiatrist twice a month.

Kidding about that last part.

Define sanity then? lmao



My turnoffs are...

- conspicuous and/or excessive tattoos

- too fat or too thin (I guess weight/height appropriate)

- whiney/bitchy/tenacious

 

[cAndId]

Long hair...

Clingy, overly talkative, right wing, too negative, too positive, quick to judge, quick to anger, irrational, selfish/doesn't think of others, without honour or courage.

Those are the big ones...

 

[Syn]

Lately it's been trust. Trust is a biggie for me.

 

[Dduder]

What is a turn off in a woman?

- Bad breath.

- Yapping all the time and talking about girly stuff like fashion, gossip, their hair, etc. Annoying as fuck. Guys only put up with it because they want to get laid.

- The constant bitching and whining ad nauseum.

- Women who want to prove that they are not the weak gender and develop a nasty, aggressive, competitive attitude that makes them unattractive because, if I wanted a man, I would get one.

Basically, I am attracted to women's bodies and want to have sex with them, but I find them unbearable as people.

 

[Lube]

Basically, I am attracted to women's bodies and want to have sex with them, but I find them unbearable as people.

*Phew*. Lucky for me, I'm attracted to men's bodies and want to have sex with them, and find them delicious as people.

 

[LilBit]

What is a turn off in a woman?

- Bad breath.

- Yapping all the time and talking about girly stuff like fashion, gossip, their hair, etc. Annoying as fuck. Guys only put up with it because they want to get laid.

- The constant bitching and whining ad nauseum.

- Women who want to prove that they are not the weak gender and develop a nasty, aggressive, competitive attitude that makes them unattractive because, if I wanted a man, I would get one.

Basically, I am attracted to women's bodies and want to have sex with them, but I find them unbearable as people.

Broad, sweeping generalizations are a huge turn-off for me...

 

[evanrick]

I hate assholes. I can't stand a guy who can be a major prick, or believes he's God's gift to mankind.
I like nice guys. I like guys who are kinda geeky, guys who are a little mis-understood, and kinda lonely. I like the idea of pulling a nice guy out of the gutter and making him feel special. I just hate seeing nice guys getting pushed around.

YOU WOULD LOVE ME!

 

[Adriano-LaCerva]

It's because of your snobbiness. Not because guys want you and can't have you. Some of them just find you annoying...hence, unattractive. That's all. You're just not everyone's cup of tea.

In any case I dont think it's ever been a hinderance to me. So I'll just carry on being myself.

 

[Ryuukie]

Bad breath.

 

[seven_sins]

Use of tobacco.

Bad hygiene/body odor.

Obesity.