What turns you on the most about a straight guy?

[wonderwort]

Whats the single most seductive attribute of straight man?

His voice?

His mannerism?

His walk?

The way he carries himself?

For me its his voice. I love deep voice straight man.

I have no problem with nelly or effeminate men as friends........I'm on the nelly side myself.....but I dont find nelly(ness) very attractive.

 

[lawboy 39]

Their unobtainability. I always want what I cannot have. Thankfully this has been disproven a few times in my life.

 

[paatreides]

The mannerisms and the walk; basically the way they carry themselves and present themselves to the world. And the ones who are into mutual j/o and enthusiastic about giving and receiving oral are amazing.

 

[anchihiro]

Which one?

Nothing that doesnt also turn me on about certain gay guys.

 

[Krakenbwool]

Can we just change this to "what turns you on aboutguys"? I've known both very masculine gay men and very queeny straight men.

 

[stevexxx]

i think for both men and women, it's confidence. confidence is very attractive.

 

[texan_slant]

It's hard to describe in words.

I'd say, "How they naturally are - as straight men."

I tend to be flirty with them - in a playful non-sexual way most of the time. There is a certain thrill to knowing that we can connect, and also, to fantasize about "taking them to a place where they thought they'd never go."

Given the right person, situation, scenario, etc. I'm convinced that something naughty could happen, but I've never have been "ballsy" enough to try it because every straight who I've been attracted to is pretty much: perceived to be straight AND taken.

Last but not least, it's hard to place a great friendship at risk.

 

[elephunk]

Their bad fashion, lack of body care, and desperation!

 

[Rex]

Raw masculinity and confidence.

 

[Aisle72]

The fact that they are "TABOO" and the swagger they possess when hanging with their girlfriend or wife.

 

[clicker]

Their natural masculinity, as long as they're not arrogant or homophobic. Total boner killer.

 

[will_zeis23]

pretty much the same. the confidence, raw masculine sexuality and attitude. with my straight crush ive said. i find him attractive because he's not gay. his straight sex is a turn on and i wouldnt change that. i wouldnt like him if was suddenly gay. weird i know but its true.

 

[CherryB0mb]

Everyone differs but if we're talking about the "straight guy" stereotype. It's definitely the masculinity, the confidence.. and their whole demeanor. It's hard to put my finger on exactly. I love how unapologetic straight boys are with the way they talk, and flirt and dress.. simple things like being totally okay with adjusting their cock in public without a care in the world as to who would catch them doing it.. but I would be lying if I said the fact that they're so unobtainable wasn't part of the appeal. They're a challenge.

I've never had the opportunity of doing anything with a "straight" boy but like so many other homos, it's like my ultimate fantasy. He wouldn't have to touch me, compliment me, probably not even speak to me.. getting him vulnerable enough to let me give him a blowjob, and getting him off.. would be the ultimate satisfaction and I don't even know why. It's just a turn on. It always has been.

 

[strosbuff88]

I've never had the opportunity of doing anything with a "straight" boy but like so many other homos, it's like my ultimate fantasy. He wouldn't have to touch me, compliment me, probably not even speak to me.. getting him vulnerable enough to let me give him a blowjob, and getting him off.. would be the ultimate satisfaction and I don't even know why. It's just a turn on. It always has been.

Bravo -- and here you see the exact reason dudes like us have complexes and find it increasingly difficult each and every day to address the curious nature some possess..

Of course entitled to your own opinion, but this is where the very problem lies... this apparent belief that ALL men are driven by their sexual lust and desires.

This is the reason I won't even make a vested attempt to go into a "gay bar."

This is really, really disgusting!

 

[will_zeis23]

Bravo -- and here you see the exact reason dudes like us have complexes and find it increasingly difficult each and every day to address the curious nature some possess..

Of course entitled to your own opinion, but this is where the very problem lies... this apparent belief that ALL men are driven by their sexual lust and desires.

This is the reason I won't even make a vested attempt to go into a "gay bar."

This is really, really disgusting!

How so? I mean its one man, and honestly he's not aiming it at you. I have a similar fantasy but that's what it is a fantasy. Just like straight guys have lesbian fantasies or dominatrix fantasies.

If you think that every "homo" is trying to suck your dick just because you're "straight" then you're looking for the wrong kind of homo. And to be honest most guys are driven by their sexual desires and drive. but for the most part we've gotten used to it being a straight guy's world.

What exactly are you looking for a friend who you can experiment with? Find one, gay bars are not the best place to find them IMO.

I'd love to think that my best friend the man i loved would be interested in experimenting with me but he's not he's made that sure. I won't force him and I certainly won't corner him or guilt him to it. He is my friend and that's what matter's most no matter what fantasy I have.

 

[Cardenio]

I generally do not find straight guys attractive. Sure, I've had crushes on a couple of my straight friends, but that was because they are smart, kind, and caring individuals, not because of any perceived "straightness."

 

[pausanias_usa]

Yes, Cardenio, I've had crushes on both gay and straight guys: it seems to be the guy, not the orientation that hooks me.

Of course you eventually learn to restrict yourself to the gay guys. But you can still window shop the rest 8').

 

[pjboy]

The fact that I can't have him. And if I do have him, it's just sex between friends. No worrying about emotional commitments.

 

[strosbuff88]

How so? I mean its one man, and honestly he's not aiming it at you. I have a similar fantasy but that's what it is a fantasy. Just like straight guys have lesbian fantasies or dominatrix fantasies.

If you think that every "homo" is trying to suck your dick just because you're "straight" then you're looking for the wrong kind of homo. And to be honest most guys are driven by their sexual desires and drive. but for the most part we've gotten used to it being a straight guy's world.

What exactly are you looking for a friend who you can experiment with? Find one, gay bars are not the best place to find them IMO.

I'd love to think that my best friend the man i loved would be interested in experimenting with me but he's not he's made that sure. I won't force him and I certainly won't corner him or guilt him to it. He is my friend and that's what matter's most no matter what fantasy I have.

I'm unsure of the necessity to quote the word "homo", because I certainly did not use that term in my response.. it's insensitive if you ask me, but you're not so again.... that would be my opinion.

I applaud your belief that "for the most part we've gotten used to being in a straight guy's world." That may be by your own caliber, but seeing how many men speak on this forum, it appears progression is at a stand-still for most.

I have to ask- what is this weird idea just because I'm curious that immediately it is perceived as if I want to make the nearest attempt to "experiment" with another man?

My curiosity wasn't 'born' from such a fascination!

 

[Cardenio]

Yes, Cardenio, I've had crushes on both gay and straight guys: it seems to be the guy, not the orientation that hooks me.

Of course you eventually learn to restrict yourself to the gay guys. But you can still window shop the rest 8').

Agreed; there is absolutely nothing wrong with looking. I just wanted to make it clear that, as widespread as this fantasy might be, it is by no means a universal one.