What turns you on the most about a straight guy?

[USEDCAR]

It has to be masculinity, the confidence and they are easy to approach and talk too. They are not stuck up like most gay men are

 

[will_zeis23]

I'm unsure of the necessity to quote the word "homo", because I certainly did not use that term in my response.. it's insensitive if you ask me, but you're not so again.... that would be my opinion.

I applaud your belief that "for the most part we've gotten used to being in a straight guy's world." That may be by your own caliber, but seeing how many men speak on this forum, it appears progression is at a stand-still for most.

I have to ask- what is this weird idea just because I'm curious that immediately it is perceived as if I want to make the nearest attempt to "experiment" with another man?

My curiosity wasn't 'born' from such a fascination!

You know i apologize, today after events personal and worldwide obviously, i'm a bit... sensitive. This fantasy actually resolves around an issue i have, well had with my straight friend ongoing and boiled out recently. As much as i logically know this fantasy was just that with him a part of me still holds out this might in some way pan out. Yeah i'm fooling myself and for the most part that's what fantasies do. Its a way to fool your self and imagine what you believe when it isn't true.

I like that idea because honestly if it was in a part a guy who was straight but still wanted to do something i guess it's one of those satisfy two things without the entanglement of a relationship, friends with benefits. For most guys its something impossible to find.

So sorry for snapping at you. You did bring up a point, i mean imagine if the tables were turned and it was a fully gay guy being chased by a straight woman. Sometimes our minds just aren't capable of going past the comfort lines we have. Straight is straight, gay is gay, the two sometimes have lines that aren't easy to cross.

We are here of course to talk about that which is curious or certain of ourselves. So I apologize

 

[strosbuff88]

You know i apologize, today after events personal and worldwide obviously, i'm a bit... sensitive. This fantasy actually resolves around an issue i have, well had with my straight friend ongoing and boiled out recently. As much as i logically know this fantasy was just that with him a part of me still holds out this might in some way pan out. Yeah i'm fooling myself and for the most part that's what fantasies do. Its a way to fool your self and imagine what you believe when it isn't true.

I like that idea because honestly if it was in a part a guy who was straight but still wanted to do something i guess it's one of those satisfy two things without the entanglement of a relationship, friends with benefits. For most guys its something impossible to find.

So sorry for snapping at you. You did bring up a point, i mean imagine if the tables were turned and it was a fully gay guy being chased by a straight woman. Sometimes our minds just aren't capable of going past the comfort lines we have. Straight is straight, gay is gay, the two sometimes have lines that aren't easy to cross.

We are here of course to talk about that which is curious or certain of ourselves. So I apologize

I thank you for your apology, however it wasn't necessary. We were simply having a discussion and I offered my perspective and thoughts, just as you did.

I'm just so disturbed that there is the general opinion just because a man is "curious" that means his curiosity is of a sexual nature.

It's much too private for me to discuss my curiosity, but I applaud most, if not all of those replying to this thread for, hopefully at the very least, being honest.

 

[lambdaboy]

A Str guy turns me on as much as a good looking gay guy. However if he is interested even to just let me service him is the turn on I have when he sees how my blow job or my round firm ass gives him a great ride and gets us both off

 

[NineOfClubs]

The only thing that turns me on about a straight guy is when he's a guy that's comfortable in his own skin, a guy with confidence.

It's the same thing I like in a gay guy too..

 

[AlmondMilk]

The only thing that turns me on about a straight guy is when he's a guy that's comfortable in his own skin, a guy with confidence.

It's the same thing I like in a gay guy too..

Yeah, definitely! I can't really say walk, or talk or looks just because I know people who can pass for straight with deep voices and whatnot. But a confident guy who doesn't need to put down others to feel better is very hot.

 

[bankside]

Of course entitled to your own opinion, but this is where the very problem lies... this apparent belief that ALL men are driven by their sexual lust and desires.

No, not all men are driven by their desire, but most men are comfortable with their desire being an integral part of their lives. I think all men should develop that level of comfort: being ourselves is just another sexual skill worth learning. And my take is, everyone gets horny. And with a bit of thinking about respect for others, being healthy & sane, then everyone should get a shot to enjoy that horniness as much as possible as part of a Healthy Balanced Lifestyle™

I think that is easiest for straight guys, who grow up in a culture that tells them their horniness for women is just totally inevitable, so when they feel it too, they don't worry about it.

I think it is hell on gay guys until they figure it out, then a lot easier. The problem with gay guys is that usually they come out after trying really hard not to be gay for a long time, and they get kind of messed up for a while because of it. Some of them act like a kid in a candy store, and once they give themselves the freedom to date one guy, they go overboard and date hundreds. Or, you know, just fuck them.

A lot of women never get to that point of being okay with their horniness. To be honest, though I'm gay, I think it's not really female sexuality that I don't connect with, it's the fact that they often don't connect with it themselves that is a turn-off. Frequently this turns up in two very un-sexy straight female scenarios: "I must be chased and you must woo me like it's the year 1800 and you are my gentleman caller." If a woman wants to fuck a man, she should say so and not put all the onus on him. And then the second scenario, where the woman acts like she's doing a favour to the guy just for "letting him have sex with her." Straight women are messed up. (yes i know not all of them...eventually a lot of them drop the Junior High Princess bullshit and I'm sure they have empowered, assertive, great sex lives.)

I think bi guys have it hardest, mostly because we expect them to choose one or the other, and they might not want to give up feeling straight just because they also feel a bit gay. I think the Kinsey Scale is to blame - 0 to 6, but you can't get closer to Six without giving up your Zero comfort zone.

Also, the term "bi" is used to cover too many people. In my world, "Straight" means you're up for anything with someone of the opposite sex: love, lust, relationships, the full range. And also that you don't find anything appealing in the same sex.

"Gay" means you're up for anything with the same sex, and also that you don't find any of that appealing with the opposite sex.

"Bi" should mean you're open to all possibilities with either gender. But that is not how a lot of people use the word, and that messes things up. Maybe they're open to everything with one gender, but only just a fantasy or two with the other. That's not really "bi." I think those people should use the term "limited bisexual" or "bi with restrictions" or something, just so they don't end up leaving a string of disappointed partners and false expectations.

The funniest thing of all is when a "straight" guy says Oh yeah, I'm straight, I just like to suck dick or get my dick sucked or something like that. BAHAHHAHAHAHA. Fail.

 

[MisterMajestic]

What turns you on the most about a straight guy?

A Straight Guy that is "secretly" Bisexual....

What turns you OFF the most about a straight guy?

A Straight Guy that thinks just because he's STRAIGHT all Gay Men want him...Even the UGLY Straight Guys that can't get a date with a woman think they're a Gift to Gay Men...........

 

[leomendez93]

The masculinity. He walks and talks and acts like a man. Once you get him rimmed he becomes bi and eventually 50% chance to become fully gay.

 

[devildog]

I don't like all straight guys. Most of them are either stupid or ugly.

From the remaining - let's say 5 percent - I get turned on by all sorts of things. From the eyes to the way they carry themselves, to their attitude. I like non-sexual stuff that is somewhat erotic with straight guys.

It's also a turn on for me when a straight guy likes me, not because he wants sex, but just likes me for me. If a straight guy is really hot, it's also a turn-on when he finds me annoying and wants me to stop bugging him. In a playful way.

I generally like more women than men. Women are just easier to get along with. I find most men (straight, gay, bi, whatever) difficult. On one hand I sometimes like the dominance of real men, but moreover I like to be dominant myself and have the guy do what I tell him to.

When I'm with a so called 'dom' usually I end up in charge. A straight guy doesn't care about all that, and would just be himself, while a gay guy tends to give in. Both of that can be hot.

 

[devildog]

What turns you OFF the most about a straight guy?
A Straight Guy that thinks just because he's STRAIGHT all Gay Men want him...Even the UGLY Straight Guys that can't get a date with a woman think they're a Gift to Gay Men...........

This is so true. So very true.

The father of my female neighbour, some ugly old balding man with glasses and a beer belly (type: Muppet-show character), had told her after meeting me: "so what if he likes me?"

WTF! When I heard that. WTF.