What types of guys do you attract?

[theatreboi]

I tend to attract closeted/bi/inexperienced guys. I have no idea why and have whined about it a couple times before on here. Sometimes they're the kind of guys I'm very attracted to physically, but not emotionally and sometimes vice-versa. Also, as someone who's been out for 8 years and has been very experience sexually since an early age, AND isn't very patient, I don't usually have the time to deal with them.

oop! Here I go whining again.

 

[GL]

creepy older guys who think they can just come up and touch or grab me.

 

[saymyname]

Oh boy...if you're that hot--why don't you grace us all with a pic of yourself?

I have once, neck-down pic of my body and in my briefs, but yes, it was faceless. I don't post a picture because I live in a big city where I know a lot of gay people (and I mean a LOT) and I write about VERY personal things on here sometimes, and quite frankly, I would be worried about stalkers and the like. But basically, I have black hair and brown eyes, a very nice, defined jaw line, high cheekbones, a prominent, Italian-esque nose - not a honker, just not one of those little petite Hollywood buttons, hmm, what else. Nice, pink lips. Very nice, wavy hair. Yeah. That's me. I also tend to look rather youthful - "cute" - but lately (I'm getting older!) I'm becoming more generally masculine kind of handsome.

 

[TickTockMan]

The kind that are embarrassed by me. And those I can’t be with.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

Pokaman....What type of guy do you attract? You're white and you have an attraction to Black guys. Do you attract Black guys because you're mostly surrounded by them or do you attract another type of guy?

Whaaaaaaaaaat? When did I ever say that I was Caucasian? Don't let this good English fool you on the net, I am African American. Anyway, to answer your question, I tend to attract older, white men in general. I swear I could have had some sugar daddies if I wanted by now. Being in California with such a large Mexican population, it is inevitable that I do not have quite a few Latin/Hispanic men chasing me down too.

As far as women, I attract married women who seem to hate their lives or emotionally immature and/or neurotic women. Beyond that, it varies.

 

[alley]

More than I ever would have guessed before coming out. Younger and older men---I get a real mix.



Last night they held some kind of fund raiser at my work--I walked in...and boom...every where I looked older (wealthy) men were giving me the once over...Lol. There was also a twenty something guy that kept looking at me every time I walked by---

 

[Lawnmowerman]

I don't know if Jub counts, but on here it seems to be mostly younger guys, which came as a bit of a surprise to me.

Now that I'm coming out, I'll be paying more attention and looking around in REAL life to see what the answer to that question is there.

 

[MisterMajestic]

Whaaaaaaaaaat? When did I ever say that I was Caucasian? Don't let this good English fool you on the net, I am African American. Anyway, to answer your question, I tend to attract older, white men in general. I swear I could have had some sugar daddies if I wanted by now. Being in California with such a large Mexican population, it is inevitable that I do not have quite a few Latin/Hispanic men chasing me down too.

As far as women, I attract married women who seem to hate their lives or emotionally immature and/or neurotic women. Beyond that, it varies.

..LOL...Okay my mad...Maybe it was something you posted a few months ago that made me think that..

And to answer your "thread" I don't attract Gay/Bi men unless I tell them that I'm interested. People just assume I'm just a nice straight guy. But I am a straight up FREAK...

 

[hotb0d]

white guys with a bad case of yellow fever.

 

[Yohan1989]

you're so cute haha

Awww.

For real, but some made me nervous like they want to rape my ass. lol

 

[evilest]

It's a steady mix of pensioners, psychopaths and pissheads. Oh the fun.

 

[bounder]

Don't let this good English fool you

LOL........

 

[BigDestiny]

I attract complete losers. Lots of them.

Not in terms of their personalities, but in the way that they choose to behave.

Me too. The only time in the last ten years I was with a decent guy was twenty minutes in a back room with a hot black stripper. At least when you're paying for it, they have to worry about customer service.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

All of them.

 

[hungrybrownbear]

I don't know if Jub counts, but on here it seems to be mostly younger guys, which came as a bit of a surprise to me.

Now that I'm coming out, I'll be paying more attention and looking around in REAL life to see what the answer to that question is there.

why would that surprise you? you're a pretty good looking guy...

 

[angelus]

I really don't even know. Not that I don't attract people, I know I do, but it's always the painfully overt that I notice, the one who leers disgustingly at you. But your average guy, your nice normal one, is the one I'll all be like, they're not interested in me at all, they're just looking. Dumb, I know. I think the thing for me is, and I openly admit this, I used to be the obnoxiously self-loving guy, in my eyes I was God's gift to all men so I always thought everyone was interested in me, but you go to college, meet people and realise you're not as special as you thought you were. I think a part of me never truly got over that bump into reality, so I never ever pick up on signals/vibes from people.

 

[youngnihilist]

all types... but I generally notice the ones I like

 

[AngelFromAbove]

I swear I thought you was this afro-centric white guy with an avid fondness for Beyonce.

I dunno why I automatically assumed that. *smacks self uspide the head*

I think you have me confused with MarleyisaLegend/FabulouslyGhetto/KarenWalker when it comes to Beyonce. He was the one who was all over the chick and sucking her tits dry for the longest time with his fanaticism for a minute. Anyway, back to the thread...

 

[davy]

Tonight, I seem to be attracting very unusual individuals.

 

[Sunshine]

I always attract players.


I need to stop that.