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What Was Your First Date?
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colemanshs
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My first gay date was to see the move The Interpretor. I met this guy from school and we went out and to the mall. No sparks flew or anything (I have learned that a movie on the first date isn't a great idea since there's essentially no talking) and we went our seperate ways.
Twisly
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My first date ever:
My first date was awful! I was 17-18 that time and he was 20. We just ate at some restau then strolled for awhile without talking too much. Then I started joking about something which offended him. I dont know what part of what i've said offended him. I said he should be going. I took him to the bus station and went home. I never called him again.
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My first date with mu current boyfriend:
We ate lunch first and talked about things. We then watch Tenacious D, ( which is by the way a really funny movie). Good thing there wasn't much people at the movie coz we make-out for like most part of the movie! Hehehe. Its a really memorable date for me.
My first date was awful! I was 17-18 that time and he was 20. We just ate at some restau then strolled for awhile without talking too much. Then I started joking about something which offended him. I dont know what part of what i've said offended him. I said he should be going. I took him to the bus station and went home. I never called him again.
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My first date with mu current boyfriend:
We ate lunch first and talked about things. We then watch Tenacious D, ( which is by the way a really funny movie). Good thing there wasn't much people at the movie coz we make-out for like most part of the movie! Hehehe. Its a really memorable date for me.
drhladnjak
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On my first date ever, I went with this really closeted but nice guy for dinner and dancing (a straight, but gay-friendly 80s night at a club). We had a good time and saw each other a few more times, but then I moved away not too longer afterwards. We never slept together or even kissed, because I think the two of us were just too nervous. It was my first date as well as his actually and we were simply both too skittish to do anything more. Still, it was a fun time.
I know the dearth of rules for coupling for gay people can sometimes be bewildering, but it can also be freeing. No road map means that you can spend more time getting to know your date and just having a nice time rather than worrying about what you're supposed to be doing. Keep putting yourself out there to meet more guys. Enjoy yourself and don't rush things. Before you know it, you'll have plenty of experiences both sexually, romantically and socially!
I know the dearth of rules for coupling for gay people can sometimes be bewildering, but it can also be freeing. No road map means that you can spend more time getting to know your date and just having a nice time rather than worrying about what you're supposed to be doing. Keep putting yourself out there to meet more guys. Enjoy yourself and don't rush things. Before you know it, you'll have plenty of experiences both sexually, romantically and socially!
Well mine was less than perfect lol, always the way isn't it? lol
I met Dan at my mates party, it was a great night, he was a magician, and he showed me some nifty mind-reading tricks. After a few beers, I got talking to him quite a lot, I learned a fair bit about him, and it was obvious he really liked me. So later on I get back to my mates house, as you do, pretty drunk (thank god her parents didn't see anything - they were away for the weekend lol!).
He chatted me up there and then while I was crashed out on the sofa, he basically asked me if I wanted to go back to his place. What was funny is that my mate dragged Dan to one side and told him not to hurt my feelings, as my last "boyfriend" (nee one night stand because he hated commitment *sigh*) walked out on me, and not to cause any grief lmao.
So poor Dan doesn't know whether he's coming or going, so we end up eventually getting a taxi to his house, and its the first time I've ever been kissed (yes I was 21 at the time, my first "real" relationship lol, I'm 22 now and had three relationships since lol all crap, till now). We stayed up, and then got chatting a lot about each other, then moved on to hobbies, interests, our skills, school and how we coped with homophobia, coming out, family, friends etc, then we got onto the topic of sex.
Hmm I can remember it now, his line was "So how good is your bilingual skill then?" hahaha the worst line I've ever heard to entice someone to give you a blowjob if every there was one!
The sex from that relationship was great, went through the "honeymoon" period which normally goes nicely, then it went wrong shortly afterwards. He went away for a few days, god only knows where, and he never told me, so there I am ringing him trying to get in touch because I miss him. Well he "ran out of credit". Now excuse me for being a little picky here, but surely if you run out of credit you do your best to at least grab a payphone and let your boyfriend know your OK? I was worried, it seemed out of character. If only I knew, IF ONLY lmao (thats what they all say right?).
Well he stopped texting me, ringing me, and tried to cut all contact with me, sometimes I'd strike it lucky and walk down to his flat and he'd be in. He'd finished from a long term relationship himself, which he never told me about till after we broke up. So one night, early Jan 2006, one week into Uni, I go out to try to see Dan, and surprise surprise he's not there. I went to my mates house, she lived not far away, saved a long walk home lol, and we went out clubbing that night. I got completely wrecked, so drunk I could hardly move lol.
Well I have a freak accident with a piggyback, and poor Nett comes tumbling over my head, bless her little cotton socks, knowing my balance is crap anyway, so I try to run to save us both from falling but its too late, I crush my right femur bone between the pavement and her body, it snaps like a twig, my leg bent at right angles, then she comes flying over the top of me and just grazes her hands. I spent 5 days in hospital, and did Dan ring me to see if I was OK? Did he visit? Did he HECK!!!
Only three weeks later, whilst I hobble around home on crutches (I got saved the plaster on my leg lol just got a titanium plate in there), did he admit he cheated on me, with his best mate I met about two months earlier!!! I was so fuming I smashed my mobile phone up into little pieces, it didn't do my phone any good, but it made me feel better at the time.
I felt resentment, anger, and most of all cried myself to sleep most nights, even wanted to give him a second chance. So in the end (I must have been crackers to even think it) I gave him a second chance, and he blew it again on Valentines day (oh yes Sooo romantic lol).
Trouble was, Dan was 30, I was 21 at the time (turned 22 in May).
But looking back, without Dan, without him being way more experienced, I could never have known what a good relationship should really provide without going through the bad bits as well.
For good measure my dad fell out with me for coming out (I bet you remember my post on that one guys!) and I ended up moving out when I managed to walk again.
Anyway, never, EVER give up guys, there are so many cute, wonderful gay guys out there, go get em! What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger! I now look back only at the good things to come out of my relationships, and use those bad times to remember how low I got, the hurt and the pain and try to learn from those mistakes.
Things are different now, 5 relationships in one year (all mostly crap), and a tonne load of learning to do (I've always been monogamous, just a little too clingy prehaps), and I've met Keith.
I've only been dating him two weeks now, and its a long distance relationship, but I know I can make it work.
You'll probably make a tonne of mistakes like I did, but no one is perfect, and I'm not very good at telling it how it is lol (make a crap lay-preacher) but I learn from experience lmao.
Anyway I better try to get some sleep now. Good luck guys. Happy new year to all on Jub.
xXx
I met Dan at my mates party, it was a great night, he was a magician, and he showed me some nifty mind-reading tricks. After a few beers, I got talking to him quite a lot, I learned a fair bit about him, and it was obvious he really liked me. So later on I get back to my mates house, as you do, pretty drunk (thank god her parents didn't see anything - they were away for the weekend lol!).
He chatted me up there and then while I was crashed out on the sofa, he basically asked me if I wanted to go back to his place. What was funny is that my mate dragged Dan to one side and told him not to hurt my feelings, as my last "boyfriend" (nee one night stand because he hated commitment *sigh*) walked out on me, and not to cause any grief lmao.
So poor Dan doesn't know whether he's coming or going, so we end up eventually getting a taxi to his house, and its the first time I've ever been kissed (yes I was 21 at the time, my first "real" relationship lol, I'm 22 now and had three relationships since lol all crap, till now). We stayed up, and then got chatting a lot about each other, then moved on to hobbies, interests, our skills, school and how we coped with homophobia, coming out, family, friends etc, then we got onto the topic of sex.
Hmm I can remember it now, his line was "So how good is your bilingual skill then?" hahaha the worst line I've ever heard to entice someone to give you a blowjob if every there was one!
The sex from that relationship was great, went through the "honeymoon" period which normally goes nicely, then it went wrong shortly afterwards. He went away for a few days, god only knows where, and he never told me, so there I am ringing him trying to get in touch because I miss him. Well he "ran out of credit". Now excuse me for being a little picky here, but surely if you run out of credit you do your best to at least grab a payphone and let your boyfriend know your OK? I was worried, it seemed out of character. If only I knew, IF ONLY lmao (thats what they all say right?).
Well he stopped texting me, ringing me, and tried to cut all contact with me, sometimes I'd strike it lucky and walk down to his flat and he'd be in. He'd finished from a long term relationship himself, which he never told me about till after we broke up. So one night, early Jan 2006, one week into Uni, I go out to try to see Dan, and surprise surprise he's not there. I went to my mates house, she lived not far away, saved a long walk home lol, and we went out clubbing that night. I got completely wrecked, so drunk I could hardly move lol.
Well I have a freak accident with a piggyback, and poor Nett comes tumbling over my head, bless her little cotton socks, knowing my balance is crap anyway, so I try to run to save us both from falling but its too late, I crush my right femur bone between the pavement and her body, it snaps like a twig, my leg bent at right angles, then she comes flying over the top of me and just grazes her hands. I spent 5 days in hospital, and did Dan ring me to see if I was OK? Did he visit? Did he HECK!!!
Only three weeks later, whilst I hobble around home on crutches (I got saved the plaster on my leg lol just got a titanium plate in there), did he admit he cheated on me, with his best mate I met about two months earlier!!! I was so fuming I smashed my mobile phone up into little pieces, it didn't do my phone any good, but it made me feel better at the time.
I felt resentment, anger, and most of all cried myself to sleep most nights, even wanted to give him a second chance. So in the end (I must have been crackers to even think it) I gave him a second chance, and he blew it again on Valentines day (oh yes Sooo romantic lol).
Trouble was, Dan was 30, I was 21 at the time (turned 22 in May).
But looking back, without Dan, without him being way more experienced, I could never have known what a good relationship should really provide without going through the bad bits as well.
For good measure my dad fell out with me for coming out (I bet you remember my post on that one guys!) and I ended up moving out when I managed to walk again.
Anyway, never, EVER give up guys, there are so many cute, wonderful gay guys out there, go get em! What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger! I now look back only at the good things to come out of my relationships, and use those bad times to remember how low I got, the hurt and the pain and try to learn from those mistakes.
Things are different now, 5 relationships in one year (all mostly crap), and a tonne load of learning to do (I've always been monogamous, just a little too clingy prehaps), and I've met Keith.
I've only been dating him two weeks now, and its a long distance relationship, but I know I can make it work.
You'll probably make a tonne of mistakes like I did, but no one is perfect, and I'm not very good at telling it how it is lol (make a crap lay-preacher) but I learn from experience lmao.
Anyway I better try to get some sleep now. Good luck guys. Happy new year to all on Jub.
xXx
KennyD
Dr. Good Hands
My first Gay date was a very good buddy and I went to a kind of honky tonk joint with some friends .. There was a really good band playing, yet no one was dancing. One of the friends said he'd give me $20 if I could take my buddy out on the dance floor and dance .... Hell; I grabbed "D" by the hand, lead him to the dance floor and we slow danced . As we danced, we both got closer and closer with boners growing till we could actually feel each others ..we were so close ...
Anyway; all of those rednecks were hollering and clappping and urging us on as we danced another dance ..I diped my bud and kissed him on the lips in front of God and everybody to all the applause one could hope for ...
We went back to my place where a lot more took place .. He called his G/f the next day and broke up ... He and I were together for over four years ...
Anyway; all of those rednecks were hollering and clappping and urging us on as we danced another dance ..I diped my bud and kissed him on the lips in front of God and everybody to all the applause one could hope for ...
We went back to my place where a lot more took place .. He called his G/f the next day and broke up ... He and I were together for over four years ...
First date I went on was pretty special. Me and my boyfriend went to the movies, then went out to a club and ended it with a walk along the beach and sat in the sand watching the sunrise.
That was probably one othe best dates I've been on.
That was probably one othe best dates I've been on.
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I was 20 y/o. I'd had gay sex before but never a formal date. We were both in the Army near Philadelphia. A couple of weeks before we had gone to the beach in southern New Jersey. The sun, the surf, a few drinks and a few joints had put us in a great mood. When we got back we went to my cadre room and Jim fucked me for the first time. About a week or two later we made a date to go to a civilian theater to see a movie. When the movie was over, we went back to the car with the idea of going back to my room for sex. We couldn't keep our hands off of each other or out of the others crotch. We pulled the car into a little used country road, crawled into the backseat and did a quick 69. We had a few other dates after that until I went to Vietnam. Mostly we were just fuck buddies. Jim, if you are out there reading this, contact me. I'd love to chat and catch up.
First Date
- We went out for pizza and then walked for hours and then sat on my balcony until the sun came up and fell asleep on my bed
- From what I can remember we went to a market and bought pasta, chicken breasts and a bottle of Kendall Jackson Chardonay and then went back to my place and prepared and enjoyed dinner. That was nine years and about fifty-one weeks ago and we're still going strong
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BrandonSBCA
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I don't consider the meeting I met with a 34 year old to be exactly a date, some say it was. But I don't think so, because it only led to me having oral with him.
bluedragon4
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I can't even remember my first date or my first kiss! I am only 33 but I have dated up a storm! My 20's and late teens were all dating and having fun. I will say i had a lot of meeting guys and having sex with them and then we would go on a date. I really have had more dates with more different men than anyone one person should! But it was all a great time. No regrets!
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I have never been on a date... Sorry.
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my first date was a while after my first sexual experiences. i had already had sex with the guy. we went to play golf (not with grass, but those courses with only the putters) and afterwards to a friday night buffet at a gay bar, and later back to his place and had sex with a lot of affection involved.
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I'm still in the process of coming out so no first dates for me, but I do have a couple of "first flirts."
The first time something like this ever happened was a few weeks ago. I was sitting in a restaurant and I looked over at the bar and noticed this really really HOT guy sitting there. Hard to explain it but he was the first guy I ever looked at and I felt my heart pace quicken. Of course I ogled him for a few minutes before that "OMG what if he's straight and catches me" thought came to mind so I stopped looking and intentionally avoided looking at him for the rest of the meal. (Yay for self control!)
So I almost forgot about the guy when I got up to leave the restaurant...I just happened to look over and he was staring at me...very hard in fact. I got really nervous, cuz of course I'm a really shy guy...not the most confident either...and at the time I was very closeted, and I looked away from him for a minute. Of course I looked back again later and saw that he was still sitting there staring at me very deeply...and smiling. Then he winked. Of course that was the first time any guy had ever done that so I blushed and quietly left. I'm such a moron, lol.
Last time I was in a store a few days ago. I went to the check out counter to check out some stuff and the cashier commented on my "nice sweater." I laughed it off saying thanks and he pressed on...talking about how he wanted it for himself...and he kept smiling at me. He was scanning those items a little slowly too. When I left he said, "Come back when you're ready to give me that sweater." Was he flirting with me? I'm not quite sure...but it did brighten my day.
I'm not the most outgoing guy so it may be hard for me to get that elusive 'first date.' But when I do, I'll post it for you guys!
The first time something like this ever happened was a few weeks ago. I was sitting in a restaurant and I looked over at the bar and noticed this really really HOT guy sitting there. Hard to explain it but he was the first guy I ever looked at and I felt my heart pace quicken. Of course I ogled him for a few minutes before that "OMG what if he's straight and catches me" thought came to mind so I stopped looking and intentionally avoided looking at him for the rest of the meal. (Yay for self control!)
So I almost forgot about the guy when I got up to leave the restaurant...I just happened to look over and he was staring at me...very hard in fact. I got really nervous, cuz of course I'm a really shy guy...not the most confident either...and at the time I was very closeted, and I looked away from him for a minute. Of course I looked back again later and saw that he was still sitting there staring at me very deeply...and smiling. Then he winked. Of course that was the first time any guy had ever done that so I blushed and quietly left. I'm such a moron, lol.
Last time I was in a store a few days ago. I went to the check out counter to check out some stuff and the cashier commented on my "nice sweater." I laughed it off saying thanks and he pressed on...talking about how he wanted it for himself...and he kept smiling at me. He was scanning those items a little slowly too. When I left he said, "Come back when you're ready to give me that sweater." Was he flirting with me? I'm not quite sure...but it did brighten my day.
I'm not the most outgoing guy so it may be hard for me to get that elusive 'first date.' But when I do, I'll post it for you guys!
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Mine's about to take place today (with a guy that is).
Good luck! Let us know how it goes.
Alive and Free
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I remember the first time i became very concoius of the fact that i was checking a guy out in an olive garden in PA at that time i still couldent admit to myself that i was gay but i sure recall how much i enjoyed it.
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We were in a cafe, and in our conversations he kept saying the word "gay" all the time - it just drove me crazy!! I was mega-closeted (still am sort of) and I always looked around to make sure no one heard us speak.
Since then I made sure my dates would not be in crowded public places - just a walk by the beach or a park is fine.
Since then I made sure my dates would not be in crowded public places - just a walk by the beach or a park is fine.