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What was your first time at a gay club like?

I had a fantastic time...went with a good friend of mine and a bunch of others that I knew. Kinda like averageguy, I felt so comfortable being around people who weren't afraid to kiss one another and all that. I never stay late when I go out clubbing cause I hate the trek home, but I stayed until last call at 3am and slowly made my way home, it was fantastic. I got hit on by an older guy, he kissed my neck and stuff and I politely told him I wasn't interested. I didn't let it ruin my experience though;)

Oh, and the strippers, HOLY HELL were they hot! I didn't even know they had strippers at this particular club, but wow, it was hot!
 
Funny robrtac. My first name is Eric as well. Anyways, I'm not out of the closet just yet but I don't really know how to meet other gay people as well (No gaydar!). I would assume that gay bars would be a great way to meet other gay men but I just don't know. What would you guys advise?
 
Shinobuu said:
Funny robrtac. My first name is Eric as well. Anyways, I'm not out of the closet just yet but I don't really know how to meet other gay people as well (No gaydar!). I would assume that gay bars would be a great way to meet other gay men but I just don't know. What would you guys advise?
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NO! Gay bars are only a place to hook-up and drink. You will meet a lot of guys but not quality men. Not sure what would be a good place to meet men? Do you have a gay community center?
 
Mixed feelings. It was nice to feel acceptance among so many people, but the gay bar is not my establishment of choice. I spent much of the evening upstairs overlooking the dance floor from the balcony.
 
MY FIRST TIME AT A GAY CLUB was when I was on vacation, and I was in the closet with no experience so far. I searched for a gay club on the internet and decided to go one night. I ditched the people I was with (telling them I was tired) and took a cab ALL ALONE to this gay club.

I couldnt believe it when I went inside - all men - all looking good - all dancing with each other. This happened to be a trashy club too, so everyone was having sex, doing drugs and doing it in the "dark room" lol. Kinda shocking for me, and I realized that I was entering into a world of whores, lol.

I managed to hook up for the first time that night. Too bad it was anonymous, but at least it was something.
 
I just went there last night with my friends. Annoyingly there were quite a few straight couples including one guy who kept trying to pull down his trousers so that his girl friend would give him a blowjob but thankfully she refused! There were gay men there but people usually stuck to their own clique of friends. I danced around with my friends but I think I danced a bit too energetically cos I saw two girls giving me odd looks and I kept bumping into people. Anyway I didn't really give a damn cos I was really enjoying myself!

Considering that this is the biggest gay club in the area I was expecting something much more sleezy with lots of man-on-man action. Unfortunately not a lot of that happened!
 
I went to my first gay bar in February and I have to say, I had a blast! I probably would never have gone on my own but in this case I had a good friend, centexfarmer to you fellow JUBers, who went with me.

The one we went to was very nice and populated by lots of good looking people. I didn't dance or anything like that (two left feet) and honestly we stayed towards the back of the bar and just enjoyed each others company and the view around us. It was cool to be in an environment where everyone was being upfront and not hiding anything. And of course there was Chad, the shot guy. Wow.

I would like to go again and probably will in the future. To me I think it would be more fun to go with friends than on my own. So we'll see.
 
Sorry for the bump...just wanted to get some guidance from you guys. I'm going overseas in a few months and might wanna check out sum gay bars with my friends, maybe hookup with sum1. What's the best way to approach someone? Just go up to them and start chatting?

I'm a little helpless around girls as well so any help you can give me would be great :D
 
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