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What would you do if someone (ie me) asked to use a condom even for oral?

if we're meeting and you brought it up at the time we got together I'd laugh, then say no and ask you to leave. if we were talking about getting together and you brought it up before we met I'd just quit replying to you.

Steven
 
I'd be all for it and here's why;

It isn't "If your sans-raincoat wearing partner has something" it's "When your sans-raincoat wearing partner gets something and gives it to you." There's too many sti's out there and several of them are medication-resistant. Sucking on a fungal infection (contrary to the several posters above me, I know damn well you can't always tell if you have something, even something as simple as a fungal infection which is often mistaken for chapped skin to the uninitiated.) -either way it isn't the wisest move, and precum/cum isn't any safer in your mouth than it is in your ass, particularly if you practice regular dental hygiene. Those microscopic abrasions from your toothbrush are a bitch for letting things in your bloodstream.

And bluntly, I don't fuck people who think so little of my health that they're willing to pass along a disease just because they want an easy orgasm. No one needs the kind of sex where y'give up basic self respect like that.

-edited to add, You fuckers need a health class or five. You're on the internet, this shit is free - go learn something before you regret your choices. And you will regret them, I promise you. And before you decide to pipe up that condoms will severely hamper your chances of getting a blow job, let alone getting laid - no, it really doesn't. Currently somewhere in the mid-to-high thirties myself and safer sex is mandatory.
 
We bought some flavoured condoms just to see what they were about. Cherry, banana, and strawberry, as I recall.

They are sticky, they taste awful – a combination of shoddy candy fading quickly to latex – and the colours are freakishly vibrant.

Any unflavoured, or pre-lubed, I'd imagine, would taste and feel much worse – like a dentist's gloves.

What a mess. Not interested.
 
If you're talking about hookups online, you should mention it before the person actually meets up with you to make sure that they are OK with it and you aren't wasting either of your time.

I'm assuming most people looking for hookups on apps and on Craigslist are unlikely going to be very open to using a condom for oral (even though it is wiser and safer).

I know I would on somebody I didn't know.... but then again, I don't do the Grindr/online hookup thing, so I don't really get put in that situation.
 
I would respect you for asking, but politely decline.

This is for the oral, anal is always mandatory, or at least was when i was single.
 
It is a dilemma isn't it. Oral sex with a condom is not terrific; in fact it slightly makes the whole idea null and void.

On the other hand one does want to stay healthy and if one is sucking cocks attached to complete strangers condoms save you from infection.

It really is a risk evaluation situation. All I can say is that for my own personal pleasure I wouldn't see any point in oral if my partner insisted on wearing a condom.
 
OMG! People have oral sex without condoms??? You're all sluts, and are going to get HIV! RUSSIAN ROULETTE!!!!
 
Vitamin said:
OMG! People have oral sex without condoms??? You're all sluts, and are going to get HIV! RUSSIAN ROULETTE!!!!
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Of course people have oral sex without condoms. How do you think sti's in the throat are gotten? Butterflies and puppies?

In other really-not-surprising news, y'can drop the cries of "slut shaming" as well. It's awfully self-serving behavior to go "Poor me" while ignoring that some of the people who disagree with you are sluts in the colloquial definition.
 
luckynumbah7 said:
In other really-not-surprising news, y'can drop the cries of "slut shaming" as well. It's awfully self-serving behavior to go "Poor me" while ignoring that some of the people who disagree with you are sluts in the colloquial definition.
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I see you're still flat out refusing to listen to anything I said, or the context of it.
 
Vitamin said:
*GASP* Really? I thought the condoms broke.
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Not if you use them correctly, which shows how much you know about them.

In all seriousness, go get yourself tested. I'd bet some serious cash you're asymptomatic for something judging from your cries of "Lack of condom use, it's not an issue, really!" and "I get plenty of sex."

A Hint - You really, really should use condoms, among other safer sex practices, if you plan on fucking strangers.

Edited to add - You also make the people who've thoughtfully reasoned their condom mitigation look bad. There's a difference between taking a knowing risk and going "Someone's choices only matter if there's no repercussions to those choices".
 
luckynumbah7 said:
Not if you use them correctly, which shows how much you know about them.

In all seriousness, go get yourself tested. I'd bet some serious cash you're asymptomatic for something judging from your cries of "Lack of condom use, it's not an issue, really!" and "I get plenty of sex."

A Hint - You really, really should use condoms, among other safer sex practices, if you plan on fucking strangers.
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Once again, you're making assumptions about my lifestyle while knowing next nothing about it. I get tested for HIV orally every 6 months with an over-the-counter product. Every year, the VA makes me do a blood test for HIV, along with tons of other illnesses, that all veterans enrolled in the VA health system have to take as part of an annual physical. I am quite confident in my status as DDF, thank you so fucking much.

Btw, where did I say "I get plenty of sex." or "Condom use doesn't matter, really!"? LOL!
 
justaguy said:
Somewhere along the line, I'm missing the point of this post????
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I'm venting steam from another thread. I know it's probably something I really shouldn't be doing to ya, but it's really pissing me off.
 
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