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What would you do if.......

  • Thread starter Thread starter Missec
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Missec

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You caught your man standing out in the middle of your street gauking a young boy ridding his bike down the street? :eek: :grrr:

or caught your man looking at your roommate and he was making comments about wanting to see him nude.
:grrr:

What would you guys do in this case...... So angry right now.... and Sad.
 
Throw something at him.

But seriously, I'd holler something like "What are you looking at?" or "Would you care to share that with the rest of the class?"

Or you can ignore him.
 
looking is free

talk is cheap

you don't look at the pictures here in jub?

you don't wonder what people look like nude?

bah humbug
 
looseliam said:
Throw something at him.

But seriously, I'd holler something like "What are you looking at?" or "Would you care to share that with the rest of the class?"

Or you can ignore him.
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Oh I did ask him what he was doing looking at the boy on the bike, this kid was about 12 -13 yo. I yelled at him and was like wtf? I told him never to let me catch him doing that again. I told I live here and he didnt, I didnt want that kids parents knocking down my door.

And when I confronted him about what he said to my roomy, his reply was "oh it must be my meds"

ugh, I give up.
 
I'd probably be gawking with him, simple as that. it's not harmful to look, it is to touch. I feel if someone is hot, you should say it, otherwise, your'e simply lying to yourself.
 
I think it is a big mistake people think that their lovers will have only eyes for them and not be attracted to someone else.
 
Well, short of gauging out his eyes and cutting off his tongue, I'd say you two should just talk about it together as adults. When one party is in a huff quite often, the other party doesn't know why you're in such a huff, making your huff a pointless show of huffiness.
 
star-warrior said:
Well, short of gauging out his eyes and cutting off his tongue, I'd say you two should just talk about it together as adults. When one party is in a huff quite often, the other party doesn't know why you're in such a huff, making your huff a pointless show of huffiness.
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good point thanks
 
sorry, probably i don't have the answer you were looking for.. i would gawk with him and compare what we like and dislike on the other person.. like, hey he's got a nice bum, but his nose is kinda long..
 
just one more thing...don't you think your roomie (not the b/f) got an ego stroke out of the deal? come on, put your insecurites back in the closet, if he's your man than its' no big deal, if he isn't say bye bye
 
Missec said:
Oh I did ask him what he was doing looking at the boy on the bike, this kid was about 12 -13 yo. I yelled at him and was like wtf? I told him never to let me catch him doing that again. I told I live here and he didnt, I didnt want that kids parents knocking down my door.
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Umm, before you fly off the handle, did you ask for your boyfriend to put the "gawking" into context?

Does he know this kid on the bike?
Did he just help the kid on the bike?
Did the kid on the bike just do something that warrants "gawking," such as pushing another child?

As for:
Missec said:
caught your man looking at your roommate and he was making comments about wanting to see him nude.
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The last time I checked it was considered polite and common practice to look at someone when they are talking to you.
Was this "looking" unacceptable?
Was it more of a "gawking" than a "looking"?
Was the looking directed somewhere you deem inappropriate (i.e. one's crotch)?
Could it be the topic was more unacceptable than the behaviour you decided to mention?
Again, context is needed here.

Don't over presuppose, assume, or over react.
 
tell him to pack his bags or better, pack them for him and put them by the door
 
i would look at my watch and then tell him "are you done yet?" and when he sees that i'm pissed and tried to say something to me, I would just interrupt him by saying "see ya!" and i'd just go away. I don't like spending time with someone who's not willing to spend his with me
 
You can read the menu, you don't have to order the food. Everyone checks out other guys, all the time, whats wrong in my opinion. But as it obviously bothers you, I would talk to him about it, but if it was me my I would be a bit shocked by your reaction.
 
Missec,
Here are some givens......
  • it's okay to look at other sexy guys and admire their beauty (looking is free, and it's perfectly normal)
  • it's okay to feel jealous (again, it's a normal thing)
  • don't forget that he may be admiring other guys, but he chose YOU as his boyfriend
What to do.....
  • talk to him about it. Dont come to any rash conclusions until you both have talked. Let him know it's bothering you, but listen to his side too.
  • be open to his suggestions, but don't let him walk all over you.
  • come to a mutually agreeable end
How I know this.....
  • I am one-half of an incredible 11 -year relationship with a man six-years my junior. He is a totally handsome, head-turning hunk who gets glances from both genders. But his heart and soul, and buff body belong to me.
  • We talk...and believe it or not, he sometimes has the same feelings of jealousy about me (and I'm nowhere near as handsome as he is)
  • the bottom line for us is that we talk, and we trust each other.
 
Life is a candy store - you can look at all the delicious sweets but you better not touch anything unless you plan on paying for it.

You have every right to be jealous, it's quite a natural emotion, but as long as he's just looking there's nothing to do but tell him it bothers you and *hope* he stops (or at least stops making it so obvious).
 
ronboy said:
  • it's okay to look at other sexy guys and admire their beauty (looking is free, and it's perfectly normal)
  • it's okay to feel jealous (again, it's a normal thing)
  • don't forget that he may be admiring other guys, but he chose YOU as his boyfriend
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What to do.....

  • Its ok to look at other sexy guys - I agree there, but when the guy is 12 I think its wrong. We as gays have a bad rap as it is.
  • Not to sure if that was jealous. More like consirened. My roomy is umm still in the closet and for my bf to say that to him was not a good thing for me. I like to keep peace in my home. I dont like to have someone interrupt my way of life.
  • again, I don't care if he looks at other guys, thats not the issue. The issue is everyone feeling comfortable in my home.

Congrats on you 11 years together. :D
 
There is a big difference between looking at someone and doing anything with them. If I see a pretty 12 year old girl I will look at her, it doesn't mean I want to have sex with her. People who go all gooey over young babies aren't all pedophiles. I think you over react somewhat. The incident with your room mate again talk not wtf. In interestingly you say your room mate is still in the closet. How do you know that? If he has told you he is gay then he is not in the closet. If he has not told you then he may be straight and so also not in the closet.

Sounds to me like he has just embarrassed you. I should talk to him before you make up your mind to castrate him!
 
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