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What would you do in my situation?

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There is a guy who i have a huge crush on, that ive only recently got to know, He is gay, and he went to my highschool. We ere never friends, and Ive only recently come out, so thats the reason why we have become friends.

Anyway, He has a boyfriend, and I just dont know what to do, I really like him, and sometimes he'll give me eye contact and body language which suggests to me like hes intrested, and hes text me saying he really likes me (as a friend), other times i feel like hes giving me the third degree, and I feel desprate.
What should I do? Obviously im not trying to split him and his boyfriend up, but i dont think id care too much if he broke up with him for me lol!

what would you guys do:confused:
 
Continue being his friend and nothing else. Should his relationship break up there could be an opportunity for something else
 
The way I see it is, like this, if they are willing to cheat on their bf. then I dont want them. Cause they will cheat on you too.

Be his friend only.
 
Ya' know ... How would YOU feel if YOU had a B/F and he Cheated on YOU ? Wait your turn or find someone else. In the meantime , you and he can still be friends .
 
if i was you i wouldnt care about his boyfriend,i say GO GET HIM!
if you really want this guy ,do anything to get him!:)
 
Peto Antoni said:
LAY OFF MERCHANDISE THAT'S TAKEN!

Even if he gives you the eye or whatever else you mentioned, don't get involved with someone with a b.f. Even if he does want to fuck around for awhile......... You'd be making a big mistake if you did.

O.K., you've got a crush on him, but be a man and tell him not to be flirting with you as it makes you uncomfortable, not to mention the b.f.

In a few months you probably won't have the same sexual feeling for him. If you do, know you've done the decent thing.

There are so many wonderful, cute gay gize out there........ Go and find yourself one who isn't hitched!
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Couldn't have set it better myself. Never, ever, ever go after another's BF/GF[-X . If anybody ever did that to me, i'd have to pull a "Lorena Bobit (sp):bartshock.
 
^Just kidding about the LB bit, but I would not be a very happy person that's for sure...
 
don't be involved in any way with the demise of another relationship, no matter how indirect. and, if it happened, you probably would wonder later about his commitment to you.
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Just be his friend, but try to be with someone who is available.
 
Friend only. It wouldn't hurt to make friends with his boyfriend so you feel less tempted to like him.

Any guy who leaves their boyfriend for you is BAD. It's not about you. It's about "greener pastures." Guys like that will dump you for another guy they like just a bit more. Then you will know what being at the other end of betrayal is like.
 
The situation is difficult, Im not a bad person. And ive tried to make friends with his boyfriend.

Small Update.
I havent been msging brad cos I told my self, if he msgs me, then i can msg back. Last night it was Newyears, and he told me, he really likes me, and wanted to be with me, but he didnt know what to do about his boyfriend, I told him to do what his heart tells him, not to worry about what I want. I tried to handle the situation as best as I could, but like I said, I cant stop thinking about him, and if there can be a chance, i dont want to let it pass me by.

am I doing the right thing.
 
Sort of. You could have done a little better by saying, "The last thing I want to do is break-up a relationship. How can we be together when our relationship is founded on heartbreak?"

Becareful of his weakness. Note his behavior. Because he could very well do the same thing to you in the future if he found someone "better."
 
it doesnt matter now anyway, he decided to stay with his boyfriend!
good learning curve none the less. But Im so heartbroken
 
Well... you have a good friend... that's a start.

Now go find your own man.
 
thomas428 said:
it doesnt matter now anyway, he decided to stay with his boyfriend!
good learning curve none the less. But Im so heartbroken
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That's good. Keep it at that. If he has problems with his boyfriend in the future, then it's ok to fill in that void. Just as long as you are not the reason for their breaking up.

In the mean time, you have a very good friend who cares about you. :)
 
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