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what would you do or say if someone calls you fag**t?

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Depends on my mood.

Usually I just laugh at them or roll my eyes and say "yeah?".

Occasionally if I'm in a rowdy enough mood I'll get in the ri face, but that's rare.

Generally they just want attention, and giving it to them.. negative or positive.. is just what they want.
 
Last time I was called a faggot as an insult I just looked at the guy, yawned, turned my back on him and walked away. I really wanted to see his face, but if I turned around, he would've seen the huge smile on mine.
 
Sweetie...

I'm 6"2' and 225 lbs.....

I guess I'm lucky that nobody fucks with me.

Not that I'm such a 'bad ass' or anything, but the few times that it
has come up I just basically answer, "That's right, M-Fer...Ya wanna do something about it... ?

Ehh... It's all 'frontin' really, cause truth be told I'd have NO idea what to
do in a real fight,

So far, so good.

I remember a quote that only J will remember.... "Ahh know who you are,
Ahh know where you live... I will Cut you ! "

It's all just BS, really. ;)

Josh
 
In the past , I would have been humiliated like I have hundreds of times, but today, I would confront them and bring to light their own insecurities and show them we are just as human as they are with faults and short comings that eveyone has, no matter the sexual orientaiton.
 
Good question...normally I'd probably just ignore them, it's not worth my time but if they really piss me off then I'll beat them down...I don't care if it is in the middle of a crowded street, then they're gonna get their asses handed to them in front of an audience.
 
There's always that great line from Highlander the movie!

Cop: Are you a Fa**ot, Nash?

Nash: Why? Are you crusing for a nice piece of ass?


you have to see it to truly enjoy the line! ;)
 
Not had lot's of experience with people calling me names but whenever it did happen I just left it alone. Ignore it. Maybe cry about it internally when you got home but don't ever show any emotion publicy.
 
I dunno...

I guess back in Jr. High days there were lots of the 'normal guys'
calling me 'faggot' as if they had figured it out before I had.

(and, truth be told, I suppose they had)

But, I remember all too clearly how names like 'faggot' and 'gay boy'
just cut me to my core.

I litterally would have prefered to be beaten than to hear those names
shouted at me.

But, the good news is...for those younger than you should be reading this...
It *DOES* get better. MUCH better.

"Time makes you bolder", guys.

It really does.

Bottom line: I'm a '30-something' fag, and guess what ? I couldn't be prouder of it.

Hang in there.

There's faith and strength in numbers, and also an entirely unexpected sense
of "I really don't give an F about what you think"


that just gets stronger and stronger.'
 
Like Joshua me has said, being a nicely built guy myself, I haven't
had to worry too much about people yelling things at me. So if
somebody has ever said something about me, it's been under their breath
so that I didn't hear it...like most cowards tend to be.
If it ever did happen, I would have no problem walking up to them
and asking them to repeat what they said. A-holes will never pick
on people that they feel might put them in their place...it's their spineless
nature. I would also do the same if I heard somebody say it about
anybody else.
 
While I frequently fantasize about snappy comebacks or bloody shoot-em-ups whenever I hear such comments, my reaction has always been No Reaction. I just act as if I didn't hear anything at all... no noise, even. It's a skill I honed in elementary school, to simply not react in any way. As Jasun pointed out above, they are seeking a reaction from me, either indignation or embarrassment, and I refuse to give such people what they want.

But once, the temptation to react almost overcame me. I was leaving a drag show in San Rafael, I was in a bit of a pissy mood, and as I was putting my bags in the trunk, some kid in front of Double Rainbow, clear in my peripheral vision, shouts out "Hey, Faggot!" He was a teenager, maybe sixteen or seventeen, tall but grossly overweight. Though I didn't turn to look at him, nor physically react in any way, I have excellent peripheral vision and could clearly see the sneer on his face.

Now most of the time, when I hear such comments, it's from a moving car or a group of five or more... never from one perfectly stationary kid all alone in front of an ice-cream shop. The novelty got right in amongst me.

"What do you want, Fatass?" was on the tip of my tongue, struggling to get out. I knew I could beat the crap out of him, especially since I had a tire-iron to hand (in my old Volvo, I never figured out how to get the tire-changing kit puzzled back into its little space under the trunk floor, so the jack and iron were always floating around the trunk); but although he was quite alone, there were far too many witnesses in the ice-cream shop and out on the street.

My habitual nonreaction won the day, I was back in my car and halfway to the bridge before the temptation to bait the kid and then attack him if necessary won over my usual mannered reserve. But I was steaming mad, and replayed the fantasy of baiting him and then taking a tire-iron to his head right in front of twenty witnesses all the way home.

The adrenaline rush of just imagining what I might do scared the hell out of me. All I can say is that kid was lucky as hell I have so much impulse control.
 
The late Rod Steiger in "No Way To Treat A Lady" had a great line.

He liked to kill middle aged women while dressing and impersonating a woman. His disguises were quite convincing. He is accused by a police detective of being a f-ing faggot (but not yet a murderer) to which he replies, "Well, that doesn't make me a bad person."
 
JumboJimmy said:
I like to know if someone in the street teases you, calling you names, what would you do?

Remember this is a street we are talking about, so picking up a fight is a "no-no" as this could lead you with a crimminal record.

Back in High school, I use to get pick-on, and teased at. I was a fraidy cat and did nothing, and would end up feeling low for the rest of the day.

Now, those memories keep coming back to me. I should have stood up for myself. What could I do without feeling humiliated?
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That happened to me once, years ago, as I was giving a safety talk at a refinery to about 20 guys. This guy said to me, "I saw you in the Quarters (French Quarter) this weekend kissing another guy. I guess that makes you a faggot."

I said I had been responsible for their safety at the plant for five years, had bandaged many of them, taken them to the hospital, performed CPR on one and saved his life after he had a heart attack. Does it really make a difference to you who I kiss?

Some shuffling back and forth and then one said, "No, I guess not".

Then I said, "Well you will never know for sure anyway unless I fuck you, now will you?" They broke out laughing. Never caught anymore grief from that one guy after that.

Of course, you could never say anything like that in a work situation these days, but that was long, long ago.
 
"Now, I'm not the one who's not associating with the ladies all the time!"

"I have more than 10 girlfriends and kissed all the ladies' cheeks before saying goodbye to them.How many do you have?Who's the fag**t now?"

"Oh yeah, prove it."Then just act straight.

"And what makes you think you're not one?"

"So, what's your point?"

"Hm, interesting..."

"And.....?"

For school drop-outs or loosers:"I rather be a fag**t than stupid/a looser."
 
I would stop and with a confused expression I would say

"Maggot? where? I can't find it... oh nooow I've found it!"

At this point I would be looking at him with the same regard I would have for those creepy crawlies.
 
"Thanks for noticing" or "Faggot today, baby last night...make up your mind" or "More of a man than you will ever be and more of a woman than you will ever have".
 
I am 53 years old and I have yet to have anyone ever use an epithet to refer to my sexuality. I did have a guy once (who knew I was gay) say "fuck you" to me. My response was "yeah and ya know what, it'd be the best piece you ever had". He stood there dumbfounded and then just walked away, lol.
 
I'd reply "that's Mr Faggot to you"
 
I was in Walgreens one time waiting in line, and this kid asks a cashier where the magazines were. He was obviously gay, the way he dressed and the way he talked.

I thought nothing of it, then this butch-looking guy behind me starts trying to joke with me, "listen to that fag looking at magazines," blah blah the whole song and dance. I played along and laughed with him.

After I paid for my items, I noticed the kid looking at me and the guy, so I turned around towards the guy and said, "We fags give way better head though," then winked at him as I walked away. He was PISSED.

Im so cool.
 
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