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what would you do or say if someone calls you fag**t?

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Dosen't happen too often because I have an ugly demeanor. I does bother me when it happens but I ignore them and I hate myself for not standing up to them. It shocks and amazes me that someone would call a person a faggot, nigger, etc. I don't understand it.
 
Well I am 6ft 3in 215 lbs and no one so far has called me that. I find the way str8t's say that it is downgrading and is offensive to me. They wouldn't want to know what I would do to them if they did. The same applies if they said it to someone or a friend I was with. [-X [-X

I am not one to pick a fight/argument but I will finish it if need be.
 
Hmmm... it depends on how I feel. If i've had a shitty day i'd get in their face about it, but if i'm a cheery mood i'll just tell them to get a life. But if it got physical, or I felt threatened, I wouldn't hesitate to defend myself.
 
To be called a faggot, queer, etc. used to make me cry. I literally just wanted to be dead every time. Especially when I first came out. I'm just a sensitive guy. One day it dawned on me. No matter what cruel names were used to degrade me, they could never make me feel as suicidal as I felt in that damned closet. Call me a fag. The word is spoken, and then that moment passes, and is gone into the past. Life in the closet was a daily sadness only followed by yet another day of the same.

I'd rather be openly gay, hated for it, and hopeful of the possibility of a future lifetime of love with the right man, than to pretend to be straight, having hatefilled hypocrits happy with me, and wanting to die.

When I'm called a fag, I can only think back to that closet, and realize that I'm openly gay and out of the closet, and silently say thank you, and just walk on.
 
well... I rarely get called a faggot... I don't look gay.. and i'm not flamboyant

my reaction to being called one would depend...
I was once called a faggot when i was holding my (ex)bf's hand in a mall...
we responded by kissing and walking away

I was called a faggot by my sisters bf... I responded by crying.. of course.. I was gonna prolly cry that night even if he didn't say it...

I was called a faggot by one of my str8 friends... I got up.. walked over to him.. sat on his lap.. put my arm around his shoulder... leaned in... got closer and closer tohis lips.. and whispered.. don't u ever fucking call me that ever again... I proceeded to give him the hardest noogie i could

those are the only times I can rememeber
 
"I know you are, but what am I?" (!)
 
I'm a pretty muscular guy so I figured it would never happen but 2 years ago it did. I was standing in front of one of our bars here talking to a friend right at closing time. This guy walks up and says "where's all the ho's at?" I said they are coming out of the bar right now and he says "not them faggots". I said you need to watch how you use that word and he says "why, faggot". I told him it's gonna be real bad when you have to tell your buddies that the reason why your face looks like somebody hit it with an anvil is because you got your ass kicked by a faggot. He thought about it a sec and made the right decision and walked.

Davey
 
DaveyH said:
I'm a pretty muscular guy so I figured it would never happen but 2 years ago it did. I was standing in front of one of our bars here talking to a friend right at closing time. This guy walks up and says "where's all the ho's at?" I said they are coming out of the bar right now and he says "not them faggots". I said you need to watch how you use that word and he says "why, faggot". I told him it's gonna be real bad when you have to tell your buddies that the reason why your face looks like somebody hit it with an anvil is because you got your ass kicked by a faggot. He thought about it a sec and made the right decision and walked.

Davey
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Good Man! :=D:
 
about 10 years ago i was dating this really kinda built butch guy. we were walking from one gay bar to the other bar down the street and he and i were actually fighting about something. he was already heated from our fight and 3 younger guys came up to us(they were probably the age i was at the time but now it seems so young)one got into my bf's face and called him a fag. the guy came up to my bf's chin and my bf never even looked at the kid but put his hands on the kids face and pushed him to the ground. he acted like he was swating a fly away! the kids friends laughed at him so hard! my bf never even said a word about it.it's like he could care less. it was pretty hot if i must say.you could tell the kid was in shock cause i could tell he thought all gay guys were fem. that's what happens when you buy into what you see on tv! we are all types of people.
 
it's never happened to me, so now I have all these comebacks in my head. If it actually happens one day, I'd probably don't know what to say, and pretend I didn't hear it... those things don't get to me though, it's not really a personal insult...
 
Being called something is damn uncomfortable and I never say anything cuz it happens so fast. Just when I realize what happened, it's been like 2 o 3 secs long after it's "acceptable" to say something about it (either that or I'm too uncomfortable to even open my mouth). So I just walk away thinking I should've said something.

But what about when someone doesn't call you anything or they're not even close to you but they make noises and you know they're teasing you? Like "pss pss" in a feminine manner or whistle to ya and stuff like that. I wouldn't even know what to do in those cases. Anyone?
 
I would say " Well I may be gay but when I fucked your father lastnight he called your name not mine!"
 
i've been called "faggot" many timess i cannot count! since i was young i was abit feminem, i did had some self confidence problems about it... and still do, but now if someone calls me faggot i really dont care... i know i am an efeminated guy... i can't help it but at least nowadays i'm happy with who i am with all the goods and the bads i own.


last week i was at the beach with my friends... there was a group of macho bullies guys and they were trowing water to each other... and one of them came to throw water to us... and they started calling us names, i really amdired my friends cuz of their response when they were name called faggots... they didn't got offended or sad... they were sacractics and were telling lines like "as if you have to go to university to figure that out, duh!" "i'm not gay, i'm a straight woman trapped in a man's body" "thanks, i knew it!" "give me your father so he can fuck me!"

they name call you to make fun of you... so the best way is to be sarcastic about it... making them see that you aren't offended and sad will make them shut the fuck up
 
innocentbychoice said:
But what about when someone doesn't call you anything or they're not even close to you but they make noises and you know they're teasing you? Like "pss pss" in a feminine manner or whistle to ya and stuff like that. I wouldn't even know what to do in those cases. Anyone?
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I always get dirty looks from people as if they were saying "what a fag."

You just can't control people's thoughts.
 
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