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What's a better situation?

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Married (to a woman), bi guy here.

What's a better situation to seek out:

1) a local buddy, for regular play (the downside being I live in a small town and could potentially get caught)
2) a connection more remote, but less frequent potential for meeting up?
 
Local the extended trips late drives long drives all be a dead giveaway. If you live in a small town you can always say he's a friend and you're helping him with whatever but 1 ALWAYS AGREE ON A STORY SIMPLER IS BETTER! 2 It's not lying technically you're helping him with his cock! and vice versa! Watching a game can be a great excuse just don't say you went to a bar credit card recipts you know if you do use the bar excuse 1 pick a far off place and 2 pay in cash no paper trail. 3 Zig Zag your way there and back DO NOT TAKE THE SAME ROAD TO AND FROM YOUR HOOK UP! You never know if you're being followed one day. 4 CLEAR YOUR PHONE HISTORY AND MAKE SURE EMAILS AND CONVERSATIONS ARE NOT BEING UPLOADED OR SAVED TO THE CLOUD OR A SHARED MEMORY! Happy fucking!
 
Curiousguy10279 said:
Married (to a woman), bi guy here.

What's a better situation to seek out:

1) a local buddy, for regular play (the downside being I live in a small town and could potentially get caught)
2) a connection more remote, but less frequent potential for meeting up?
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Hi I was married from the time I was 23 until we divorced when I was 31. My wife and I have 2 sons I told her I was gay ans she understood and we are bnoth good friends and my sons love me and my now gay spouse !
 
There are lots of married bi men who in the same situation that you are in. Usually they may tell the wife an excuse they need to go out, do errands most of the guys I've chatted with online will say they are in a sexless marriage and usually go out and find men to have fun instead with the wife
 
I would hang out with the local friend and dress it as he's one of your buddies and were going to drink beer and watch the game.

My advice is don't be sloppy about it make sure you keep it on the low.
 
What are the consequence for being honest with your wife about who you really are/what your needs are? Is she under the impression that you are happy within your marriage or has it been unraveling over a period of time?

There will always be consequences to having to live a "split" life, or as it's called in Black culture, life on the "Down Low." Mistrust of others, suspiciousness and it only gets worse the longer you do it. So, can you tell her or not?
 
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Honesty is best policy.
Impromptu threesome with friends led to a few more. She called it off as she thought he and I were fooling around behind her back. I followed her rules.
Later invited him to join myself and a gf a few times, then learned he wasn't being honest with her, so I called it off. His wife still thought it was going on after that.
I was honest with her, but he wasn't and he got pissy about being found out.
 
i live alone in the country and like to find guys local on craigslist and have them come over late night.
 
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